Text/Time is up
True love is that there is no need for words to deliberately prove, and there is no need for any sea oath to commit, but in the continuous relationship with each other, cultivate a tacit understanding, which is the care and concern shown in body language.
Two people together, will definitely experience some moments of deep love, but when the wind and snow into the reality of chai rice oil and salt, love is no longer so romantic, which often makes people feel that they have lost love.
Of course, in a relationship, "with love" and "without love", are completely two different feelings, you are because of the precipitate of feelings to live a better life has become flat, or simply tired of the other party to become flat, there is an essential difference.
Love and unlove, all hidden in the details and body language when getting along, research shows that whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, without these three body languages, it proves that the fate has been exhausted.
If you want to understand, then you must read the book "Siege of the City" written by Mr. Qian Zhongshu.
This book took two years to complete, the book through the story of Fang Hongzhi and five women, to you step by step to the happiness and misfortune in the relationship, unmarried women must first read this book before making a decision.
Whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, without these three body languages, it means that the fate has been exhausted:
The biggest disgust a man has for a woman is that he doesn't even want to meet
In "The Siege", the male protagonist Fang Hongwei and the first woman are dolls married since their inception, but he has received Western teachings, and naturally he is unwilling to accept this kind of woman who has never met as a wife.
Therefore, Fang Hongzhi quickly sent a letter to her, expressing his intention that he did not want to marry her at all.
You see, men don't love a woman, they don't even think it's superfluous to meet, and they will be impatient to say more.
Soon, this unfortunate woman died of illness, but this made Fang Hong gradually feel a little fortunate that he finally got rid of a big trouble.
How cruel it was not to be loved, because it was not in his heart, so even if she died, it could not make a wave in his heart.
When men face the woman they like, they can't help but want to contact her, want to go further, hug tighter, kiss more sweetly.
Men's likes are hot, young men in their early twenties and early eights are always brave and abnormal in the face of love, in order to see the side of the beloved girl, you can cross thousands of mountains and rivers, and if he does not like, even if it is close at hand, he is too lazy to look up to see the other side.
Love and no love is really obvious, if a man is not even willing to meet in general, then he must have no you in his heart, no fate, it is a good thing to give up as soon as possible.
Men don't waste time on women they don't like, and it takes time to get acquainted with each other, and slowly get to know each other in the excess of time.
And if a man does not want to have a future with you from the beginning, then he will reject it from the first side, there will be no beginning, and there will be no love. Even if you barely get together, you will soon part ways completely.
Even if they met, the two knew that their feelings could not go back
Some people have loved, goodbye or want to have, and some people are, even if they try their best to meet each other, but the end of the final breakup can not be changed.
Su Wenyun is Fang Hongwei's classmate, and the two are like-minded and quite in tune, but Fang Hongwei's heart is loaded with others.
Su Wenyun took advantage of Fang Hong's gradual loss of love to take advantage of the void, but this relationship is only an ambiguous after all, Fang Hong gradually knows the difference between like and love, Su Wenyun is just a temporary choice for him to avoid the pain of lost love, she is destined not to be the person he is looking for.
When Fang Hong gradually met the fourth girl, that unusual liking washed over his mind, and he understood that this was the girl he loved most in his heart, so he had to break off relations with Su Wen and pursue Tang Xiaofu.
Even if Su Wenyun exhausted his means, Fang Hongzhi and Tang Xiaofu eventually failed to come together, but Fang Hongzhi preferred to choose a person to make up, rather than choose Su Wenyun, who had been waiting hard behind him.
Love is such a trick on people, the people you love don't love you, and you have no choice, there is a wall between Su Wenyun and Fang Hongwei, Miss Su can't cross it, and Fang Hongzhi is not willing to step over.
If a man's attitude towards you is always wandering, then you may also be a man's "spare tire" choice.
Women must wake up in time, people who don't love you, will not change their concepts because you see him a few more times, love this kind of thing can not be forced, feelings have gone, then the best choice is to let go.
Whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, when many of his actions make you realize that you can no longer go back, it proves that the fate between you has been exhausted, and there will be no good ending.
Lack of patience is the beginning of the disappearance of a man's love for a woman
Men are always unusually patient when pursuing women, so at the beginning of the relationship, it is always the time when the two people have the strongest feelings, because the men at that time are willing to be patient to coax you.
After a long time, after the man has tired of you, he will no longer do those stupid things that waste time for you.
Like what goes downstairs to your house in the middle of the night to bring you flowers, no matter how late you leave work, he will be too lazy to do these things.
Men's kindness to you actually has a purpose, if it weren't for liking you, men would prefer to lie at home and sleep or play games.
When I love you, you just want the stars in the sky and he is willing to find a way to pick them for you, and if a man doesn't love you, he will be unusually indifferent, and you will not coax you when you cry, and even think that you are noisy.
At first, Fang Hongzhi also respected his wife Sun Roujia as a guest, and his life was still relatively harmonious, but the longer the days went on, the more he wanted to jump out of the siege of marriage.
People will always treat the people they like specially, no matter how busy, they are willing to take time to be patient with you, and after not loving you, they will only feel that you are in the way, and once a man has an impatient mood for you, it is when his love for you gradually dissipates.
Whether you are lovers or husband and wife, once he begins to show impatience and does not have a good face for you, it proves that the fate is over, and it is barely useless.
Time Emotion Classroom:
Mr. Qian Zhongshu wrote in "Siege of the City": Marriage does not need too great love, and each other does not hate enough capital to get married.
However, in real life, it is often this "not annoying" feeling, which is most likely to be problematic, because you are just the person the other party has made up, and this "not annoying" has a strong alternative, and the person who enters the marriage with him can be you or anyone else.
Therefore, men or women, do not put their own marriage, when the other party's body language is repelling your approach, please tell yourself: stop the loss in time, leave early.
Loveless feelings are a kind of torture and suffering, and the other party cannot give you a sense of security, let alone make you happy.