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It is said that marriage is not easy, and the two can enter the marriage at the beginning of the idea of running a lifetime. However, a lifetime is too long, and there will always be various variables in the middle, affecting the stability and harmony of marriage.
So what is the biggest risk in a long marriage, or what kind of marriage is more risky? Some people say that of course, there is no love marriage, the two have no love foundation, it is difficult to face the ups and downs on the road of life together. Some people say that marriage without trust is more risky, there is no trust between husband and wife, marriage, just like a scattered sand, the wind blows away.
But let me say, what kind of marriage is more risky? It is not that there is no love, and it is not that there is no trust, but there is no common property.
A friend of mine who is in a marriage lawsuit told me that many couples have been married for many years and do not have any common property under their names, this relationship is very dangerous, the stability of marriage is also small, and women will suffer more when the time comes.
Stable marital relationships need to be held hostage to each other
Why do couples in the entertainment industry know that the other party is having an affair, and they will not divorce until they have to. And those rich people, even if there are small three or four outside, with an outer room, there is no feeling for the original match at home, he will try his best to maintain the relationship between the original match and the women outside, and will not easily take the road of divorce.
Because for couples in the entertainment industry and rich circles, the interests of the husband and wife are too deeply involved, and the two are tied down with each other. Once divorced, not only will the personal reputation be damaged, but the personal property will also be greatly reduced. Therefore, even if the two have already had a new love, they will not divorce without clearly dividing their respective property.
So if the husband and wife do not have any common property, what do you take to restrain each other, and what scruples does he have. In marriage, men are far more rational than women, and they know how to weigh the pros and cons better. If the two have a large amount of property in common, even if the man encounters temptation and has a bad heart, he will consider whether he should risk losing a huge amount of property to have an affair.
Therefore, if you really want to marry each other for a long time, after marriage, both of you will definitely want to fight together and create a common wealth that belongs to both of you. And those who do not want to have anything to do with each other, in fact, most of them hold the idea that the more simple the relationship, the less involved, the more worry-free they will be when they divorce in the future, and they will think about divorce later, and with such thoughts, it is difficult to manage the marriage with their hearts, and such a marriage is difficult to last.
Marriage needs love, and it needs material things
Some people will say that it is already a tragedy to rely on common property to contain each other and stabilize marriages. Trying to restrain each other by common property, rather than by maintaining feelings, is itself a kind of trickery and immorality, because none of the foundations of marriage and love have ever been joint property.
People who think like this can only be said to be happy, and have not really seen the darkness of human nature. Marriage can not be too material, there is love marriage is more moist, the life of two people can have temperature. But can not be without material, two people living together, even 2 plus 3, long-term stable living caravan is the basic living security, and a long decades of marriage, who guarantees that it is smooth sailing, there is a common property marriage of course relatively stable!
【Topic Discussion: How much joint property do you have as a husband and wife? 】
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