After the incident about actor Gao Yalin broke out, the man has not come forward. On the contrary, the woman kept replying to various questions from netizens and posting chat records.
But as the third party in the bombed mouth, Xu Zijun, who was only 26 years old, posted a long post on his personal social account the next day in response to this incident.
She first introduced herself, and then expressed her shock at the negative news that had been exposed.
praised the man and said that he used to admire him. On the other hand, he set himself the image of a little girl who is not deeply involved in the world and has been educated very well.
Then, she generously admitted that Gao Yalin had indeed pursued her, but she refused at first. Later, after many contacts, I slowly accepted the transfer that he expressed as goodwill.
But even if they receive money, it does not mean that the two of them have any improper relationship between men and women.
is such a sentence, which has aroused heated discussions among netizens.
1. Xu Zijun's clarification is self-contradictory
said earlier that even if it is really a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, you should not insult your girlfriend like this.
Later, I said that there is no relationship between me and you that is more than a friend.
So, is there a relationship between the two?
If so, why is it that in the screenshot of Gao Yalin's chat history, the remarks for Xu Zijun are full name plus Qingdao?
It stands to reason that in order to prevent anomalies from being discovered, it is normal to note the full name. But why attach regions?
Is it to facilitate the distinction, or is it that in his WeChat, there are too many opposite sexes with the same kind of relationship, and he is afraid that he will not be clear for a while?
If not, why did Xu Zijun accept Gao Yalin's transfer?
Is it really as she herself said: is it a means for the other party to show that he pursues her and shows his affection?
So, since you, as a woman, know the other party's intentions so well, why do you have to accept it?
In the eyes of the other party, does your behavior represent a default relationship? After all, after acceptance, there is no explicit rejection.
2. Transfer time
In terms of the money exchange between the two, you will find clues when you put these 4 transfers together.
First, two were at the beginning of the month and two at the end of the month.
Secondly, the time points are all night, three of which are late at night and one is after a normal meal.
In the end, the amount for two times in the middle of the night was 38,888 yuan, while after dinner and early in the morning, it was 20,000 yuan and 28,888 yuan once.
Therefore, it is really impossible to see what the relationship between the two people is. If it is a normal boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, it should probably be 52000 or 13140, which represents a certain meaning.
But if it doesn't exceed the relationship of friends, then why did the transfer be made at such a late time? And there is also the appearance of the same amount?
Just because he likes the number? So why not the same amount every time?
is probably really as ridiculed by netizens: Gao Yalin knows the unwritten rules of this relationship, there are normal standards, there are later price increases, and there are holidays.
That's why this situation occurs, which corresponds to the previous description of the relationship between the two that he explained to the woman.
Summary: In this way, Xu Zijun might as well remain silent and wait for public opinion to pass.
As soon as she clarified this, she felt like she was hammering herself. One is the acquiescence to the fact that she received money; Second, he denied the relationship between the two.
This kind of public relations undoubtedly pushed himself to the identity of a junior or a girl.
It can even be said that the reverse has given Gao Yalin a step, and in the hearts of many netizens, they will feel that he has at least complied with the rules, which is just a moral issue and does not involve other aspects.
But as a woman, it's different. For a famous person like Gao Yalin, it would be too far-fetched to really insist that he didn't know that he was married and had children.
After all, no matter his age or his gossip, as long as you pay a little more attention, you can know.
What do you think about this?