Judge yourself whether you are being manipulated by a man, it is enough to see these 4 things, I hope you have none.
1. He has an affair, but you can't do anything about it.
Many marriages are actually in a "threesome" state,
Men are blatantly looking for women outside,
You have cried and cried, and you have also made trouble,
But the man is like this, "I'm like this.
The attitude of "if you can live, you can't live and leave",
Don't think about your mood at all, and don't care about the consequences.
2. He annoys you, but you can only bow your head first.
Over the years of counseling, many female friends have confided in me that my husband does not care about himself.
Every time there is a dispute, even knowing that it is his fault,
In order to break the deadlock, you can only bow your head first.
There will be such a phenomenon,
It is in the early days of marriage, you are pinched by men, he knows your weaknesses, knows your concerns, knows that you can't do without him.
3. He is in complete control of your joys and sorrows.
In intimate relationships, there is such a category of women,
Emotions are completely manipulated by men.
Men are more enthusiastic, gentler, and their hearts are full of flowers;
Men are a little cold, don't reply to messages, don't answer the phone, and go completely crazy.
Life is completely centered on this man,
There is no other joy and sorrow, no ego.
4. He has complete control over the family's economy.
Since ancient times, it has been outside the male lord, and within the female protagonist, the woman should control the economic lifeline of the family (except for the loser).
If you have a low income in your family,
Or a full-time housewife with no income,
The money in the family is held by your husband, and every month you have to reach out to him for money to spend,
Then once you encounter anything, you can only go against the grain, because there is no capital to compete with him, you can only be pinched by him.