The stop loss of a woman who has an affair outside of marriage: Aware of a problem, you will not believe in extramarital love

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The reason why many women are willing to be a man's extramarital woman is because they believe in extramarital love, because they believe that the other party also loves themselves, so they will understand each other's difficulties, even if they know that the other party is a man with a family, they will be willing to wait.

Some people will be lost in this wrong cognition and continue to be wrong, while some people will see through the essence of men at a certain moment, through a certain thing, and from then on, they will no longer believe in extramarital love.

Li Qing (pseudonym) originally believed in extramarital love, because the person she loved was a man with a family. They had been together for three years, and she had always believed that he loved himself. Because he's been nice to her all along.

She thought it was love. So, she was willing to wait for him to divorce, and he really did. She thought she had finally kept the clouds open and seen the moon, but things did not go as she wished.

When she saw that he was trying his best to calculate the original match in order to divide the property, she did not feel happy, she only felt cold all over her body.

An original match who accompanied him through the most difficult days and gave birth to children for him, he can go to his own interests and calculate his life, so what about her?

Even if he and the original partner are no longer in love, the two people were also united because of love. He loves her now, but there is no guarantee that he will always love her. Then, when he no longer loves her, will he use the same means against her?

She was cold all over her body, and she felt terrible. She finally realized that maybe today's original match is tomorrow's self, so she no longer believes in this extramarital love and chooses to leave.

Just like Li Qing, when a woman realizes a problem, she will not believe in extramarital love.

Everyone should realize that those who are prone to extramarital affairs are often the following three kinds of people.

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The first: selfish people.

Selfish people will only consider their own feelings when they encounter anything, and will never care about the feelings of others. They are often their own way, and they don't care what others think and think.

Even if their actions hurt others, they will not care, and may have some guilt, but guilt can only be guilty, and they will not make concessions or control their behavior because of guilt.

Such a person is extremely obvious in marriage, even the wife and children can not harm their interests, especially the wife, absolutely can not drag him back. When he feels that his wife is no longer worthy of him, or that he has no feelings for him, he will not hesitate like others, because selfish genes are interfering with him, so he will act according to his own ideas.

And this kind of person, more arbitrary, because of selfishness, so he will never allow himself to be wronged, so he will do as he pleases. Therefore, when he looks at women outside of marriage, he will never restrain himself because he is married, and he will not hesitate to attack each other. He will do everything he can to make the other party fall in love with him, and let the other party willingly give him a woman outside the marriage.

It's all selfish genes. Because he is selfish, he wants to get it, and even if his actions hurt his wife and children, he will not care.

Therefore, selfish people are extremely prone to extramarital affairs.

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The second type: irresponsible people.

People who have become a family, more or less know that they are responsible for the family, to be responsible for their other half, even if they usually look at some unreliable people, after becoming a family, they also know that they have to take care of the family, know to support the family, and protect their wives.

But in today's society, the sense of responsibility is not something that everyone has. After some people become a family, they are still like a young man who has not yet started a family, they have no idea what responsibility is, and they will only do some irresponsible behavior.

This kind of person, because he does not have the concept of responsibility, so even if there is a burden on his shoulders, he will hand this burden to others and let others resist this burden for him, and he will only think of easily relaxing the days he wants.

He doesn't take responsibility for other people's lives, he just wants to live at ease, do what he likes to do, and be with the people he likes.

If a woman meets such a husband, the woman's life after marriage is bound to be sad. Because she not only has to resist the responsibility of the whole family, but also to be ready to be betrayed by her husband at any time.

This kind of irresponsible person is prone to extramarital affairs, he is not only irresponsible to his wife and children, but also to women outside of marriage, he will not bear any responsibility. He only enjoys the moment, likes it, then be together, be nice to others, let the other party willingly give him a woman outside of marriage, and when he is tired, then break up.

Marriage is never a shackle to such people, because marriage cannot bind them at all. When they want to have an affair outside of marriage, when they want to live with a woman outside of marriage, they can leave at any time.

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The third: low moral character.

People with low moral character often do things that are morally corrupt in the eyes of ordinary people, because in the eyes of ordinary people, morally corrupt and unforgivable things are very ordinary things in the eyes of these people with low moral quality, and they will not feel that there is anything wrong with this.

So, even if they do those bad things, they won't have any psychological burden. As a result, they will be more unscrupulous.

If such people become a family, the probability of extramarital affairs after marriage is high. Because of their low moral character, even if they have an extramarital relationship, they will not think that they have done something wrong, and even if they are discovered, they will probably respond with a straight face, saying that the reason why they will have an affair outside of marriage is because the wife at home has not done a good job.

What such people are best at is blaming others for their mistakes. When they have extramarital feelings and their wives file for divorce, such people will never let go easily, they will fight for the greatest interests, and for the sake of profit, they will even calculate their wives with all their hearts.

If you have a strong sense of morality, then you have done something wrong, you will definitely feel weak-minded, and you will definitely think of making up for each other, but this kind of person with low moral quality will not be like this, they will behave particularly rationally, and they will think of getting more things from each other.

This kind of person, let alone the wife, may not be good for women outside of marriage, usually can't see it, but when they encounter things, the way this kind of person copes will definitely make people feel unacceptable.

Therefore, people with low moral character are really prone to extramarital affairs, and such people will not feel that they have done something wrong after having extramarital feelings, and they will not feel guilty about their wives. Therefore, when encountering such people, we must hide far away.

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From the above, we already know which kind of people are prone to extramarital affairs. Selfish people and irresponsible people, as well as people with low moral character, these three kinds of people are prone to extramarital affairs.

Now that we know, we should try to stay away from such people.

Some people say that some people are extremely good at disguise, and even if they have been together for a long time, they have not revealed their selfish or irresponsible side. It wasn't until after encountering something that I discovered the bad nature of the other party.

It is true that some people are indeed very good at disguise, so they will make the women outside willingly give him the woman outside the marriage, and let the woman think that they are true love.

Many women are because they can't see the essence of each other, always feel that the other party's marriage is not happy, find themselves, fall in love with themselves, that is because the other party's wife is not doing a good job, do not think it is the man's fault at all, she will not feel that men are selfish, irresponsible, and have low moral character.

It wasn't until she encountered something and realized a problem that she stopped believing in extramarital love. Smart women will wake up in time after realizing this, and then choose to leave like Li Qing. Only a stupid woman would know this and then stupidly crash into it.

After women recognize the essence of men, do not think that they can change each other, women must get out in time. If you are not together, then quickly stay away from each other, if you are already together, then you must stop the loss in time.