Why 40-year-old women are more likely to have extramarital affairs, this is the reality
1, because of love
Before the age of 40, time has been taught to children, there is no noise and entanglement, they are also liberated, the yearning for love will increase the desire, marriage has no passion for a long time, the feeling of love has been lost, there is no difference between the left and right hands between the old husband and wife, and at this time there is a vision for love.
A woman always has to be stupid once in her life, when she was young, for love, silly to accompany her husband for the family, unconsciously the youth years have passed, have not yet talked about a good love, people always forget themselves in a time, only for the tired scorching of life, desperate to pay, suddenly one day found that the years are not there, need their children and husbands have become less important, children grow up to have their own friends, do not communicate with their mothers about the things between those children, My husband and I are familiar with forgetting love.
At this time, women face love, there is no resistance, easy to appear outside of marriage feelings, a man who is good to himself becomes less repulsive. In fact, women 40 years old should enjoy a peaceful life, let themselves read more, use spiritual life to replace the inner yearning for love, let impetuousness become the driving force for reading, and use knowledge to enrich the heart of a mature woman.
It is not easy for a woman to live a lifetime, do not play the so-called love at an age that is the calmest and should cultivate their cultivation and temperament, it is not worth it.
2, there will be more temptations
After men mature, they will prefer intellectual 40-year-old women, such women see through the world, there is no unreasonable demand for men, there is no princess disease, there is no temperament, often easy to become a target for men who want to have extramarital friendship.
Little girls need a lot of care, need responsibility and pay, mature men do not dislike young girls, are afraid of entanglement and responsibility, this time an intellectual mature woman, will not ask a man to pay anything, it is impossible to give up their family to transcend reality.
In the face of more temptations, 40-year-old women need to hold their own opinions and not be captured by sugar-coated shells. You should tell yourself in the face of temptation that this is all floating clouds and not worth investing in.
Men who tell themselves that they tempt themselves are not good men, although their husbands have no passion with themselves, they can also hurt their families for this reason, and use their strong beliefs to overcome the troubles caused by temptation.
3, old age is not confident
Seeing a little girl in her 20s and looking at her own face, it is inevitable that there will be a feeling of unconfidence. Life is like falling leaves, the laws of nature, every stage has the beauty of each stage, not all men like ignorant little girls. More excellent men like mature women, women with ideals, independent women are the most beautiful.
Life lies in sports, as the past years of the body is getting worse and worse than before, may wish to try to go to the gym, to go for a walk, to exercise, to travel, to do what you like, to make yourself young and glowing, looking ageless.
Isn't it just that they are a little older and men don't have the previous impulses for their interests. One of the charms of a 40-year-old woman is to understand a man's heart and lock in a man's appetite. A good dish made in the kitchen is not comparable to that young girl, can understand the helplessness and happiness of men, can soothe men's hearts, can give men a warm harbor, these are the advantages of 40-year-old women, why bother with their own age?
May as well forget the age, let your life return to youth, use the unique charm of this age to love the family, love the husband, no one is a fool knows your good.
4, the lack of care
Women are 40 years old, spend the most beautiful time with men, but men forget the love they once had and find excuses to cope with their wives.
In such a situation, how can a woman not be sad, how can she have a sense of security, and how can it not cause extramarital friendship?
So men don't be careless, women need more care at this age.
Since two people can go through 10 years, more than 10 years of married life, what kind of ups and downs have gone through, we should care more about each other, the only person in this world who can accompany you to the end is what we should cherish and care for the most.
Don't let having feelings outside of marriage hurt feelings and destroy the family. That's the biggest stupidity.
Conclusion: 40-year-old women also need men's love, need men's encouragement, need men's care, and need a happy life to resist external temptations.
May every 40-year-old woman be able to live a wonderful, peaceful life, and a happy family.
What do you think a 40-year-old woman should look like?
Xiaobian feels that extramarital friendship is a bad thing, because it will destroy the family. What do you think?