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Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans for it! Whether a child can achieve certain achievements in the future is closely related to the family environment and the words and deeds of parents. Children are like a mirror, reflecting the cultivation and values of the family. For parents, how to manage a good family environment is the key to raising children, and a wrong step will be an abyss.
Many of the plots in "Knowing or Not" are good examples of education. The old lady's education of her stepson and granddaughter, the education of the eldest lady to Rulan, and the education of Lin Xiaoniang's children have made their future go differently.
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The old lady of the Sheng family was born as the only daughter of the Marquis of Yongyi, and from the golden clothes and jade food, she developed a rational, decisive and atmospheric character. Although the marriage was unfortunate, he bravely stood up and chose to support the husband's family when the Sheng family was in danger, and accumulated strength for the later prosperity of the Sheng family.
The old lady of the Sheng family's education method for Minglan is of high quality, and when Grandma Jiaoli punished the three sisters because of the quarrel between Rulan and Molan, and Minglan did not stop the two sisters in time, she once said that a child in the family should be rewarded and punished, and the family would be prosperous and the family would be both prosperous and damaged. Although the old lady was sad for Minglan, she still let Minglan get hit by the board. This punishment made Minglan grow.
In life, when the old lady of the Sheng family encounters problems, she often makes Minglan think independently, find problems, and put forward opinions. This pair kept a clear mind about Minglan's encounter with the favor of the Earl's Wife, the incident of He Hongwen Cao's cousin, and the various major events he experienced after joining the Gu family, and repeatedly turned dangers into disasters.
This method can also be reflected in the account books of Sister Rong and Sister Xian after Minglan entered the Hou Mansion. Minglan taught Sister Rong and Sister Xian to read the account books, and let them master the way of governing the family by learning to read the account books. It can be described as well-intentioned. In the account book, the two girls did find some problems. Minglan asked the two girls to go back and think carefully about the reason. She just asks questions, let the children think of their own ways, think clearly, to promote the child's progress and growth, this concept is the same as Mrs. Sheng.
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In order to marry into the rich, Lin Xiaoniang did not hesitate to self-destruct her innocence and enter the Sheng mansion as a concubine, and as a concubine, she was restless and guarded herself, repeatedly provoking incidents and framing Wei Xiaoniang's fetus and dying in childbirth. This concept of three views of injustice has accompanied Mo Lan since childhood.
In the follow-up, Mo Lan used the same strategy of Lin Xiaoniang to have an adulterous affair with Liang Han of the Earl's Palace, regardless of the honor of the family's honor, resulting in Hua Lan being harassed in the in-laws' family, such as Lan Minglan's reputation being damaged, and after marrying into the Earl's Palace, he used the same way to treat the concubine Chun Ke, which was vividly reflected.
The mother-in-law is not easy to get along with, the husband is full of heart, Mo Lan realizes that her husband's family is not the same as her father, and the means that her mother taught her are not easy to use, so in the second half of her life, she can only struggle in the struggle in the inner courtyard, such as people drinking cold and warm self-knowledge.
A child is like a blank piece of paper, when you are young, the most important factor in the environment is the family, and the most important factor in parenting is also the family. Education can not be sloppy, parents lead by example, keep a clear head and think calmly, to a large extent to give their children a better future.