"Parental Love": After 8 years, I found that Lao Ding, who often laughed at Jiang Defu, was a true friend

Lao Ding and Jiang Defu were the same window and roommates of the artillery school, but Lao Ding laughed at Jiang Defulai, but he was not at all ruthless.

Jiang Defu sent flowers to Anjie, and was "commented" by Lao Ding.

Jiang Defu became the husband of "three washes", and was even "publicized" by Lao Ding.

At that time, the direct consequence was that Jiang Defu was a little "afraid" of Lao Ding, and he was afraid of letting Lao Ding see him when he wore a suit.

When I first watched "Parental Love", I only felt that Lao Ding was not kind and spent, and only Anjie could clean him up.

But after ten years of tasting, I found that no matter when, where and what circumstances, Lao Ding was Jiang Defu's most worthwhile friend.

Old Ding knows how to be grateful.

Jiang Defu wanted to leave the military academy to garrison the island, which was his own choice.

Lao Ding always felt that he had seized Jiang Defu's position and let him leave Qingdao.

Because Anjie did not want to join the army, Lao Ding felt that he had caused Jiang Defu and his wife to separate.

Therefore, before Jiang Defu left, Lao Ding promised him that he would take good care of Anjie's mother and son.

But he did not think that the world was impermanent. Old Ding did not have a few days of peace and comfort in the artillery school, so he was beaten into a stinky old nine, directly sent to the island, and gave Jiang Defu a deputy.

In fact, speaking of this, Domino has always had a question, lao Ding sent to the island, has Jiang Defu helped in the end?

The answer should be yes!

This is due to Jiang Defu's personality, and he will not watch his old comrades fall into distress. Otherwise, Lao Ding had so many places to delegate, but he went to the island where Jiang Defu was stationed, was it a bit too coincidental.

Was that lao Ding looking for Jiang Defu to help?

Of course not!

Old Ding has his pride, and more importantly, Old Ding does not want to involve Jiang Defu.

Therefore, when the two first met, Lao Ding was aggrieved and stubborn, and did not even give Jiang Defu, the superior, any good look.

As a result, even Wang Zhenbiao, who eavesdropped on the corner of the wall, could not look at it anymore.

Thinking about it now, Lao Ding's various performances are also a kind of protection for Jiang Defu. After all, what kind of character Wang Zhenbiao was, Lao Ding did not know. Jiang Defu is on the island, and he does not cover the sky with one hand.

Old Ding was honest with his friends.

Anjie couldn't look at the flower intestines of Old Ding's belly.

Jiang Defu also did not agree with Lao Ding and Teacher Ge's practice of breaking up and seeking medical assistance from Wu.

However, Lao Ding did not hide anything from Jiang Defu.

Lao Ding and Teacher Ge were in a relationship, and Jiang Defu knew about it before Anjie.

The details of Lao Ding's marriage to Wu Medical Assistant, Lao Ding is also open and honest to Jiang Defu.

Therefore, even if Jiang Dehua has always been "deeply in love" with Lao Ding, Jiang Defu cannot complain about Lao Ding.

Because, Jiang Defu has always known Lao Ding's true thoughts and wants to find a cultured wife.

Not only that, Lao Ding's appreciation for Anjie was never concealed in front of Jiang Defu.

"Your wife is the right one." This is Lao Ding's most used compliment to Jiang Defu.

Even when he married Jiang Dehua, the regret in Lao Ding's heart was also unreservedly displayed to Jiang Defu.

Old Ding has boundaries for handling family affairs.

Although Lao Ding has the dual identity of a friend and brother-in-law to Jiang Defu, in handling the Jiang family's family affairs, Lao Ding is also very measured.

Especially for the matter of Jiang Changyi's father, Lao Ding has always been reluctant to participate.

Jiang Defu loves face, and this point is naturally very clear to Lao Ding. No matter what, Jiang Defu must also recognize the original intention of Jiang Changyi's son, and Lao Ding also understands it very well.

Therefore, every time the Jiang family jumped because of this matter, Lao Ding would immediately let Jiang Dehua go to see the end, and he never went.

In Lao Ding's own words: "It is not good for me to go." ”

But when Jiang Changyi officially admitted his mistake, Lao Ding took the initiative to control the whole field, why is this?

Old Ding knew what to expect.

When Jiang Changyi directly knelt down, the first person to go over and help him up was Jiang Dehua.

This detail is very much in line with Jiang Dehua's personality, the knife mouth tofu heart, and very spoiled the younger generation, naturally can not see Jiang Changyi suffered such a big grievance.

However, at the moment when Jiang Dehua stood up, Lao Ding stopped her.

Therefore, in the end, it was Anjie who supported Jiang Changyi, and it could only be Anjie.

Because, in the whole thing, in addition to Jiang Defu, the one who was most wronged was Anjie.

At such a critical moment, Jiang Defu could not let go of his own face. Therefore, the heavy responsibility of resolving contradictions naturally fell on Anjie's head.

Lifting up Jiang Changyi means that Anjie himself chooses to let go of his grievances, whether active or passive.

Lao Ding knew Jiang Defu and had a clear idea.

It is precisely because of his understanding of Jiang Defu that Lao Ding accurately asked Jiang Changyi the following three questions.

First question:

If there is no Enron, Jiang Changyi will not take the initiative to confess this matter.

This is a question of Jiang Changyi's conscience.

If Jiang Changyi replied no, it means that Jiang Changyi is an extremely selfish person.

In order to make yourself comfortable, you can do anything, and you don't even consider the feelings of others.

As a result, Jiang Changyi's answer was: even if there is no Enron, he will have the opportunity to confess this matter, and he does not want to be guilty for a lifetime.

Although, in the answer, Jiang Changyi has always emphasized his feelings. But at least, Jiang Changyi still feels guilty about what he has done.

Second question:

Jiang Changyi came here to recognize his father, was it Zhang Guilan's idea?

Jiang Changyi replied that it was his own choice, and her mother did not agree to her doing so at all.

This is a consideration of Zhang Guilan's character.

It also provides a powerful reference for how Jiang Defu will deal with this "relative" relationship in the future.

Jiang Defu helped Jiang Changyi to look at the face of his second brother, and there was nothing wrong with that.

However, if Zhang Guilan has always wanted to take this matter and threaten or bind Jiang Defu, it is of a different nature.

After all, how can a bottomless mother educate a child who knows gratitude?

Third question:

Jiang Changyi was so sure of doing this thing?

This is testing Jiang Changyi's bottom line.

If you find Jiang Defu, you can change the fate of your life, and Jiang Changyi knows this.

But if Jiang Defu just doesn't recognize him as a nephew, what will Jiang Changyi choose?

Jiang Changyi's answer was, admit it, don't admit it, and don't think about it, it's a big deal to go home and farm again.

It can be seen from this that what Jiang Changyi did was only a gamble on self-esteem for the future, and there was not much planning.

In order to let Jiang Defu recognize the true face of Jiang Changyi, Lao Ding, who has always stayed out of the matter, became an "evil man" who asked questions about the root.

Therefore, whether intellectually or in character, Lao Ding has assumed the title of Jiang Defu's confidant.

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