Compared with "Golden Marriage" and "Wang Gui and Anna", more people like to watch "Parental Love", which is harmonious and warm and long-lasting. But does Jiang Defu really love Anjie so much? Jiang Changyi's story tells us the answer.
After Jiang Changyi's incident, many people who did not like Anjie commented below that Anjie was also too stingy, and that was before marriage. Obediently, it takes the Virgin Mary to say such a thing. Don't say that the fact is that Jiang Changyi put the Jiang family together, even if the fact is that Jiang Changyi is really Jiang Defu's son, even if it is really before marriage, then Jiang Defu's concealment is a matter of character. Anjie was never angry because Jiang Changyi appeared and blew up this thunder, but thought that Jiang Defu had deceived her and deliberately concealed it from her when he first got married.
Speaking of which, although Anjie has many small problems and loves to be more exquisite than she loves to pay attention to, this is only caused by the environment in which she grew up, and it has not caused any impact and harm to others. Even because of the particularity of her identity and her own good upbringing, she was polite to Wang Xiu'e and Zhang Guiying, who were not all the way. To tell the truth, I prefer Anjie to Jiang Dehua.
No matter how many small characters Anjie has, she only treats Jiang Defu, and in front of the big right and wrong, she is very reasonable. Even Dehua was so arrogant at first, because Jiang Defu told her about her sister's experience, she still accepted Dehua with kindness, and gave in every way, never had any malice, unlike Dehua, because of her third brother's identity, a villain who was determined to do it with Anjie.
But Van Jiang Defu told Anjie the truth of the matter, and Anjie was so angry, anyway, it was not his husband's. People like Yan Feng, who are not too close, can arrange a relatively good job, not to mention the husband's nephew. Compared with Dehua's impatience in seeing a bunch of relatives in his hometown, in terms of entertaining Jiang Defu's relatives in his hometown, Anjie's behavior truly reflects the good upbringing of a big girl.
But Jiang Defu said that he was afraid of Anjie's jokes, and watching his wife run away from home in anger, angry and injured, he did not say, nor did he let Dehua say. So the man who loves his wife, it turns out that in his heart, face is more important than his wife's body. Is this a face, or is it that in the depths of his heart, his wife is an outsider and unworthy to participate in his past and his family. The sisters who are married out of the house are all closer than the wives. If this is a manifestation of loving a wife, this kind of love is not too far-fetched.
In the eyes of Wang Xiu'e and Zhang Guiying, Jiang Defu is a very good man, spoiling his wife to the point of no end, and even we in front of the audience have always thought so. But after what happened to Jiang Changyi, we went back to the past and found many things that we had never paid attention to before.
When Dehua and Anjie had a conflict, Anjie was angry and returned to his mother's house, and Jiang Defu did not blame his sister too much, but let her go back first, so that Anjie could not see it. Then go to Anjie's house to tell Anjie about his sister's suffering, like when there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the husband blindly says that it is not easy for the mother-in-law? Dehua's suffering was not caused by Anjie, and she had no reason to pay for her misfortune. Dehua came over, and Anjie issued the greatest kindness to her, but Dehua always felt that it was her third brother's home, her home, and she was more qualified to be the master of everything in this family than Anjie. Even saying anything About Anjie is just sitting and making an abacus, and not tired. In the case of what people eat and vomit, she can still say such words, where is the attitude that a good person should have. The child is so young, he says things that stir up dissension.
Especially knowing that Anjie's family composition affected her brother's future, obediently, that is, Anjie, for a violent person, where she was allowed to spread wilderness, where to go back and forth, or more suitable to return to her hometown to be used as a cow, and was scolded every day for broomstick stars. When she saw her old family come to jiang's house and scold her, she didn't dare to return her mouth in her own home, and she knew how she was bullied in the village. At that time, I didn't see her bullying Anjie's posture, just a person in the nest.
Perhaps, as in many modern families, no matter how long you have been married to this man and how much you have paid for him, as long as the interests of the rest of his family are involved, you are the one who needs to be cut off and compromised. Although I don't know why men think so. But I have to say that under the deep-rooted culture of blood, you have always been an outsider.
Jiang Dehua originally did not know the truth, and when she knew, the first thing she thought of was to tell Anjie that her sister-in-law had been running into each other for a long time, and people's hearts were changed, and Dehua couldn't see that Anjie was so sad. But Jiang Defu said, "Let her know, isn't it even more disdainful of us" Dehua thought about it too, and then the two brothers and sisters watched their pillows and the people who poured out their hearts and lungs for her sad and sad. At that moment, I am afraid that it touched the hearts of many women whose husbands are not with their own hearts! It turned out that the woman who helped him have five children, lived with him for a lifetime, and was favored in the eyes of outsiders, was always an outsider.
On his way to the island, he only informed Anjie at the last minute, perhaps because of the principle of secrecy. But as a wife, she is always the one who passively chooses, whoever it is, will be angry, and not long ago he told her that he would stay in Qingdao. Although Jiang Defu's foresight was later expressed, he was deceived and discarded for Anjie at that time.
Whether it was Jiang Changyi's affair or his later visit to the island, it was Anjie who always compromised last. Because of the identity of the special period, the man who claimed to love her did not really give her enough respect according to what he said. She was behind his sister, behind his career, and finally even behind his face.
Perhaps there is also inferiority in his bones, Jiang Defu usually treats people, making people feel that he is a very easy-going person, whether it is the regiment commander or the division commander or the leader of the island, he always obeys the principle of being an equal person. But after the incident of Jiang Changyi, because he was afraid of his wife's jokes, he would rather be misunderstood than keep secrets, and he had to make people feel that in his heart, he always felt that marrying a capitalist lady was indeed wrong. Although the status of the An family in the special period was different from the past, the experience of eating Western food with his brother-in-law still made Jiang Defu know from the depths of his heart that Anjie's beauty was not only about appearance. Her status, even in a special period, is wronged by him.
Losing to his family and career, still excusable, losing to his face, then what is her position in his heart. Is it that no matter what happens, she is the one who does not need to think about it.
Do you think that Jiang Defu is unwilling to tell Anjie the truth, just because of face, or in his heart, Anjie is indeed not as important as he thinks?