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"Your in-laws' demolition is divided into 3 suites, give your brother a set" "Mom, I don't help the poor in marriage"!

01

A person's life is like an article, which can only be continuously improved after many careful revisions.

In this process, you may encounter countless small errors, and in the process of this small error, you modify step by step, and slowly find that the original unwritten article has slowly become vivid under your modification and polishing.

Life is the same, maybe at the beginning you will feel that your life is not so perfect, but as long as you don't give up, life will be better.

In the face of some setbacks, as long as you are brave enough to face it, then you will find that every time you overcome a setback, your self-confidence will increase by one point.

In the process, you will fall in love with yourself who fights against setbacks, and you will feel that you also have endless combat effectiveness.

The low starting point of life is not terrible, as long as you do not give up in the process, then life will develop in a good direction.

The starting point is low, and you can also slowly hit the king fried through your own efforts.

02

When Xiao Yun got married, her husband was very poor, and there was almost nothing in the family.

At the time of marriage, the man symbolically gave a dowry of 30,000 yuan, Xiaoyun married, the man's father died of illness early, there was only one old mother in the family, the only one was a local house in Suzhou.

At the time of marriage, except for this 2-story house, Xiao Yun had almost nothing.

But at that time, Xiao Yun didn't care, because she wasn't a material girl in the first place, she was pursuing the kind of love that lasted a lifetime, she hoped that the other party could love her for a lifetime, and more money and less money was not a problem.

After getting married, she thought that as long as the two of them worked together, life would be fine after all.

Her husband works in a factory and gets a salary of 5,000 yuan a month, while Xiaoyun is a junior high school graduate with a low education, no education, and even some of the better enterprises can't get in.

At that time, she began to take the undergraduate examination, hoping to have such a stepping stone, after the undergraduate examination, she was more interested in accounting, when pregnant, she took the accounting qualification certificate with a big belly, and now she has been a senior accountant in a company for 10 years.

In the middle of this, she will also go to take over the business of some other companies, and then continue to do it after returning home from work, it can be said that Xiaoyun earns a higher salary than her husband, and there will be fifteen or six thousand a month.

But even in this way, she never stops for a day, married to now, she has gradually struggled from the original civilian life to a well-off, the next life as long as there is no serious illness, her life can be very elegant.

Later, Suzhou vigorously demolished, and the houses they lived in were also within the scope of demolition.

Because their houses are relatively large, with two floors above and below, they were divided into three houses at the time of demolition, two of which are small but can also be rented.

03

Xiao Yun's life has changed qualitatively from here, she gave birth to two daughters, do not have to worry about the problem of dowry for her daughter-in-law, this life can be easily lived well.

Xiaoyun has a younger brother, her mother has been very fond of her brother since she was a child, but she does not care so much about Xiaoyun, and now Xiaoyun and their family have divided three houses, and her mother has begun to covet those three houses.

Say to Xiao Yun: Daughter, your family has been demolished and divided into three suites, give your brother a set.

After Xiao Yun heard her mother say this, she was also embarrassed, although she said that her mother was not very good to her over the years, she had always been very filial to her mother, she was not willing to confront her mother, but she could not be the lord, after all, this is the house of the mother-in-law's family, how can she be a daughter-in-law to be the lord?

So she said this to her mother: Mom, you still have to ask my mother-in-law, I don't make decisions in this family.

Unexpectedly, after my mother said these words, she said some very ugly words: Is it easy for me to raise you? But I didn't expect that after you had money, you became six relatives and didn't recognize him, you want to know that he is your own brother, you don't help him, who can help him?

Xiao Yun naturally knows the importance of blood kinship, but she has helped a lot over the years, building a house in the family, she gave 70,000, brothers have problems she will help, not that she is not willing to divide the house into brothers, the most important thing is that this family, not her alone, even if she is willing, the mother-in-law is definitely not willing.

But her mother did not understand this truth, so she blindly scolded her daughter, and Xiaoyun was also embarrassed.

Later, Xiao yun also understood that this is not a small matter, it is related to her family, if it is for her brother, it is likely that the family will have an impact. Therefore, she said to her mother very hard, Mom, my marriage is not a poverty alleviation, and I am not a brother and a demon.

After the mother heard Xiao Yun say this, she felt that Bai had raised this daughter and shouted at her daughter.

However, Xiao Yun did not want to pay any attention to her mother's other remarks. At the moment, all she should do is to protect her big and small family, as for her brother, she really has a weak heart.

04

We live in this world, don't count on others for everything, you have to understand, expect others to get everything only for a while, relying on your own efforts, such achievements are a lifetime.

Others can only help you for a while, if you encounter difficulties and put all the burden on others, naturally others will not want to deal with you anymore.

Even if she is your own sister, she has a family and a family, and she should fulfill her responsibilities as a member of this family.

Man must be content, and do not go to moral kidnapping. You must understand that many roads in this life are ultimately to rely on yourself, even if it is parents, brothers, sisters, their time to accompany you is very short.

Don't be lazy, go to find a job, this job does not have to be much money, first of all to support yourself, and then on this basis slowly to refine skills, over time, your income will naturally increase.

The most frightening thing is that on the one hand, you want to have a high income, but on the other hand, you don't want to work hard, and you only want to count on others.

You have to understand the truth of human nature, you can help once, you can help more times, everyone can't stand it.

In order not to make others resent you, please be a little angry with yourself.

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