In a marriage, it is a family of husband and wife, in the days of getting along day and night, the trivial life of chai rice oil and salt, the various complicated affairs of the short chickens and dogs in the parents, even the most good-natured people will produce a little friction in the chicken feathers in the pots and pans.
Husband and wife are two people, have their own thoughts and living habits, when the two live together, but also have to experience the mutual run-in of personality, and gradually grope out the most comfortable way for the two to get along, so it is really not an easy thing to think about real happiness in marriage. Life is thicker than leaves, day after day, year after year, it is inevitable that there will be times of disagreement, when the husband and wife have different views, contradictions can not be avoided. If both husband and wife have strong personalities, it is normal to argue.
The bumps in married life are all normal things, in the face of various problems in married life, we need to find the right way to deal with them, it is really difficult to continue the marriage, you can choose to dissolve the marriage relationship with peace of mind.
Some people are unhappy in marriage, nor actively seek solutions to the problem, but just seek the comfort of extramarital affairs, which is originally a small problem between husband and wife, and small misunderstandings may push the marriage to the fate of rapid disintegration because a person has an extramarital affair. Originally, we all yearn for and pursue emotional happiness, and we enter marriage to want a happy family and live a happy life, but in the face of happiness, we always pursue more and more distantly from it.
It is not easy for a couple to live together, to live together in ups and downs, to be able to spend decades together, and even to the end of their lives. Especially in this pluralistic era, the change in people's concept of marriage and love has made it more and more difficult for the stability of marriage, and it is more and more difficult to marry happily. There are also all kinds of temptations in the outside world, emotionally not firm enough, people who are moved by temptation, are also prone to take the wrong road of deviating from marriage, and it is even more difficult to be happy.
Marriage can not be settled, feelings can not be forced, husband and wife live together, first of all, we must talk about feelings, love each other in order to protect each other, if it is only wishful thinking, it can only be a marriage full of grievances and complaints.
Do not marry people who do not love each other, do not humble yourself and can not exchange the response of each other's feelings, endure the wronged marriage, and when it is finally intolerable to break out, it will be more difficult to find the direction of happiness. Now there are many people who cheat in marriage, in the face of marital cheating, some people choose to endure and endure, forgive and forgive, accommodate and then accommodate, as long as they can maintain the integrity of the superficial marriage, they would rather swallow all grievances and shame.
Such a marriage, the more strong the problem behind the greater the problem, and some also lead to tragedy. Marriage happiness is not so easy to do, since we have chosen marriage, we must take responsibility for our own marriage, since we choose to live with our lover, we must treat our lover with sincerity, and the two of them can really live a good life and find the way to happiness.
Now how many couples have parted ways on the road to marriage, and how many people are on the road to divorce, when they held the desire and vision for happiness, and the people who love each other entered the marriage hall, but they did not know how difficult it was to really get happiness after truly entering the married life!
Happiness is the sweet fruit of marriage, and only when the husband and wife live together, pay hard work and effort, but also use sincerity and loyalty to manage it, care for it, it can really blossom beautiful flowers, produce sweet fruits. If you are not willing to give in marriage, just want to enjoy its benefits, but also come back to it half-hearted, see different thoughts, this is even worse.
Since you understand that marital happiness is not easy, then take good care to pay more sincere and hard work in life to love it and manage it well! Only by managing it well can we truly taste the taste of happiness, otherwise, there will only be bitterness and bitterness, and it will be difficult to taste the beauty of happiness.
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