Wen | Happy Baby
"You don't lack me, so why should I be affectionate?" Exhausted his heart and strength, he ended up touching himself. I was a cool person, but I did all the warm things for you. I don't have the ability to please you, but I'm more serious than anyone. What is affectionate, frustrated or doomed? ”
There is such a sentence in the "Biography of Yang Dai": "Extramarital affair, that is, two people with bing, think that they have encountered a good medicine, but in fact, they have encountered anesthetics, and once the effect of the medicine has passed, it is more painful than ever, and maybe they will encounter the crane top red who wants you to ming." ”
This description is too apt. But most of the extramarital love in life encounters fake crane top red, not only tortured to let themselves take half a life, but also the original small family that belonged to them, stirring up the family.
Everyone in the world knows that Yang Dai and Qian Zhongshu are in love, how can they make such an exclamation, they must be talking about others?
Life is like this, there are always some people, love but can not, do not hesitate to get, let go, lose and not willing, throughout their lives, are regrets.
Therefore, Yang Dai also said, "Don't touch a married woman, she is a man's face; don't touch a married man, he is a woman's life." ”
"Not your woman, don't boo cold and ask for warmth; not your man, don't be affectionate. This is the basic of being human, the bottom line of men and women.
This is the philosophy of life that everyone must understand, the basic of being a person.
This can also be said to be common sense, and everyone should know. But whether you can do it or not depends on your virtue!
Nothing in this world is absolutely black and white, and gray, just as in the world of crows, swans are guilty.
And true love is not to change each other, but to grow together. Finding the right person is the best gift for the rest of your life.
Not because I'm persistent, but because you deserve it. Even if there is a final dispersion, don't live up to the encounter, meet well, say goodbye. One person does not fail themselves, two people do not fail each other.
Now too much "love" is coming with the body, and after the freshness is over, the love is gone.
If the love is obtained because of emotions, the mood is good, and the love is soon gone, this is the consequence of taking advantage of the void.
If it is the love that is obtained by weighing the pros and cons, the benefits are gone, and the love is gone, this is an intangible transaction.
True love is the love of the soul, often "love at first sight", falling in love at a glance, regardless of matter, identity, or appearance.
Love each other in the heart, and always have his place in the heart. Such love does not require a gorgeous vow, but a soul-to-soul insistence.
"Between husband and wife, it is the wife who is tested when they are poor, the husband who is tested when they are rich, and the middle-aged couple all depends on their conscience."
"When the passion fades, marriage has just begun, and the essence of marriage is companionship and responsibility. Mature love, on the other hand, depends on conscience, and the second half of life depends on responsibility. ”
Reading is really a good thing, as if listening to Mr. Yang Dai's storytelling, listening to her old man's idle talk about life. Reading is a worthy awakening in life, as well as the best confidant friend who looks at your own heart.
Seeing this philosophical thought of Mr. Yang Chen, I suddenly understood why we know so many truths, but we still can't live this life.
The reason is that blindly burying our heads in hard work, no one teaches us to run marriages well and maintain the family, who is not stepping on the pit all the way and filling the pit all the way through life.
People who want to reach out and pick stars often forget that there are flowers under their feet. The best state of mind is calm, and the best state is simplicity. Don't ask for everything, just want to have everything.