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Some love, it's really ironic to say it.
If you want to say that it is love, even the basic conditions of love cannot be satisfied, but if you want to say that it is not love, it seems that some deep feelings have nowhere to be placed. Of course, whether this affection is wishful thinking or not, we do not care, because when a person is caught in it, he is not aware of this, but will deceive himself, and no one can wake up a person who pretends to be asleep.
It's a reader's story.
She fell in love with a man, divorced once, she originally thought that this time met the true love of life, because in her definition, she believes that men love her, she is also very good, although she is 6 years younger, but in the various details of life, she is very concerned about her, giving her in the previous marriage, never had the warmth and happiness.
The man initially said he didn't mind her divorce status and insisted on being with her, and they quickly started falling in love. When they were in love, the man was still single, but after almost a year of being in love, the man chose to get married. Yes, the plot of dog blood comes, and the bride is not her.
Because she was 6 years older than the man, and when they were together, the man was 29 years old, plus she and her ex-husband had a daughter who had always been her carrying, so their relationship was not recognized by the people inside the man's family. Later, the man also compromised, he could not beat his parents, or chose to go on a blind date, in life events, choose a wife that his parents prefer.
But on the other hand, the man did not break up with her, but continued to get along with her, saying his helplessness and hoping that she could understand.
She didn't understand at first because it wasn't her value and she couldn't accept herself in the relationship as such a person, so she wanted to leave. But men do not let go, always begging her not to divide, the mobile phone message said that it is useless, see her ignore, men will come to her door to wait for her, one day does not work for two days, two days can not come every day.
She softened her heart and began to compromise.
From the moment she compromised, she was doomed to the tragedy of their relationship.
The man later married the blind date, she existed in a way that could not see the light, the two people often met quietly, and when they were together in private, the man's attitude was still the same as before, it seemed that nothing had changed, and he had been saying to her that they were true love, saying that if it were not for his parents, he would definitely marry her. She had believed it, but one day when she overheard him calling his wife at home, she found that his tone was equally gentle, saying that she would pick her up after work, and then go to the market to buy vegetables, and the two of them were talking sweetly, and she felt cold in her heart.
If, she had heard a strange man talk about this, she would have thought he was a very good other half of the family, and their husband and wife were particularly affectionate, and there was no contradiction of that kind.
She fell into hesitation and contemplation, coupled with her learning that the man's wife was pregnant, the uneasiness and entanglement in her heart became more and more intense, and they continued to talk about love in this way for half a year, in fact, her heart was not stable. So, once again, she offered to separate, saying that it was better not to contact again. She loved him very much, but she had never passed the level of her conscience, so she didn't want to continue.
Sure enough, the man still retained, basically the same routine as last time.
Her problem is that she says she can do without contacting him, not taking the initiative to find him, but if he keeps taking the initiative to find herself and refuses to let go, she will always be soft-hearted.
When I asked her if you had thought about telling his wife at home about it since he acted so inseparable from you, after all, she had the right to know the truth. She replied in the negative because she said, "If I had made a fuss about it, he wouldn't have a good time at home, and I don't want him to face that." ”
Hearing her say this, I understood why the man was so adamant that he didn't want to leave. Because he ate her and pinched her, he knew that she would think about him, would not make a fuss about it, and understood her temper, and could see that her heart was soft, so as long as he stabilized her, he could continue to have two relationships and love. The man was greedy, selfish, and loved himself.
A woman, in extramarital love to the extreme, will do two words, really hateful and pitiful, these two words are complete.
Although in such a relationship, some people who love deeply still think of fulfilling him, ensuring that everything he has now, wanting him to continue to be happy, this kind of self-touching giving and fulfillment, is actually quite silly. Women who think this is love are even more stupid, and true love will never be like this, it is the love that you assume in your own mind, not his love.
Because when a man has an act of betrayal, it is enough to prove that in his heart, interests and measurement are the first, and you have to say how much he loves whom, impossible. The people he likes are all able to bring benefits to themselves in some way, they are clear in their hearts, and they are rational from beginning to end, and they do not regard these as love.
But as long as one person has true love, the other person will not exist.
Because true love is exclusive.
So, for those women who are trapped in an incorrect period, really don't fall in love with the brain, don't deceive yourself, maybe you still think that you are compromising for love, breaking the shackles, and even I see some people saying that the unloved person is the third party. Please, sober up, if a man makes you the invisible person in the relationship, how true is the love he said, can you know? Ten thousand steps back, even if he really doesn't love his family, do you think he loves you? Love doesn't just say it to be true, after all, there's no real cost to say a word. If he can deceive his family, he can deceive you, and don't think that he is an exception.
Moreover, if you really want to say the words of love, don't be so vain, but also look at some practical things, who he gives the name, who gives the money and responsibility, he loves whom more.
In an originally incorrect relationship, it is a fantasy to have the perfect result of the ideal. You have to talk to people who really know how to love, and this love is bright and just, and then talk about the word love, everything is meaningful.
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