When I read "Siege of the City", I didn't like a single character in it, and I always felt that they had more or less shortcomings and were not perfect.
A little older, it seems to understand Fang Hong's mediocrity, no longer requires the characters to be idealized, and begins to accept reality.
After getting married, I watched "Siege of the City" again, and I had a new understanding of the characters in it, understood them, and even lived like them.
I had always felt that it was a pity that Tang Xiaofu and Fang Hongwei had missed it, and that the novel was not realistic enough. Now look at "Siege" to understand that Tang Xiaofu and Fang Hongwei's miss is the most perfect ending in the play.
First, study abroad "mixed" Fang Hongzhi
Fang Hongzhi in "Siege" is different from many film and television dramas now, as the male protagonist, he is very imperfect and integrates the shortcomings of many people.
Studying abroad for four years, he ate, drank and had fun for four years, and the money on his body was almost spent, he decided to return to China, in order to cope with his parents and in-laws, he spent $30 to buy a "Clydon University Ph.D." diploma.
Originally, it was just to fool his family, but he didn't expect that in the end, everyone knew it, and he could only cooperate with the performance and enjoy the glory and pride brought by the title of "Dr. Liuyang".
Fang Hongzhi really has no ability, but his eloquence is excellent, in addition, in the four years in Europe, he has also increased a lot of insight, but most of them have nothing to do with academia and are useless.
"Understand that love and sexual desire are twins, class and difference, sexual desire is not the basic of love, love is not the sublimation of sexual desire. He had also read books like the Love Guide, and knew the difference between the love of flesh and the love of heart. ”
In the original work, the irony of this passage on The other side of Hong gradually studying abroad is too profound, under the pretext of studying abroad, in fact, there is no difference between tourism and vacation, and also studied the love between men and women.
A fake doctoral diploma, let him be admired, to the family to win the light, but, the fake real can not be, "Dr. LiuYang" is like a fig leaf for him, he desperately pulled, afraid that others will tear it open, and it seems to have been torn open.
Two, two "black" love histories
With a handsome appearance and good family conditions, a man like Fang Hongwei is still very pleasing to women. During the study abroad, I don't know if he has ever been in love, and on the cruise back home, he has two "black love histories".
"Some called her 'deli' because only the delicatessen would put the many colors of warm meat on public display; others called her 'truth', because 'truth is said to be naked'. Miss Bao was not completely naked, so they corrected it to 'partial truth'. ”
This is a description of Miss Bao, imagine that Miss Bao is a very unruly woman, and during her time on the boat, she also wanted to hook up with a man. This kind of woman is only suitable for playing.
Fang Hong gradually understood in his heart that he did not like Miss Bao, but he still could not resist the temptation and slept with Miss Bao on the boat.
After Miss Bao got off the boat, Fang Hong gradually looked at his back with Mr. Li, Miss Su came to talk, he immediately forgot Miss Bao, and began to be ambiguous with Su Wenyi, seamlessly connecting back and forth, too much affection.
Back in Shanghai, Su Wenyun's intentions for him, he has always been clear, that is, not to open the words, let Su Wenyun misunderstand.
Su Wenyun's affection for him was obvious, and that night, Miss Su dressed up specially to make the relationship between the two people one step closer.
"I'm going to sit farther away — you're so beautiful!" This moon will do stupid things for me. ”
He obviously did not love Miss Su, and said this kind of flirtatious and ambiguous words, making people think that he was not cowardly, but a little debauched, Miss Su asked him to kiss himself, and he did not refuse:
Hong gradually couldn't avoid it, and kissed her back on the face. The weight of the kiss was very light, the scope was very small, only like the Qing Dynasty official tea delivery when wiping the lips on the edge of the tea bowl. ”
Although it is a faint kiss, for Su Wenyun, this is like a kiss of love, even if the relationship between the two people is determined, if there is no accident, they will be engaged and married. Su Wenyi did not expect that Fang Hong gradually returned home and immediately wrote a parting letter.
These two love histories, it can be seen that Fang Hongzhi is very unstable about feelings, he does not like women at all, he can sleep with her, like his own women, he is not willing to show his heart.
Such an emotional attitude is still very "scum", you play with feelings, these traces can not be eliminated, do you think that when you meet true love, start to change evil and return to righteousness?
It was also these two love histories that made him unable to get tang Xiaofu.
Third, the means of the old and spicy "yellow haired girl", her simplicity, is pretended
"Miss Tang's feminine and upright round face has two shallow wine swirls. Born with the average woman to spend money and time-consuming, fat and powder to imitate the good face, fresh enough to make people forget the thirst and feel hungry, as if it is a good fruit. Her eyes are not large, but they are flexible and gentle, reflecting the big eyes of many women only like the big words spoken by politicians. ”
In her works, Tang Xiaofu is a very perfect image, not a word is satirical of her, she is a college student, representing her ideas are avant-garde progressive women; she is not powdered but delicate and lovely, and she is very different from other vulgar girls.
"All in all, Miss Tang is a rare thing in modern civilized society—a real girl."
Fang Hong gradually mixed among the women like Miss Bao, tired of it, and his impression of most girls was not very good, thinking that the real "girls" had long become a rarity.
With a heart, a knife in a smile, a gold worship, a secretive feeling, arrogance and vulgarity, Fang Hong gradually came into contact with too many such women, and Tang Xiaofu thought it was a blank piece of paper, clean and flawless, and Fang Hong gradually really moved.
However, Su Wenyun said that Tang Xiaofu was "old and spicy", just went to college to fall in love, and there were many male friends around him.
"Don't think she's naïve, she's the idea of a full belly!" ...... Although this child is small, her skills are very large, and she grabs a boyfriend and plays with it in her hand! ”
Tang Xiaofu's family also called her a "social star", indicating that her social circle is indeed wide and her friends should be many.
"Miss Tang felt that Fang Hong gradually said these words in order to attract her own attention to him, and she smiled secretly in her heart."
Su Wenyun's words are still credible, in addition to jealousy, this word also has 7 points of credibility, Tang Xiaofu is not as simple as looking, the psychology is very mature, just good at pretending to be stupid, she saw Fang Hongwei for the first time, she saw his thoughts about herself.
At that time, the girl who could go to college must have been avant-garde in her thinking, and there were so many friends around her, she could still show a naïve and cute look, wasn't that pretending?
However, some women who look shrewd are not willing to pretend to be stupid, and have to pretend to be a very smart look, such as Su Wenyun; Tang Xiaofu is just the opposite, she sees through everything, but she prefers to pretend to be stupid, which is more elusive.
Fourth, did Tang Xiaofu ever love Fang Hongwei?
Tang Xiaofu was the only woman Fang Hongwei had ever touched, and the only woman he had ever loved, which was beyond doubt.
In the original work, there is a paragraph that describes Fang Hongwei returning the letter to Tang Xiaofu:
When Fang Hong gradually returned the letter to Miss Tang, he was stupid and did not feel it. After some time, he woke up like he had woken up from fainting, and began to have incessant heartache, like limbs numb from curling, until he straightened the blood circulation, and felt the tingling pain. ”
However, regarding whether Tang Xiaofu loved Fang Hongwei or not, the answer was different.
In the original work, I think Tang Xiaofu is a little touched by the other party's Hong gradually, but when it comes to love, it should not be possible to talk about it.
Tang Xiaofu saw at the beginning that her cousin liked Fang Hongwei, but Fang Hong gradually liked or disliked Su Wenyun, and she couldn't see through it, and later it was determined that it was her cousin's wishful thinking.
Fang Hong gradually offered courtesy to Tang Xiaofu, Su Wen was jealous, so he made trouble, her little careful thinking, Tang Xiaofu could see it clearly, so she gambled with her cousin: The more you are not used to it, I prefer to do this.
Miss Tang thought angrily that this was probably her cousin coming to check whether she was at home. She's so bullying! Fang Hongwei is not hers, do you want her to take care of it like this? The more my cousin intervened in this way, she preferred to let him get close. I will never love Fang Hongwei, love is a tortuous and great emotion, not so easy and simple. If this is the case, then love is so easy that it does not believe it, and it is easy to make itself unconvinced. ”
Fang Hong gradually launched a love offensive, after many correspondences, Tang Xiaofu slowly understood Fang Hongwei, and began to like him a little, she also replied several times, which shows that Tang Xiaofu is still fond of Fang Hongwei.
After that kiss of the moon and night, Fang Hongwei's parting letter completely angered Su Wenyun, who told Tang Xiaofu all about Fang Hong's fake doctor, Miss Bao at night, and ambiguity with himself.
Tang Xiaofu was angry and broke up with Fang Hong, Tang Xiaofu could accept his fake doctor, but the night he and Miss Bao, Tang Xiaofu was absolutely unacceptable, not to mention, he also kissed Su Wenyun.
"The man I love, I want to be able to occupy his whole life, he did not have a past before he met me, leaving a blank waiting for me." 」
Tang Xiaofu requires absolute loyalty to feelings, even in the past, that is, now some people require the other party not to be in love. Tang Xiaofu knew that Fang Hongzhi did not like his cousin, but he was like a coward, and he did not make it clear, which made Tang Xiaofu feel awkward.
The night Tang Xiaofu and Fang Hongwei confronted each other, although Tang Xiaofu said a lot of decisive words, she hoped in her heart that Fang Hongfu could explain to herself, who expected that they both chose to let go.
Miss Tang hated not to say, "Why don't you defend?" I will believe you," but only said, "Then goodbye." "She sent Hongxue, hoping he would have something to say."
Tang Xiaofu likes Fang Hongwei, she is also arrogant, she will not bow her head first, she would rather miss, she will not take the initiative.
Fifth, Tang Xiaofu's soberness and unconsciousness
"We've broken, broken!" Hear that? Why call twice? Good no face, you smashed a good ghost! I see you can't marry anyone in your lifetime. ”
Tang Xiaofu called Fang Hongwei, and Fang Hong gradually thought it was Su Wenyun, so he broke out and scolded, and Tang Xiaofu's heart was cold when he heard these words.
Afterwards, she also thought about it, those words may not have been said to herself, because there had been such a misunderstanding before, she was unwilling to call back to explain, thinking that she had forgotten Fang Hongwei like this!
Fang Hong gradually answered this phone call, and he could also see that his love for Tang Xiaofu was also quite ridiculous. How could he not want to make a phone call? Or explain it to her again, even if you go to Tang Xiaofu's house to wait for her downstairs once, and fight for it.
Fang Hong gradually did not do that, he should not love Tang Xiaofu deeply enough, and the poor self-esteem in his heart made him unable to bow his head.
Tang Xiaofu is very sober about feelings, she can see through the relationship between Fang Hongwei and Su Wenyun at a glance, and she also knows Fang Hongwei's thoughts about herself, but she did not say anything.
Tang Xiaofu is a "social star", she has seen many men, so she knows how to look at men better. Just because she sees a lot, she also sees through men a bit, and doesn't get into her eyes.
When Fang Hongwei left, she did not stay, nor did she call Fang Hongwei a second time to give him a chance to explain.
Feelings can not be turned back, if you turn back, then her position in the eyes of Fang Hongwei will not be guaranteed, will not be wronged herself, would rather lose, such a woman, is really "fierce", absolutely not a trace of indecision.
Tang Xiaofu thought of love too beautifully, and it showed that she was not sober enough, just like people outside the siege, asking each other to have no emotional history, which is a bit unrealistic.
Fang Hong gradually experienced the things in the besieged city of feelings, accepted the reality and imperfection of feelings, and now met Tang Xiaofu, and he wanted to become a person outside the besieged city and abandon the stains of the past.
How can it be said that the matter of feelings is erased and erased?
Treating feelings, Tang Xiaofu is a woman who does not drag mud and water, such a woman, it is not easy to be hurt by feelings, when she finds that the other party is not the person she wants, she is very determined.
Sixth, missing is the most perfect ending
After Tang Xiaofu and Fang Hong gradually separated, many people were looking forward to their encounter again at the end, and in the end, Tang Xiaofu did not appear again.
Tang Xiaofu is the perfect female avatar favored by Qian Lao, Fang Hong is like a beam-jumping clown, Qian Xiaofu does not want Tang Xiaofu to marry a fake doctor, I think such an ending is perfect.
Fang Hongzhi is a very cowardly and incompetent person, he used his father-in-law's money to study abroad, and in the end he was unwilling to get together and disperse, and he was not grateful.
Let him work in the bank, the work of others to appreciate food, he still hates that there is no future, he has no real ability, and he also feels that he is great, and the typical eye is low.
Treating feelings, it seems that he is playing with others, but in fact, others are playing with him. As soon as Miss Bao seduced, he was hooked, Miss Su said that flash marriage would flash marriage, and Tang Xiaofu made him lose face.
If Tang Xiaofu married Fang Hongwei, it must be the misfortune of the two people.
After Fang Hong gradually chased Tang Xiaofu into his hand, his true face would be revealed, he was not a deep-feeling person at all, coupled with Tang Xiaofu's cleanliness of feelings, the two people could not get along at all.
What Tang Xiaofu needed was a person who was in tune with her body and mind, requiring a high degree of harmony between body and soul, and Fang Hong gradually could not give her.
In addition, Tang Xiaofu's family is good, her father is a lawyer, and her parents do not pay much attention to the children's private affairs, indicating that the concept of her family is very enlightened, and Fang Hongwei's parents are very ignorant feudal parent images, marrying Tang Xiaofu into such a family is tantamount to erasing Tang Xiaofu's soul.
At that time, Tang Xiaofu would either compromise or fight, and Fang Hong would gradually find that Tang Xiaofu was just like this, just a mediocre woman.
At last:
Fang Hong gradually missed Tang Xiaofu, which became difficult for the reader's heart, because Tang Xiaofu was too good, and missing her was the thing that Fang Hongwei regretted the most.
However, from Tang Xiaofu's point of view now, not choosing Fang Hongwei is the most correct decision she has made, and she needs to have a man who really understands her, so that she can maintain her original intention and maintain the beautiful yearning for love in her heart.
Fang Hongzhi also reminded everyone that in order to meet true love, you can calmly go to her to confess, must not do anything sorry for her (him), even if she (he) has not yet appeared. If you're already bad when she shows up, it's too late to regret it.
Fang Hongwei did not improve himself well before he met Tang Xiaofu, so he could not catch it.
While waiting for love, try to make yourself better, so that you don't miss it because you don't deserve it.
Author: Muzi