Family conflicts are often very difficult to resolve, because family conflicts are complex and multi-layered, ostensibly quarreling over a certain problem, but in fact, they are accumulating resentment before venting.
Therefore, if you want to solve family conflicts and do a good job in family atmosphere, the most important thing is to solve the problem and not let small problems become big problems.
Of course, in addition to the solution measures, preventive measures should also be done, such as a bowl of water between family members, can not favor one over the other.
After all, the old ancestors have long summed up that this person is often not suffering from widowhood but suffering from inequality, and he is not afraid of being afraid of unfair distribution after he has it.
Ms. Liu received a message from her relatives in her hometown, her husband who had disappeared for many years had actually returned, Ms. Liu had thought that the other party had died outside a long time ago, but she knew that the other party had suddenly returned.
Putting down the matter in her hand, Ms. Liu hurriedly bought a ticket to go home, and as a result, she was even more shocked when she arrived home, and her husband, who had disappeared for many years, occupied the magpie's nest and actually turned himself away.
Ms. Liu did not know how her husband entered the door, but also changed the lock for herself, let Ms. Liu get out, this house is his, although the two have not seen each other for many years, but they are still husband and wife, the police is also hoping that the two can mediate.
Just sat together, the husband scolded his wife Ms. Liu for all kinds of things, it is reasonable to say that a man who has been away from home for many years and seriously lacks responsibility for the family, how can he be so reasonable?
From her husband's accusations, it can be roughly heard that the reason why he did not quit at the beginning was because Ms. Liu betrayed him and betrayed the family of the two.
After the matter was said, the husband even said that the original situation had a nose and an eye, and insisted that he had caught the form and wanted to fight with his wife, but in the end he chose to escape.
For her husband's accusations, Ms. Liu kept shaking her head, bluntly saying that her husband threw dirty water on herself and said that she betrayed the marriage, then she could come up with evidence, if she really betrayed, why not be with that person after her husband left.
Seeing that everyone had doubts, the husband directly took out his old age machine and found the phone of the eldest son, hoping that the eldest son would explain the original matter clearly.
The eldest son said on the phone that his father was right, that his mother had betrayed his father and betrayed their family, and that he had always been in contact with his father, and that he was now going to take his old father back to enjoy the blessings.
Ms. Liu, who was still very calm before, suddenly broke down when she heard the accusations of her eldest son, loudly questioned the eldest son on the phone, and angrily scolded the other party for having no conscience.
Ms. Liu said that the reason why her husband ran away from home was not that she betrayed the marriage, but that her husband was infected with gambling and owed a lot of money.
A woman of her own who has worked hard to raise two sons to grow up, but also has to face a bunch of creditors to ask for debts, really very collapsed and desperate.
She had long since thought that her husband was dead, so how her husband said that he was fine, but his eldest son who had worked hard to bring up also said this about himself, and Ms. Liu could not accept it.
The surrounding neighbors also stood up to speak, and Ms. Liu's husband liked to play cards, and he heard that he still owed a lot of foreign debt, and then he ran directly.
At that time, a group of creditors came to the door to ask for money, for a woman, it was really a nightmare, even so Ms. Liu initially hoped that her husband could change his mind, but only later was completely dead hearted.
Ms. Liu's younger son said even more angrily that he had felt that his father was irresponsible before, and now he felt that his brother was also a hill, and he no longer recognized this big brother.
The younger son said that his mother did not suffer less in order to bring up their two brothers, and the brother had contact with his father, and he had known about it for a long time, but he was afraid that his mother would be sad and did not say it.
At first, my brother was a bit rebellious, and the relationship with the family was not very good, and then he went out to work, and he basically did not return home in these years, and later he married his wife in a foreign country and bought a house.
Mother to see that it is not easy, ran to help themselves with the child, the eldest brother actually has a lot of criticism of this, the mother in order to alleviate the brother's contradictions, took the initiative to go back to help with the child, the result of the eldest brother did not let.
The family's old house was renovated, and the house was in the name of the mother, so the eldest brother made his mother angry, and the mother asked him to take the family out.
In fact, the mother is angry, she and her mother have tacitly given the house in their hometown to the eldest brother, but the eldest brother is afraid that the mother really drove him away, and joined hands with his father to pour dirty water on the mother.
For the eldest brother and the father's approach, the younger son feels very disappointed, if the eldest brother does not care about the mother, he is willing to support the mother alone, and he does not argue about the house.
The father and the boss are indeed too unauthentic, the home is originally a place to talk about love, but let the two engage in infernal affairs, but also let people sigh.