Author: One flower
Image: From the web
Love is the premise of marriage, because admiring a person and wanting to put them together with the pair, they will plan step by step, get close to each other, confirm the love relationship, and then develop into the marriage hall, which is the historical step of emotional sublimation between men and women.
At the end of the fairy tale, the prince and princess live a happy life, and no one knows what their happy life is like. When I grew up, I realized that behind the happy life was the triviality of chai rice oil and salt, and the messiness of chicken feathers.
Sometimes, the love and marriage you have tried every means to get, once you get it, you will soon feel bored and regretful, which is the case with Sun Roujia in "Siege".
Fang Hongwei, who returned from studying abroad, can be described as a fragrant feast, and on the ship back to China, Miss Bao fell in love with him at first sight and opened a battle with Su Wenyi. The result, of course, is that the bold and open Miss Bao won, but her relationship with Fang Hongzhi stopped at one-year love.
Su Wenyun is an arrogant woman, of course, she is qualified to be "arrogant", her father has an official position, she is a returned female doctor, her appearance is also outstanding, a proper White Rich Beauty, which is also the reason why she is unmarried at an advanced age and constantly chooses men.
Su Wenyi likes Fang Hongwei, but Fang Hongwei is interested in her cousin Tang Xiaofu, whose father is a well-known lawyer and whose family is also very well-off.
After experiencing these three women, Fang Hongzhi was finally taken into the pocket by Sun Roujia, a small woman who was inconspicuous and had a very ordinary appearance and family situation, which was very surprising.
On academic qualifications, Sun Roujia only studied in a general university in China, on the appearance, she is not outstanding, thrown in the crowd can not find out, Fang Hongzhi saw her for the first time, did not carefully see what she looks like, it can be seen that it is really unattractive.
Even Zhao Xinlin hated her contrived appearance, saying more than once that she looked average, but she loved to pretend to be pure, referred to as "ugly people do a lot of weirdness".
If according to the normal plot development, Fang Hongzhi will definitely not look at her, let alone get married. But it was such an inconspicuous woman, after playing with several tricks, successfully turned Fang Hong into a husband.
It can be said that Fang Hongzhi was deceived by Sun Roujia into the besieged city of marriage, she used a spurious letter, through the hands of colleagues, let Fang Hongzhi indirectly admit their relationship, and then pretended to be stupid, using the woman's innocent name how important it is, so that Fang Hongzhi had to get engaged and married to her.
It is reasonable to say that sun roujia should be very proud, very happy, and cherish the marriage and husband who tried every means to deceive them, however, after marriage, the lives of the two people were not happy, and Sun Roujia was also demeaning Fang Hongzhi everywhere.
After the quarrel, the two people also moved their hands, and the marriage was as bad as a hemp rope. So, why did Sun Roujia not cherish this marriage when she got it?
First, it overestimated Fang Hongwei's original family
The first time Sun Roujia saw Fang Hongjia, she was attracted by his appearance, coupled with Fang Hongjia's humorous conversation, which made Sun Roujia fall in love at first sight.
Sun Roujia originally thought that Fang Hong, who was born in a squire family, was gradually rich and talented, after all, externally, Fang Hong gradually had always been the identity of a returned male doctor. Sun Roujia's father was just a small editor of the newspaper, and the families of the two people were very different.
Love begins with the heart of worship, Sun Roujia treats Fang Hongzhi like this, if it were not for the matter of Zhao Xinlin and Mrs. Wang, Sun Roujia would not have had the opportunity to enter Fang Hongzhi's life. Because in the eyes of outsiders, whether it is appearance or family knowledge, Sun Roujia is not worthy of the hongzhi.
However, after getting married, Sun Roujia went to meet with her in-laws, only to find that the so-called gentry family was just a decadent and depressed scene, and her dream of marrying into the "rich" was suddenly shattered, and naturally it would not give Fang Hong a good face.
Second, I saw through Fang Hong's personality
In Sun Roujia's consciousness, she believes that Fang Hong is gradually talking extraordinary, is a highly educated doctor of philosophy, looks good, has rich experience and love history, and is more attractive, so it will attract high-class ladies such as Su Wenyun and Tang Xiaofu.
But when she really got along, she found that Fang Hongzhi was a bastard with a bright shell and did not seek progress, and he was just a secular mortal.
Sun Roujia's one-month salary is twice that of Fang Hongzhi, and this state of strong women and weak men is easy for women to "flutter". In a marriage between the sexes, it is difficult to escape a strange circle, that is, in the family, who earns more money, the more superior, the more speaking, the higher the high.
Coupled with seeing Su Wenyun and being ridiculed by the other party, Fang Hong gradually did not break the siege for her, which stimulated Sun Roujia's inner inferiority and instantly transformed into a resentful woman.
Combining the above two aspects, it is not difficult to see why Sun Roujia no longer cherishes this feeling. Before falling in love and getting married, she was originally a fan of Fang Hongwei, looking at Fang Hongwei with adoring colored glasses, and felt that Fang Hongzhi was good everywhere.
Really got the hand, Fang Fang felt that Fang Hongzhi was just a bowl of tasteless rice, there was nothing special, even less than ordinary men, the gap between before and after was big enough to make her complain and transform into a bitter woman with a poisonous tongue.
-Ends-
Is there love between Sun Roujia and Fang Hongwei? Let's leave a message and discuss.