Author: One flower
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Generally speaking, love and marriage are all about being right at home, even if they are making friends, they are also carried out around the same circle, which is the world's eyes "things are clustered, people are grouped".
The male protagonist Fang Hongzhi portrayed by Mr. Qian Zhongshu in "Siege of the City" is a "prodigal brother" from a gentleman's family, of course, he is not different from those rich brothers who frequently enter and leave the "Qinglou", to be precise, Fang Hongzhi is a brother who has an opinion and lives in his spiritual world.
Fang Hongwei's father was once a lifter, and he could also be regarded as the prince of the Shuxiang Gate, but apart from this glamorous name, there was nothing else. Fang Gradually went abroad to study, which was funded by the parents of his dead fiancée.
However, he finally failed to live up to the painstaking efforts of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and in the few years abroad, he did not learn any techniques, and before returning to China, he got a fake doctoral diploma and made a lot of jokes.
Su Wenyun is a classmate of Fang Hongzhi when he studied abroad, completely different from Fang Hongzhi, Su Wenyun is a woman who is keen on improving herself, and she got a doctoral diploma with her own strength. Su Wenyun has a noble origin, her father has an official position, and she herself, both appearance and talent, surrounded by many suitors, a proper "white rich beauty".
The emotional entanglement between Fang Hongwei and Su Wenyun was completely created by Su Wenyun. That is to say, if it were not for Su Wenyun's persistence and entanglement, Fang Hongzhi would definitely not have contact with her.
However, in the eyes of outsiders, Fang Hongwei, a prodigal brother who did not learn and had no skills, was simply not worthy of "Bai Fumei" Su Wenyun. However, as far as Fang Hongwei himself is concerned, he can't look down on Su Wenyun, who is very talented, good looking, and born from a very first-class background, what are the reasons for this?
First, inferiority and frustration
Su Wenyun is a smart woman, who has long seen that Fang Hongzhi's doctoral degree in philosophy is fake, and Fang Hongzhi is also a smart person, he knows that Su Wenyun has seen through his true body, so in front of Su Wenyun, he is very frustrated.
Men like a woman, is like a woman's worship of themselves, rather than looking down on themselves, Fang Hong gradually and Su Wenyi together, can not enjoy this kind of worship, but need Fang Hong gradually look up to her, the arrogant Fang Hongwei, can not stand this asymmetry in the relationship between the sexes.
And Su Wenyun herself, also keen on the feeling that men are circling around her, the stars are holding the moon, Fang Hong gradually thinks that she is not a woman like her, not dedicated enough, and even some black heart, which Is what Fang Hong gradually despises.
Second, the fusion with Miss Bao
On the ship returning to China, the ambiguous affairs of Fang Hongwei and Miss Bao have been known to everyone, and Su Wenyun has witnessed all this, that is to say, Fang Hong's gradually shameful and well-known side has been witnessed by Su Wenyun. In front of Su Wenyun, Fang Hong had gradually been stripped naked, and there was no secret to speak of, and the man was afraid of this feeling.
From the constant extortion of the waiter on the ship, and the eyes of others looking at the hilarity, it can be seen that this is not a glorious thing, at least, in China, this is a matter of shame for the family.
Miss Bao has a fiancé, she is wandering, seducing men, it is her character that has problems, but Fang Hong gradually took the initiative to dedicate herself, could not help but be tempted, and had a relationship with her, that is Fang Hongwei's own moral problems.
If Fang Hong gradually accepted Su Wenyun, in the future, if he quarreled over other things, Su Wenyun would inevitably want to expose his old bottom, and Fang Hong gradually could not accept the appearance of this scene, so he cut off this idea in advance.
Third, the appearance of Tang Xiaofu
In the face of mate selection, the most feared thing is the comparison between the same sex.
Su Wenyun is a tall, black and calculating woman, and her cousin Tang Xiaofu is a naïve, lively and cheerful little woman, and if she changes to any man, I am afraid that she will fall in love with the latter.
After seeing the sexy hot girl Miss Bao and the black-skinned Su Wenyun, Fang Hong gradually prefers the simple Tang Xiaofu, which is similar to the "find an honest person to marry" advocated by women in the current society.
In front of Tang Xiaofu, Fang Hongfu can be free to be himself, physically and mentally can be relaxed, and Tang Xiaofu also likes Fang Hongfu, this two-way love is even more fascinating.
Later, Fang Hong gradually rejected Su Wenyun, Su Wenyun was annoyed and ashamed, turned around and shook Fang Hongwei's old bottom in front of Tang Xiaofu, and broke them up rawly, it was not difficult to see Su Wenyun's character, and if he didn't get it, he would destroy it, this kind of woman, Fang Hongwei did not dare to provoke.
Combining the above three points, it is not difficult to see the real reason why the "prodigal son" Fang Hongzhi can't look up to the "white rich beauty" Su Wenyun. In addition to the nasty aura that Su Wenyun himself carries, there is also an important point, that is, women who are too active have lost their charm.
From the return ship, Su Wenyun showed his admiration for Fang Hongwei, and at the domestic party, he rushed to please Fang Hongwei, this active posture will not win the favor of men, but will push men farther.
In the relationship between the sexes, there is a need for the trick of "wanting to get away with it".
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