Li Juan was bleeding, paralyzed, and had no muscles and bones like a face bag.
Li Juan, no heartbeat, no breathing.
This is the ending of Hu Lijuan in the original "Double Sided Tape", no child fell down the stairs to stop Li Yaping's atrocities, and under Li Yaping's heartbroken punches and punches, Hu Lijuan finally died and died at the hands of the man she loved most.
Hu Lijuan's ending is too tragic and makes people think deeply. Some people came to the conclusion that marrying a phoenix man, some people scolded Li Yaping for being fierce and calculating, some people hated the evil mother-in-law and thought that she killed Hu Lijuan, and some people felt that Hu Lijuan was too stupid, and was blinded by love, and eventually harmed herself.
Indeed, Li Yaping is good at calculation, Li Yaping's mother is a completely evil mother-in-law, but I hope that readers can also learn the lesson of Hu Lijuan's failure to manage marriage, treat their marriage cautiously, and do not be like Hu Lijuan, who not only lost money, but also harmed herself, and ended up with a happy end of relatives and enemies.
In the original work, Li Yaping counted Hu Lijuan 4 times, and Hu Lijuan would not lose her life if she fought back once. However, she had no bottom line, retreated again and again, and eventually lost everything.
Lu Sihao wrote in "May Someone Accompany You to the Turmoil and Displacement": No matter what, you can't lower your bottom line again and again, and you can't do it for dreams and love. Once you lower the bottom line that you originally considered principled, you will find that you can give up some other things, and you will give up more later.
Hu Lijuan let to the end, even her life is gone, and she really needs women to learn her lessons.
The first time: When getting married, Li Yaping actually calculated Hu Lijuan;
How did Hu Lijuan marry Li Yaping?
When Hu Lijuan and Li Yaping were dating, they were inadvertently seen by acquaintances and told her mother, so Hu Lijuan's love affair was exposed.
Hu Lijuan's mother is a snobbish eye, and when she learns that her daughter is in love with a young man with no money, she is very dissatisfied and opposes the marriage. In order to marry Li Yaping, Hu Lijuan lied a big lie, that is, she claimed to be pregnant.
Li Juan married smoothly and smoothly. In his pocket, he also kidnapped 100,000 yuan of marriage money from his father and brother. Of course, the little one in her belly was lying to her mother. When the mother woke up, Li Juan's certificate was also received, and the down payment was also paid. Everything is in the wood.
That is to say, when she got married, she not only did not ask for a penny, but also posted 100,000 yuan to buy a house. Although li yaping's role is not mentioned here, it is impossible for Li Yaping not to be unaware.
In fact, when Hu Lijuan talked to her mother, although she used the Shanghai dialect, Li Yaping had been reading books in Shanghai for several years, and Hu Lijuan's mother's dislike for him was too obvious, and Li Yaping found that Hu Lijuan's mother did not approve of this marriage, which was also normal.
It is perfectly normal for the marriage to be opposed by the girlfriend's parents. In this case, men have three options.
First, feel that their dignity has been insulted, think that the girlfriend's parents are unreasonable, choose to break up; second, understand the girlfriend's parents' fear that their daughter is marrying the wrong person, try to prove themselves, let the girlfriend's parents see their own ability, and rest assured to entrust their daughter to him. Third, talk about things with feelings, let the girlfriend fight against her parents, and reap the benefits of the fisherman herself.
Without spending a penny, but getting 100,000 yuan to buy a house, Li Yaping is likely to choose the third one.
Women, when your marriage is opposed by your parents, it is actually an opportunity to correct mistakes. If your boyfriend is really worthy of your lifelong trust, he will take responsibility, prove himself, let your parents recognize him as much as possible, let you marry him with the blessing of your parents, rather than obviously his responsibility, but throw it at you, forcing you to rebel against your parents for love, caught in a dilemma.
The second time: let the parents move in without greeting, saying that they were guests, in fact, they hit the idea of letting the parents stay and not leave;
If Hu Lijuan's in-laws had not come to Shanghai and lived in Hu Lijuan's house, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law kept their distance, the fragrance was far away, and the in-laws did not want to transform Hu Lijuan, they would not have made such a scene.
However, when the in-laws came to the house, Li Yaping did not so much discuss with Hu Lijuan as it was a notice.
Apin said, "I just knew you were. I told them long ago, Li Juan was looking forward to them coming! No, they'll be there tomorrow afternoon. "Ah?......! What are you? I welcome is my own words, why should you represent? You must always inform me before! Li Juan suddenly felt that her enthusiasm seemed to be a bit sentimental, in fact, whether Huan was welcome or not, people could come if they wanted, and they would leave if they wanted. When the parents generously donated 20,000 yuan for the first 150,000 yuan, they naturally had the right to 20,000 yuan.
Seeing that Hu Lijuan was not happy, Li Yaping explained to Hu Lijuan that her parents were just guests, come and see, let Hu Lijuan obey, be a good child, hu Lijuan although she felt unhappy, but still gave Li Ya plane to meet the arrival of her in-laws.
But did Li Yaping's parents really just come to see? In the back, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law intensified, and Li Yaping changed his story.
"Fart you! She's my mom, this is her home, put aside our rules, she has to live with me when she's old. You have no problem with me, you want to make my mother uncomfortable, I will not spare you! ”
"She is my mother, she just can't get a penny, raise me so big, send me to college, she comes to live with me, I filial piety to her is also deserved." 」
From beginning to end, Li Yaping had no intention of letting his parents leave. To put it bluntly, his parents came as a guest, but it was just an excuse for him to coax Hu Lijuan.
When the in-laws have been staying and not leaving, Hu Lijuan complained to Li Yaping at most, and gave up under Li Yaping's soft and hard offensive, but instead endured the unreasonable in-laws again, and in the end, she actually came to the point where she had to fight a cold war with Li Yaping and have a hard time returning to the family, in order to send the in-laws away.
The third time: to retreat into the advance, deliberately pretend to be pitiful, let Hu Lijuan soft heart, for the sister pit mother-in-law 100,000 yuan;
Li Yaping's sister Li Guanhua encountered one thing, that is, her husband's factory director started to raise funds, and they needed to collect 200,000 yuan, otherwise Li Guanhua's husband would lose his job.
Li Guanhua could not come up with so much money, so he asked his brother for help, but Li Yaping found that they could make up 20,000 yuan at most.
Unable to come up with the money and want to help his sister, Li Yaping thought of a way, that is, to find the mother-in-law to help, with huge interests as bait, let the mother-in-law lend them this money.
If you want to do this, you must say it by Hu Lijuan herself. However, Hu Lijuan was vigilant at first, believing that Li Guanhua and her mother's family were not a family, and there was no reason to mix the money together, and she resolutely refused to do it.
Li Guanhua continued to put pressure on Li Yaping, and in order to force Hu Lijuan to compromise, Li Yaping thought of a trick, that is, to use Hu Lijuan's love for himself, deliberately pretending to be very pitiful, and forcing Hu Lijuan to be soft.
Then I will go to stir-fry. Apin was expressionless, to be precise, hiding the pain, and stood up stupidly to open the fire at the head of the stove.
"There's no time. At the latest to the 23rd, the brother-in-law was laid off. 100,000 ah, which is so easy to get together. If you don't look at my face, you have to think about it, my sister is a knife in our ribs, making up nonsense to let my mother go back. You also said that my sister is the best person in our family for you, and you can't reciprocate it! Now it's her turn to help, alas! Yaping's pain was self-evident, his brow furrowed, his eyes covered with blood.
Seeing that the beloved man was suffering like this, Hu Lijuan's heart softened, and finally as Li Yaping wished, she went to find her mother and pit her mother for 100,000 yuan, which actually became a mountain where Li Yaping wanted her life.
The fourth time: In order to fulfill his filial piety, he fulfilled his father's wish to hold his grandson, and even his own children could calculate.
Li Yaping's father fell ill, exacerbating the marital conflict between Li Yaping and Hu Lijuan. In the hospital, Hu Lijuan learned that the 100,000 yuan might not come back, and she did not call out, did not choose her words, and insulted her mother-in-law. Therefore, Li Yaping, who was eager to protect his mother, moved his hand on Hu Lijuan for the first time and almost strangled Hu Lijuan to death.
Hu Lijuan escaped death and returned to her mother's house, and the marriage of the two people was shaky. At this time, Li Yaping's father did not have much time, and told Li Yaping that his biggest regret was that he did not hold his grandson.
Therefore, Li Yaping once again started Hu Lijuan's idea, in order to fulfill his filial piety, he fulfilled his father's wish to hold his grandson, and even his own children could calculate.
No matter what kind of person Li Juan is, I want to take advantage of the fact that my father is still there, and I want to hurry up and have a child, first, to see if I can have another child to change my fortunes. Maybe the child is coming, my father is happy, the illness will naturally get better? In addition, the adopter knows the grace of his parents. Li Juan, the mouth is not good, the heart is not bad, from childhood pampering, not very sensible, there is a child, it will grow up, know the difficulty of being a mother, naturally changed her temper. Worst of all, having a child, I should fulfill my father's wish and let him go without regret.
In his eyes, whether it is his wife Hu Lijuan or his children, they are not as good as his filial piety.
In fact, this is also Hu Lijuan's last chance to stop losses in time. At this time, she did not have children, and she was also attacked by Li Yaping's actions against her, and she should understand a truth, that is, in Li Yaping's mind, she was not as important as his parents, and even, he could take her life for his parents.
Whether it is an affair or a hand, there is only a difference between zero times and countless times, if a man does something to you for the first time, you have escaped death, you should cherish this opportunity and leave him decisively, the god of luck will not always take care of you, and will not always give you a chance.
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