Some people say that "thirty and standing, forty not confused, fifty know the destiny" refers to men, in fact, men and women are the same, fifty is a turning point in life.
There is a movie called "Fifty Women", which is the first one in China to reflect the living conditions of menopausal women, and women of this age are often criticized.
It is said that women fifty is a hurdle in life, and it has been smooth sailing since then, and it is actually still behind that it is difficult to step forward.
In any case, everyone has their own way of life, women reach the age of 50, do they still need a man, look at the personal feelings of these three people.
Ms. Liu, 57 years old, has a direction for life
Ms. Liu and her husband are free love, and in that era when most of them were still introduced by their parents, free love can be described as very rare.
However, because the man's family is far away, the parents are actually very opposed to this marriage, and in the eyes of the parents, the daughter is the best around.
Ms. Liu resolutely married for love, and thought that she would be happy for a lifetime, but it turned out that it was still the same a few years after marriage, and the couple still often quarreled.
Alone in a foreign country, without the support of her mother's family, Ms. Liu has suffered a lot of grievances, especially her husband's attitude towards her is getting worse and worse.
A lot of things are thrown to Ms. Liu, thinking that making a few money is great, going home like a grandfather, the relationship between husband and wife is getting worse and worse.
Often Ms. Liu was particularly broken, especially wanted to please her husband, and then slowly got used to everything, had her own circle of life, and was no longer so dependent on her husband.
Her husband is about to retire, and he intends to start repairing his relationship with himself in recent years, but Ms. Liu no longer cares, and a person can live better.
Ms. Yang, 59 years old, was a husband and wife when she was young
Ms. Yang and her husband were introduced to each other by a matchmaker, the two just met the first place a month before marriage, and the two sides did not understand anything, but the parents saw that the conditions of both sides were good, and they got married in a vacuum.
Perhaps today's young people are very incomprehensible, they can get married after knowing each other for a month, and they have never seen each other a few times, can such a marriage really be happy?
But every era has its own brand of each era, and for their time, many people's marriages are like this, so everyone doesn't feel anything.
Because of the lack of understanding, after marriage is naturally a mess, the husband's family seems to have good conditions, but the husband's mother died, the father married a stepmother, the husband is actually not favored.
It seems that a man who married a good family is actually worse than the general conditions, because he can't get the love of his father, and he is bullied by his stepmother, and his husband is timid and cowardly.
After so many years of marriage with her husband, Ms. Yang felt that it was a torment, but unfortunately, everyone did not dare to divorce at the beginning, otherwise they would have left long ago.
Two years ago, my husband had a serious illness, and some people almost went, and at that time I suddenly felt no hatred, as if everything was relieved, and I could only say that when I was young, the husband and wife came to be together.
Ms. Zhang, 58 years old, has enough sons
Ms. Zhang had two marriages, the first marriage was talked about by herself, and the result was that the man was not reliable at all, plus the two had no children, and they divorced directly.
The second marriage was introduced by a matchmaker, a 30-year-old old young man who was not yet married, and I heard that people are honest and introverted, but people are very good.
I thought it was a good match, and the result was that there were many problems, and it really responded to the old saying that people who are not married at an old age have some problems.
After having two children with her second husband and entangled for more than ten years, the two eventually divorced, the husband lived with the eldest son, and Ms. Zhang took the younger son.
After the divorce, Ms. Zhang took her son away from home and has been working and renting a house in the field, and Ms. Zhang has also invested all her energy into her younger son.
The younger son is also very competitive, his studies have been good, and he has a good job after graduation, and Ms. Zhang is very proud of it.
The son does not have to worry about himself, the burden on his body is suddenly light, and after a few years, when the son gets married, he will bring him a grandson at home, as for his wife and son, he has also considered himself, but Ms. Zhang feels that it is not necessary.