In the era when many girls are caught up in appearance anxiety, paying attention to appearance has become a criticism in a sense, while beautiful people on the Internet confidently boast that they are being attacked, and girls with average looks or even lower levels have been unanimously praised.
It is true that appearance cannot be a measure of a person, it is not a decisive value, but it is not advisable to overly ignore the importance of appearance.
In the problem of appearance anxiety, we encourage girls to be confident and recognize themselves, not too attached to appearance, but the premise is also to learn to improve themselves, with the ability to improve their self-confidence with dressing.
Create value at first sight
There is a passage on the Internet that says: "It is said that a person's inner being is the most important, but if there is no appearance, few people want to understand your inner nature." ”
In the relationship between people, appearance is the most intuitive feeling in a short period of time, whether in learning, work, better appearance brings more opportunities for others to understand themselves.
In Qian Zhong's book "Siege of the City", Tang Xiaofu is said by readers to be the most favored character, because all the beauty is left between the lines.
And Fang Hong gradually fell in love with Tang Xiaofu because at first glance, he was amazed to see such a bright and beautiful appearance, and her purity and cuteness were the starting point for Fang Hong to fall in love with her.
Therefore, he invited each other to dinner, and he was more fascinated by this simple girl in his daily life.
Learning to create first-glance value is the wisdom of a high-level woman, as Qin Niu Zhengwei was asked in an interview: "Why is it that the more beautiful a woman is, the more stupid she is?" ”
She smiled and replied, "A woman is not stupid when she lets you see her beautiful." ”
A woman's outward image hides a real layer, and a woman who likes to take care of herself tends to be more confident and more attractive to others.
Although the exterior is important, and the value that beauty can bring is also limited, if the gold and jade are defeated externally, it is not advisable, and the temperament reflects a deeper level of beauty.
Temperament is a magnetic field
In "Meteor Garden", her sister Fujido Shizuku may have thought to be the perfect woman that many girls thought, but her beauty was only one of her many advantages.
She gives people the feeling of maturity and stability, but she is in a circle of power but has developed a vision of not being powerful.
She helps poor students, she cares for friends from childhood to adulthood, she is like a party moon noble and quiet, and like a round of sun shining and warm.
She loves Hanazawa class, but she loves her own pursuit more, she knows what she really wants, in order to pursue her dream to choose a country of residence, others pray that she will not go away.
Because Hanazawa only smiles when she is with him, she says, "But what I'm going to do will bring smiles to more people."
Fujido Jing's beauty is not only superficial, she has thoughts and ideals and more directions, and what is revealed in her temperament is her firmness and love.
In the TV series "Love Apartment", Wanyu and Zhan Bo are a pair of screen couples that many viewers like, but in the end, the two chose to separate, Wanyu chose to pursue her dream to study in Milan, and her boyfriend Zhan Bo became a mannequin in order to follow her.
A highly talented student at MIT, because Wanyu lost all his self-esteem.
Wan Yu said: "I am more sure that the life I want should be free, there is no fixed place, every day is a new scenery, a new adventure. ”
In the end, the two chose to separate, which is also the inevitable result, because Wanyu always insisted on her dreams, her eyes were bold, her face was confident, and her life was destined to be free and adventurous.
Temperament is a woman's acquired precipitation, in this beauty, showing her circle, experience and pursuit, in the image of temperament, often to a large extent exposes a person's true level.
Spirit is the best nourishment for appearance
As Jiang Zengpei said: "To package yourself, you must have a good image, and you cannot lack the nourishment of culture." And a woman who is nourished by culture and reason is destined to be extraordinary.
In the TV series "The First Half of My Life", the strong woman Tang Jing has a successful career, and her boyfriend is called the Golden Boy and Jade Girl, who is about to cultivate positive results but is betrayed by her girlfriend Luo Zijun and her boyfriend He Han.
The love between the two is undoubtedly the biggest blow to Tang Jing, she is independent and tenacious and said to He Han, "I can buy the ring myself, and I will take good care of myself." ”
Tang Jing did not indulge in the grief of lost love, and she did not give up on herself like Luo Zijun after her divorce.
She quickly adjusted herself back to the company, and later because of a project that was taken down by herself, He Han asked her: "I didn't expect that you traveled for a few days to win this project." ”
Tang Jing calmly told him: "I will not quit my job to travel for such a small matter, time is precious, it is not worth such a sad waste." ”
On the other hand, Luo Zijun was devastated after the divorce, she no longer dressed herself, she washed her face with tears every day, she lacked a strong heart, and the beauty she once had was just a pile of money, and once it suffered a blow, it was like a flower leaving the greenhouse, and it soon withered and withered.
A woman's external image is the most intuitive value, he determines what kind of person wants to know you, and a woman's temperament is a unique magnetic field, it determines what kind of person will be fascinated by you, and a woman's spirit is the real level, it determines how far the person who loves you will accompany you.