Recently, when I was bored and bored, I revisited the original book of "Know It or Not" for the third time, and when I read the famous scene of Sheng Shulan's divorce, I suddenly thought of another book that I liked to read, "Double Sided Tape".
Although these two novels are not the same type, Sheng Shulan's encounter is quite similar to the heroine Hu Lijuan in "Double Sided Glue", they both meet unladylike, married non-human, and also encountered a combination of evil mother-in-law and unclear men.
In "Know It or Not", Sheng Shulan's husband Sun Zhigao can be said to be a fighter in the scumbag, not only does not seek progress, soft rice is hard to eat, but also has no virtue, does not cherish Sheng Shulan who brings him a life of brocade and jade food, and also wants to take the wind and dust woman as a concubine, and when he sees that Sheng Shulan does not agree, he wants to divorce his wife. In that era, once a woman was suspended, she would not only be discredited, but also affect the family, and it can be said that Sun Zhigao was forcing his wife to die.
In "Double Sided Tape", Li Yaping is a man who has always hung up on filial piety, in his heart, his wife Hu Lijuan is far less important than the original family, in order to protect his parents, he can do something to Hu Lijuan, and even take Hu Lijuan's life. As for Li Yaping's mother, there is no need to say more, and she is definitely a model of an evil mother-in-law.
Compared with Hu Lijuan, Sheng Shulan's situation is even worse, only because she lived in an era of cruelty to women.
If Hu Lijuan is smart enough, not blinded by love, dead to Li Yaping as soon as possible, and divorced early, there will not be so many things behind. And Sheng Shulan wants to divorce Sun Zhigao, and withdraws from the whole body, which is even more difficult.
However, the final outcome is that Sheng Shulan succeeded, got rid of the scumbag Sun Zhigao, after that, she met a good person, married a man of good character and ability, gave birth to many children, and was happy and happy for the rest of her life, while Hu Lijuan fell to the end of being beaten to death by Li Yaping, which is worth people's reflection.
The third reading of "Know It or Not" famous scene Sheng Shulan divorced, if Hu Lijuan learned these 3 tricks, she would not die, and I also hoped that through the comparison of these two works, she could give girls a wake-up call. Timely stop loss is very important, but you must know how to stop the loss correctly and in time.
First, such things as feelings must be broken, rather than endured again and again;
One of the most important reasons why Hu Lijuan is desolate is that she is indecisive, has not been able to let go of Li Yaping, always wants to give Li Yaping a chance, and misses the opportunity to stop losses in time again and again.
Take the first time Li Yaping did something to her, in the hospital, because Hu Lijuan did not choose her words and scolded the evil mother-in-law, Li Yaping was ashamed and angry, and almost strangled Hu Lijuan to death.
Hu Lijuan escaped death and returned to her mother's house, and the marriage of the two people was in jeopardy. At this time, Hu Lijuan and Li Yaping have no children, Hu Lijuan has the ability to work, has a mother's family, and can divorce Li Yaping without thinking too much.
Li Yaping has already told Hu Lijuan a signal, that is, she will either endure the evil mother-in-law's difficulties for a lifetime, respond to the evil mother-in-law's needs, and become a good daughter-in-law in their eyes, or don't blame Li Yaping for being rude to her, he can take Hu Lijuan's life for his mother.
Women, remember, if a man dares to do something to you, just once, you have escaped death, hurry up and get ready to leave him, don't give him a second chance. The goddess of destiny will not always take care of you, and she will not always give opportunities to those who waste opportunities.
Hu Lijuan wasted this opportunity, and when Li Yaping did it to her again for her mother, the goddess of fate did not care for Hu Lijuan anymore, and in the end, Hu Lijuan died tragically under Li Yaping's fist.
Compared with Hu Lijuan, Sun Zhigao wanted to take a wind and dust woman as a concubine, which had seriously stepped on the bottom line of the Sheng family. Sheng Shulan's grandmother had suffered similar losses, knowing that if Sheng Shulan did not leave again, she would inevitably end up desolate, and she made up her mind to let her granddaughter divorce and get rid of the sea of suffering.
"I thought that no matter which small one gave birth to a man and a half woman, the lady would just go to her own name, but you have also seen that slut, enchanting, clever, used to flattery and scheming, you look like a convenient one?" Later, she gave birth to a son, and Shu'er was not swallowed by her belt bone! ”
Han Han once said: "Feelings are sometimes just a matter of one person, and have nothing to do with anyone, love, or not love, can only be broken on their own." ”
Feelings such a thing can only be decided by yourself, if you hesitate, always do not die, refuse to give up, the Great Luo Immortal can not save you.
Second, stay in the green mountains, do not worry about no firewood, no matter when, you must first protect yourself;
Hu Lijuan and Li Yaping divorced and let out a long paragraph of harsh words.
"Give you a face without a face?" Well, we'll see you in court. See who wins. Fight with me? You have asphalt in your head! Don't you want to think that your son is still a suckling little guy, and the court will judge you? This home, how much money do you just pay? Will the court judge you to let us mother and son open air? Your sister's IOU is still in my hand, and I'll get it back with interest. Not only do I have to get it back, I still have to live in this house, I want you to pay the mortgage, pay the maintenance, let your son's surname be another man's surname, call the other man's father, I also want to tell him that his father and his grandmother are not good things, a litter of wolves! Wolf Heart Dog Lungs! Just like his grandmother taught him to fuck bad, I instilled everything your mother into your son, and I gave it back to her tenfold! Li Yaping, you fight with me! You're still tender! ”
This passage does sound deflating and actionable, but the question is, in what context did she say this passage? She was in her own home, and there were only four people in this family, she, the baby who was only half a year old, the strong Li Yaping and the evil mother-in-law who hated her to the bone, that is, she was a weak woman who had to fight against two people, including a man.
As we all know, in the balance of power, most women are not men's opponents, not to mention, there is a bad mother-in-law next to them? How ignorant was Hu Lijuan, daring to say such harsh words to Li Yaping, who almost did not strangle her to death?
Compared with Hu Lijuan, Sheng Shulan was much smarter, as soon as she found out that things were not right, the people around her immediately sent Sheng Shulan back to the Sheng family, so that Sheng Shulan returned to the embrace of her family, and when Sun Zhigao's mother and son came to the door, they could only talk to Sheng Shulan's elders, and they couldn't move Sheng Shulan's finger at all.
If Hu Lijuan is smart, first suppress the anger, stabilize Li Yaping, return to her mother's house, shout her parents and brother, and then go to Li Yaping for divorce, do you see Li Yaping daring to do it?
Stay in the green mountains, do not worry about firewood, no matter when, life is the most important, keep life, everything is possible, if life is gone, other has not become an empty talk?
Third, poor Komo chases, leaving a line of life, but also to make his whole body retreat.
When Hu Lijuan said those words, she was telling Li Yaping that she wanted to take back all the things she wanted to give Li Yaping, so that Li Yaping would leave the house and return to the pre-liberation period.
It's easy to eat it, and it's even harder to make him spit it out. Dogs will bite people in a hurry, rabbits will jump the wall in a hurry, and this is also the truth. In Li Yaping's eyes, Hu Lijuan took away these things, no doubt to his life, and he would naturally be swept away by anger and his sanity.
In "Know It or Not", after telling everyone what happened to her and telling everyone the reason why the Sheng family could not tolerate the wind and dust woman, she had already gained the understanding of everyone and occupied the upper hand, and the situation was already unfavorable to Sun Zhigao.
At this time, in order to let Sheng Shulan retreat, the grand old lady not only did not chase after Sun Zhigao, but gave way, gave Sun Zhigao half of the dowry, and let him honestly sign and leave the book.
The reason why she gave Sun Zhigao half of the dowry and let him get benefits was to break the money and avoid disaster. For the Yuyang Sheng family, although this half of the dowry is quite valuable, but the loss is not a big deal, but if everything in Sun Zhigao's hand is taken, Sun Zhigao is bound to break the jar and break it, burn a jade stone, and have to divorce his wife, at that time, Sheng Shulan will be a dead end.
Why not exchange half of the dowry for the life of a daughter and minimize the loss?
Leave a line of people, don't force people to the road of death, otherwise, his counterattack before death will be enough for you to drink a pot.
Women, do things by the brain, can not rely on temper alone, if the marriage is really incurable, you must learn how to correctly and timely stop loss.
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