"Parasite": Money is an iron, which can iron all the folds of life.
Money is a good thing, it can lift people out of poverty, and it can make people live the life they want. But at the same time, it can also make brothers and sisters turn against each other, and parents and children are separated.
The family is demolished, the parents are eccentric, there is no bowl of water, and all the superficial harmony is disguised. Because they are not convinced, they are not willing to assume the responsibilities and obligations that they should bear.
Obviously, there are two sons, the parents are eccentric, but they only give love and attention to one son, and the other son who is snubbed will naturally complain and be dissatisfied with his parents.
As the saying goes, do not suffer from widowhood but from unevenness, and when there is no, brothers are harmonious. But when there are times when the division is uneven, then the brothers will turn against each other.
01, the in-laws' demolition is divided into one million, and the daughter-in-law recommends buying a house for the elderly
After the in-laws' demolition and demolition was divided into a million, Mo Lan did not make a fuss about this million like his uncle and sister-in-law. On the contrary, she also kindly suggested that her mother-in-law buy a house to live in for the elderly, and the house is not limited to the size.
But the mother-in-law thinks that Mo Lan's eldest daughter-in-law's motives are not pure, worried about her money, she has already secretly given a million to her younger son, and she also said that she wanted to find her younger son to retire, even if the younger son did not provide for the elder son, she could also find her eldest son to retire, and did not expect Mo Lan, the eldest daughter-in-law.
Mo Lan thought it was ridiculous, but she didn't bother with her mother-in-law. Because everyone thought that she had her own selfish intentions, Mo Lan did not explain or refute it, but calmly accepted the fact that her mother-in-law gave all a million to her younger son.
Until the in-laws' family was really demolished, the in-laws had nowhere to go, and they thought of living in the eldest son's house. Hearing her in-laws' request, Mo Lan felt very ridiculous, and when she was kind enough to suggest that they buy a house and live in, her in-laws thought that her motives were not pure and wanted to embezzle this million.
Now the in-laws are homeless, but I think of her cheap eldest daughter-in-law. But 1 million demolition funds, the mother-in-law is not given to the husband, but also said with a straight face, your husband and wife have a high level of education, high wages, good economic conditions, not worse than this 1 million. But your brother is different, the husband and wife have low incomes, and they have to raise two sons and parents, and the financial pressure is too great.
02, the in-laws cut off their own back road
No matter how much the in-laws love their younger son, they cannot take the liberty of adding a burden to their younger son. But they have two sons, no daughters, and the younger son's family is heavily burdened, so naturally they can only find the eldest son to retire.
The husband has no complaints about this, but also advised Mo Lan to be generous, whether his parents have divided the money for them, supporting the parents is the duty and obligation of the son and daughter-in-law, they can not prevaricate.
Mo Lan understands the truth of her husband's words, and in the first few years of their marriage, Mo Lan often takes money to subsidize the life of her in-laws. But as a result, it was exchanged for the eccentricity of the in-laws.
1 million demolition funds, they all gave to the little uncle, not to the husband, nor to their own pension, completely cut off their own back road. The in-laws also think that it is natural for them to do this, there is nothing wrong with it, and if they are wrong, it is also that Mo Lan should not have selfish intentions.
The husband begged Mo Lan to forgive his parents, saying that all parents in the world are parents, parents are also people, and they will also make mistakes. What's more, his parents are only a little eccentric, and there is no malice and calculation.
But Mo Lan had already understood the person of his in-laws. Now that the in-laws are homeless, they whisper to their eldest son and daughter-in-law for the elder son and daughter-in-law to retire. But when they are settled, they will take the eldest son's money to subsidize the younger son, and they will try again and again.
03, daughter-in-law 3,000 yuan to drive people away
Mo Lan simply refused her in-laws to come to the pension, she also has her own parents, and in order to bring her children, her parents have suffered and suffered for many years, and their bodies have been exhausted. She is determined not to get rid of her parents who have helped her bring her child for 8 years for the sake of her in-laws.
As for the in-laws, let their eccentric little sons and daughters-in-law raise it, after all, who has no difficulties, who is not gritting their teeth and surviving. The husband did not hesitate to make trouble, blamed Mo Lan for not filial piety, complained that Mo Lan did not love him, and if he loved him, he should unconditionally tolerate his parents and family.
1 million demolition funds, even if the in-laws only give 100,000 to the eldest son, perhaps Mo Lan will not be so cold and angry. He worked hard to honor his in-laws and took money to subsidize his in-laws, fearing that his husband would bear the insult of filial piety, but in the end, he did not get anything.
This will only rob the eldest son and eldest daughter-in-law, subsidize the younger son's in-laws, and which daughter-in-law can bear it? Mo Lan did not have a soft heart, nor did he compromise, but just took out 3,000 yuan to drive away his in-laws.
In fact, as a parent, sometimes you should also be selfish, and until the last moment, you must not easily divide up all your property.
Learn to leave a way back for yourself, because once you cut off your own back road, when you are powerless in your old age, you will beg your neglected son and daughter-in-law for retirement, it is simply a fool's dream, and no one will pay attention to you.
Today's Topic:
What do you think of your son-in-law's crossing of the river and the demolition of the bridge?