A woman who a man loves deeply all his life will have these three "don't do"

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Perhaps, the best way for a woman to live is to bring her own light, calmly, abundantly and beautifully.

She will not pin her life on others, and she will not entrust her future to the arrangements of heaven, but firmly grasp it in her own hands and not go with the flow.

Love will bring her beauty, but it is only the icing on the cake of her life.

Men, will bring her warmth, but, just the finishing touch of her feelings.

She will live herself as the warm sun of winter, bring warmth to the pillow people, and will also live herself as a flower in the spring, bringing brilliance to the people around her, and her love is harmonious and warm.

Life rises and falls, she will settle her heart well, send her own light, do not blow out the lights of others, and will be the best pillow person around men.

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It is said that men like freshness and see one love one.

Actually, not quite.

Most men will be interested in freshness, but the woman who lets him put in his heart must be a woman who is comfortable with him and makes him appreciate, if a woman has an empty skin bag, then most of the time, his love for you will only stay on the skin bag.

A woman, the more you insist on being yourself, the more you can get his heart in a relationship, the more you can not be afraid, and live freely.

You will find that in life, the women who can make men can't bear to leave, she has never coveted how good a man is to herself, but just by his side, she can be the most authentic version of herself.

Because, she will let herself anytime and anywhere, have enough confidence, to chase the love she wants in her heart, anytime and anywhere, will have the courage to leave him, but also because of this, will make men want to conquer, want to be around him.

They will insist on these three "don't do" and let the man keep her in his heart.

Not to be "attached" to men, always

Perhaps, love, at best, is mutual attraction.

You adore him, you are a hero, and he spoils you like a child.

Just like Mr. Yang Dai and Qian Zhongshu.

After the two people got married, Mr. Yang Dai, she would try her best to take care of Qian Zhongshu, who "had a particularly poor ability to take care of herself in life", but never attached herself to him, but regarded him as the object of her admiration, and Yang Dai's knowledge of Dali, gentle and transparent, also made Qian Zhongshu incomparably moved.

More importantly, Mr. Yang Dai, who seems soft on the outside, but very strong on the inside, she has never lost herself in this marriage, even in the difficult part of life, she also understands life, washes away the lead, and still has the original girlish heart.

Women, the most afraid is that in the married life, they will lose their original selves and have to surrender to the pressure of reality. But, one day, when you become attached to a man, you have put yourself on the chopping board, let him love or not love, let him be by your side or abandon you.

Therefore, don't change yourself for him, become more, and often get the result of making efforts to be unflattering.

You know, what a man is most afraid of is that women change too much, he is afraid that you become too good, he can't control it, and he is worried that you will get worse, so that he doesn't want to look at you more.

Therefore, to be the original you, is the most beautiful you, live as you want, is your best look.

In this way, you can: he loves you, you rejoice, he leaves, and you can live your own life.

Not being a "vassal" of a man can help him

In the feelings, the most feared thing is one humble and flattering, and the other is domineering.

There are always girls who are not married, and someone will keep reminding you: just find a marriage that is good for you, don't pick it.

However, the person who is good to you is likely to change his appearance after marriage.

Looking for a man, don't take "good to you" as the standard, because most of the so-called "good to you" is just to buy and buy for you, to create some romance, at the beginning he may have no regrets, but after a long time, you will find that his various "looks down" will come.

Finding a partner should be to "respect you" as the most important measurement goal. A man knows how to respect you, his character is very worth considering, he knows how to listen to your opinions, do not need you to be humble and flattering, and will not let you change for him, so that you have the possibility of accompanying you for a lifetime.

The woman that men like is never a vassal without no ideas, nor does he want you to be his follower, in fact, what he desires more is a woman who can comfort him when he encounters difficulties, and can help him give him advice.

Just like in "The Biography of Zhen Huan", a lot of beautiful women, leaving aside love, among so many women, only Zhen Huan has entered the heart of the emperor, the main reason is that Zhen Huan is erudite and has a clear mind, especially to understand him, in the most critical place of his relationship with Nian Qianyao, gave him support and gave him strength.

Such a woman will make him not only want to love seriously, but also have a desire to conquer, even if he is the emperor.

And, a woman who only knows how to attach him, most of the time, she will suppress herself not to speak out, but also be jealous of him, all kinds of doubts, accompanied by all kinds of unreasonable trouble, all kinds of "doing", all kinds of tossing... These are the most disgusting things for men.

Therefore, the red dust is abundant, women must have their own ideas, but also have their own opinions, when you can give men more and more help, the more he will let him value you, the more he will be inseparable from you.

Not being a "pet" for men, can make money and be attractive

Life is difficult, often there are few winds and snows, more is a place of chicken feathers.

Therefore, there is no money, two people live a life, just like the sentence: poor and lowly couple Pepsi lamentation.

Women must not expect a man to raise you, use him as your "cash machine", only want to be a man's pet, he hurts you well, if he looks down on you, every penny you reach out for is a punch in the face.

There are always some girls who say that if you look for a husband, you must find a rich man.

However, you must know that if you do not have enough strength yourself, your so-called "finding rich people" is just deceiving yourself and giving yourself a vision.

Men are also very realistic, and the girl he wants must be someone who can match him.

Moreover, if you only have a beautiful skin bag, briefly let him submit to you, for a long time, if you do not have the ability to stand on your own, or if you can't let his heart be on you, then most likely, this kind of feeling, you will become more and more lonely, and finally, he will abandon you.

Therefore, those women who make men unable to put down, she herself will have a "leave you, I can still do" momentum, so that he has to take it seriously, have to cherish it well.

Therefore, women must have the ability to make money, so that they can make themselves more attractive.

Money, although vulgar, but love itself is a common thing, if you do not have money, love will not pay attention to you.

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In love, the most beautiful thing is to understand each other.

In fact, the three "don't do" of women is to let men understand your good, even if the life you face is chicken and dog, there are quarrels, there are sadness, but your three do not do, will also remind him of your good.

Life is long, your three views are in harmony, you understand each other, you are in line with your temperament, and you are loyal to your character.

You will not have an unspeakable choice when faced with "bread" or "love", and you will not greedily think that without this person, the people outside will be better.

Most of the men and women who can stick to love to the end are in ordinary days, and two people can appreciate each other and rely on each other.

Your non-subordination, non-following, will make men impressed.

A man's affection and preference will make you feel that he is around, very warm.

After all, time is cold, getting along with life is already very tired, sometimes, even if you really become what he likes for the man, he may not necessarily show his true love for you, so you must seriously touch it, whether it is necessary.

Women, you must know: sitting in the most luxurious car, it is not as good as having bread in your own hands and having a solid heart.

Author, Frank Fox

Figure, network

May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!