"On every side of life, there are beautiful scenery."
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Original: The edge of life
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siege
Marriage is a besieged city, and people outside the city want to go in, and people in the city want to come out.
This is Mr. Qian Zhongshu's classic quote in "Siege of the City".
This is a wonderful statement, a sentence that exhausts the embarrassment of those who are besieged by marriage.
However, if two people in a besieged city feel differently, how can it be good?
For example, one person wants to escape, but another person wants to die to protect the city?
In "Mo Shanglang", He Zhu described a similar scene:
Xijin Sea Hawk Boat, diameter cangjiang rain. The double-wheeled version is ruthless, and the crow is like a human language.
Spend money on TheImo Lang, the fossil hill woman. He Wu is a Junxin, a three-year-old bedside woman.
02
Crow rolling
The most tragic thing in the world is to part with life and death.
Unfortunately, no matter how miserable the world is, it cannot prevent the arrival of parting.
Xijin Sea Hawk Boat, diameter cangjiang rain.
Nishizu is a parting ferry.
It doesn't matter whether it's located in the west, or the east, or the south, or the north.
The important thing is that in this place, the small boat carrying the beloved, like the wings of a goshawk, suddenly disappeared.
The same parting, some people feel that it is too long, hoping to end the ordeal as soon as possible.
Some people feel that it is too quick, before they have time to say goodbye, before they have time to take a good look at each other, everything will end hastily.
Nishizu Sea Hawk Boat.
Whether the boat is really light and swift like a sea hawk flying by, it is unknown.
The real situation is likely not.
But we can deny the facts, but we can't deny the feelings of the protagonist.
For the protagonist who stood on the shore and looked at the departing man, the boat really disappeared a little faster.
In this situation, it is not difficult to imagine that the so-called diameter of the river rain is likely to be the protagonist's tears flying.
The double-wheeled version is ruthless, and the crow is like a human language.
There was no hand, only tears.
There were no thousand words, only speechless choking.
That ruthless double-sided, even if he couldn't see the solemn melancholy in front of him, couldn't help but speak on behalf of the people.
Crow rolling is like a human language.
Is that the cry of the two ships, or the cry of the departed?
The only consolation is that the sound of this pair of crows can always be accompanied by the ears of distant pedestrians.
It is the deep affection of the send-off person who has not given up all the way.
03
Tie the heart
The send-off has a deep affection for the long-distance traveler.
But the long-distancer has a different attitude towards the send-off.
At least in the send-off's senses.
Spend money on TheImo Lang, the fossil hill woman.
The "Biography of the Daughters of Lie" records the story of the golden lang -
Lu Guoqiuhu was newly married for only five days, and he went out to become an official, and the time was hurried, and it was five years in a flash.
Five years later, Qiu Hu returned home, and before he reached home, he met a woman on the road.
Qiu Hu saw that the woman was quite beautiful, and immediately moved his heart.
However, remembering his identity as an official, and remembering that he had traveled to the vicinity of his hometown, he still had to be scrupulous, so Qiu Hu did not use strength, but adopted the way he felt that his hands were coming.
Qiu Hu thought to himself, no matter how beautiful she is, she is just a country girl, how much insight can she have?
So he took out a lot of money, intending to buy the woman's heart.
In Qiu Hu's view, the woman in front of her was afraid that she had never seen so much gold, counting on picking mulberries and raising silkworms, and she did not want to make so much money in her life.
As long as you are not a fool, where there is no no nod and agree.
But what Qiu Huwan did not expect was that in the face of the sparkling gold in his hand, the woman was unmoved and resolutely rejected him.
Qiu Hu returned home unhappily and sent someone to call his wife.
This time, he almost didn't jump up, the woman who appeared in front of him was not the mulberry girl just now, who else could it be?
Qiu Hu was shocked, his wife was even more shocked, after the shock, Qiu Hu's wife did not make a sound, and directly chose to commit suicide by throwing herself into the river.
Married to a husband who behaved so despicablely, Qiu's wife had no choice, she could not reconcile, and she despised her husband's shameless behavior, and could only destroy herself.
It is a pity that Qiu Qiu's wife was innocent all her life, and she kept her body after her husband left, but she ended up like this.
Among the men and women in the world, how many men are spending money and how many women are fossilized mountain women?
I'm afraid it's far more than Qiu Hu and his wife, right?
Since the man who wants to come to the world is so negative, then how good is she for her crush, and what kind of confidence and hope does she have.
He Wu is a Junxin, a three-year-old bedside woman.
Maybe the only thing that can make the negative man worry about it is not himself, but the little child next to him?
04
Hand
Whether the man who travels far away in "Mo Shang Lang" is a negative man is unknown.
But for a woman who is waiting for him wholeheartedly, it is also a common sentiment of people to worry about the other party's change of heart because she has not heard from her sweetheart for a long time.
At this time, her only comfort was the children around her.
It is not that the daughter is the mother's intimate little cotton jacket, but there is a child, and the woman feels that there is hope.
In her opinion, the sweetheart may forget her, but she can't always abandon her own blood and bones, no matter whether you ask or not?
Well, as long as the child is there, she is hopeful, sooner or later, her sweetheart will definitely come back.
Perhaps, when we see a woman thinking like this, we will feel that she is too naïve and too wronged by herself.
However, in ancient times, the status of a woman was so low, and she was strictly limited by women's morality, she really had no choice but to list women all the way.
What's more, it is not difficult for us to see from the lyrics that for the sweetheart who travels far away, the woman really cares, and she really loves to the bone.
It is precisely for this reason that women are more likely to have the psychology of gain and loss.
After all, love to the depths, always afraid of loss.
In fact, specific to each marriage, it is difficult to say which party is more likely to change his mind, and it is difficult to say which party is more likely to lose the other party.
But many times, it is true that the woman's attitude towards feelings is more cautious and more willing to pay for love.
How to make both parties in the marriage feel stronger than gold is not only a problem of one party in the marriage, but also a problem that requires both parties to work together.
Life Jun said
"Love does not ask whether to win or lose, lovesickness does not ask men and women."