From the first episode, "Knowing or Not" has been discussing which daughter to put in the old lady's house to raise.
The old lady has weight in the Sheng family and has social status, the key is to be smart and wise, to see how well she raises Hualan. If Lan is raised around the big lady, she has developed the same rectum as the big lady.
Lin Xiaoniang saw the value of the old lady early on, although she herself did not like the old lady, but still tried her best to let Mo Lan go to the old lady's room to please, and privately blew the pillow side wind with the red wolf, hoping that the red wolf would help Mo Lan in front of the old lady.
Wei Xiaoniang, not to mention, also hoped that Minglan could go to the old lady's house. She herself is not favored, and the child follows her very hard, but she still has been around for many years, not to the eldest lady, but to the old lady, which shows that she also sees the value of the old lady.
Only the eldest lady, who was iron-hearted, was afraid of her own Rulan suffering, and tried every means to prevent Rulan from passing.
At first, the old lady did not want to raise, Mo Lan ran to her room every day to study, Sheng Hong repeatedly recommended, saying that Mo Er was well-behaved and sensible, the old lady did not let go, only said that she was old and wanted to be clean.
At that time, the old lady should really not want to raise. She didn't like Lin Xiaoniang, and she also knew that the eldest lady was reluctant to have children, and Mo Lan and Ru Lan had already been passed off in their hearts. As for Minglan, when she was a child, she only wanted to stay by Wei Xiaoniang's side, and she didn't want to come here at all.
After Wei Xiaoniang's death, the eldest lady took Minglan to her house and was taken care of by Hua Lan every day. With Hua Lan there, he will definitely not treat Ming Lan badly.
However, the old lady offered to send Minglan to her house, and seeing Sheng Hong's expression, it was a shocked face, which showed that the old lady had never shown that she liked Minglan before.
The old lady was willing to raise Minglan, not only because Wei Xiaoniang was dead, Minglan had no one to rely on, the eldest lady had already been raised, and she could not offend her daughter-in-law.
She is willing to raise Minglan, but in fact, the situation is forced.
And this situation is Wei Xiaoniang's sister.
This story comes from the original article of the public account [Sister Tang's leisure time]."
The author Tang Xiaoxiao deeply analyzes human nature by analyzing a series of behaviors of Aunt Wei and her confrontation with the old lady.
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Tang Xiaoxiao's classic drama review series is particularly liked by readers, because she not only reviews the drama, but analyzes human nature through the drama and teaches the reader how to deal with people.
Many readers read her reviews repeatedly, saying that every time they watched it, they had a great gain.
In the hearts of 500,000 readers, Tang Xiaoxiao is wise, transparent, and to the point, and many confusions can be answered here.
For example, she wrote the "Know It or Not" series, Hua Lan is so smart, she was taught by her grandmother since she was a child, she did not lose Minglan at all, why was she angry with her mother-in-law everywhere after marriage, and even her children were taken away by her mother-in-law to raise them?
Many viewers said that Hua Lan was angry because of Gao Pan, the concubine of a small official, married to the Earl's Palace, everyone said that she was married well, and Gao Pan's marriage was destined to be angry.
But you look at Rulan, she is lowly married, the result is not the same anger, pregnant and punished by the mother-in-law every day, the mother-in-law lives in the house she bought, but also to her room to stuff concubines.
Therefore, whether it is angry with the mother-in-law has little to do with whether it is high or low. The in-laws of Gao Pan look down on you, and the low-married in-laws may also deliberately suppress you, where to reason.
The reason why Hua Lan was angry was actually another reason. These reasons deserve the vigilance of all women, otherwise you may also be holding a deck of cards, but you have been wronged in your in-laws' home.
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In addition to drama reviews, she also writes about celebrities and writes about the hot spots that everyone pays attention to.
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Life is sometimes fair, and in this matter the scenery will be darker in other things.
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These unique insights are related to her experience.
She has opened a restaurant, worked as a laborer, worked as a housewife, and her life is not satisfactory. But no matter how bad life is, she sticks to her hobby of writing.
Busy with business, she uses her lunch break to write, and when she has children, she writes while the children are asleep.
Long-term persistence, so that her life finally began to slowly change.
In her first year of full-time writing, she published 100 articles a month and 1,400 articles a year the following year.
Later, I opened a public account, did writing training, opened a company, and lived the life I wanted by writing.
She will record her life in words and videos.
Back home, seeing the changes in her hometown, she said,
In the fast-paced present, it doesn't matter if you are a little slower once in a while, as long as you concentrate on your work and seriously manage every day, even if it is a little late, you can have your own sea of stars.
She shared the secret of not arguing with her husband for 15 years.
Share ways to get your mother-in-law.
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