There is a warm happiness in the feelings that people yearn for and pursue, and there are also unforgettable pain and hurt. In the face of feelings, those of us who do not long for a happiness of our own, not only can get but also have forever, but reality is not so able to make us wish. We pursue all the way in our feelings, but also stumble all the way, and may not get the permanent happiness we want.
However, I personally feel that in people's feelings, as long as they do their sincere hearts, with the fate of Providence, and do not deliberately hurt the feelings of others, they will certainly not sow any evil consequences for themselves. Reason clearly treats the matter of feelings, does not give too much to the feelings, and does not live up to the sincere feelings of others. If you really love, you must be sincere, if you can't really love, then speak frankly. Hurt is not necessarily because of rejection, but mostly because of betrayal.
In an emotional marriage, don't deliberately hurt each other's feelings, don't deliberately betray, if there is really no feeling, it is better to say it generously and then separate. This is better than deceiving the other party and sneaking around outside to do something scrupulous, so as to be just and honest, and be at ease.
I believe that feelings also have a karmic cycle, and the hurt we use in other people's feelings will be reincarnated in our own feelings sooner or later. Whatever cause is planted, it will surely bear some fruit. If you don't cherish people who are really good to you, your sincerity will certainly not be cherished by people who are really good to you. If you intentionally hurt someone who loves you, you are likely to be intentionally hurt by the person you love.
Look at the people who have an extramarital affair and betray the marriage, they are so ruthless when they betray their husbands or wives at home, but in the blink of an eye, they will be hurt by the ruthless abandonment and betrayal of their beloved extramarital lovers, these are all causes and effects. Although the matter of feelings is complex and changeable, but it is inseparable from its origin, the truth is still that truth after all, and the law is still that law.
Pursuing the results you want in your feelings, not hurting others as a precursor, feelings based on the pain of others, it is difficult to be truly happy, even if you are happy for a while, it is difficult to last. Sooner or later, the emotional pain that you create for others will be remanufactured by another person in your own feelings. Therefore, in the face of feelings, we have the right to pursue the happiness we want, but we do not have the right to complete ourselves by hurting others.
For those who hurt themselves in their feelings, they do not have to spend their own thoughts and energy to retaliate, because their future will retaliate against themselves. No one can escape the cause and effect of their own species.
Therefore, when encountering emotional betrayal and hurt, you can't waste yourself to retaliate against the other party, but it is better to spend more thoughts, how to get out of pain, live yourself again, let your feelings be less similar hurt, and don't let such hurt repeat itself in your feelings. Letting go of the people who hurt themselves is equivalent to adding charcoal to them, you don't have to do it yourself, they are their own cause and effect.
Don't look at the happiness of people who hurt themselves and feel resentful, their temporary happiness of hurting others has no foundation. What is the short-term happiness, and greater pain is still waiting for them to taste it! There is a cycle of cause and effect in feelings, which is not decided by anyone, but the seeds that they have long planted in their own behavior.
Leaving the person who hurts your feelings, the more you want the other person to have a good life, the other party may get worse and worse, and you may get better and better. The more people who hurt others deliberately pursue the beauty they want, the more they may not get it. After all, if things are not done correctly, the results will not be good. There is genuine love in the feelings, passionate devotion, so that you are hurt in such an effort, and who hurts you and whose feelings are so affectionate may also encounter the same treatment later.
See through the division and union in the feelings, cheating and betrayal, but also understand the different thoughts in the feelings, and the true feelings forever. If it is not the beauty of the desire we want, it will surely come to us and hold it in our own hands. But as long as you put your heart at peace and your feelings right, I believe that good causes will bear good results.
The so-called people are not as good as the heavens, and people who play small and clever are often mistaken by their own small wisdom, which is also applicable in feelings. Calculate and calculate, deceive the feelings of others, want to achieve their own selfishness, in the end they still calculate themselves, suffer serious losses, it seems to be the other party, but in fact, it is themselves. The so-called making the heart use its heart to harm one's own body is this truth.
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