Women who are emotional want to do their best to pass on their love, but whenever there is a little opportunity, they will stick to the man's side and try to make the man feel his affection in this way.
However, can this kind of stickiness really bring good gains to women? In fact, women sticking to men too tightly will backfire.
For a man, what he does not get is the best, and what he rushes to please will not get his attention. The more clingy a woman is to a man, the easier it is to push a man away. So, women have to understand that the best way to love a man is not to get tired of being together, but to do these 4 things well!
1. Get together with friends
Love and friendship are not in conflict, and both have a life to be more colorful. Some women have love, they leave the friendship behind, only want to stay with men every day, but also only want to chat with men alone, friends do not go to parties, and slowly alienate themselves from their friends.
But love is not as beautiful as I imagined, and I eventually lost my friends and did not manage love well. So women should not put their minds on love, but also gather more with their friends, have their own lives, give themselves some space, and give men some space.
2, do not always take the initiative to contact him
As soon as a man opens the phone, he can see your message, and your phone calls before he can contact you, so how can a man remember you?
So women should restrain themselves, don't always take the initiative to contact him, wait for him to think of you to contact you, let him experience the feeling of being concerned about your stomach, don't let him feel that you are especially inseparable from him, so that men will care more about you.
3) Don't ask him everything
Once upon a time, you were a person's life, you could live well yourself, and you could solve things by yourself. Although now that you have another person to accompany you, you are no longer alone, but many things still have to be solved by yourself.
If it is something more important, or something related to the two of you, you should ask his opinions and opinions, but some daily small things, can be solved by yourself, do not ask him everything. Don't lose yourself because of love, and lose your ability to be independent.
4. Be yourself
Some women, after being with men, keep changing themselves in order to cater to men's liking, and eventually become less like themselves. And when two people encounter problems, women will take the initiative to give in and compromise every time, just afraid that because of these, it will affect the feelings.
But in fact, men may prefer your original appearance, otherwise he will not be with you in the first place, and he should still do it with men. Women don't always think about feeling for themselves, but be brave to be themselves.
Emotional Message:
Love is not the whole of life, women do not want to lose their lives for a man. Leave a little distance for each other and also leave some time and space.
Let him feel that sometimes you are close to him, sometimes not close, so that he has a certain psychological gap, he will care more about your feelings, but also more about you.
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