Li Juan was bleeding, paralyzed, and had no muscles and bones like a face bag.
Li Juan, no heartbeat, no breathing.
This is the ending of Hu Lijuan in the original "Double Sided Tape", that is, she was taken her life by the man she chose, Li Yaping, and died under Li Yaping's crazy fist.
She rebelled against her parents for the sake of Li Yaping, lied and deceived her parents into becoming pregnant, so that the mother who opposed the marriage had to agree to let her marry Li Yaping; she repeatedly took money from her mother-in-law's house to help Li Yaping's family; she endured her in-laws again and again, making it difficult for her to return to her home, just so that Li Yaping would not be embarrassed; she gave birth to a son for Li Yaping, but what did she get?
The mother's money was adrift, or it didn't count, even her own life was put in.
What is even more frightening is that Hu Lijuan has a prototype, the man has no remorse at all, and her parents are in pain.
The reason why Hu Lijuan fell to the end of a relative and an enemy is mainly because she is too willful, not only choosing a mate and willfulness before marriage, not listening to advice, being carried away by love, and being very willful when running a marriage. From 3 points of view, whether it is choosing a mate or running a marriage, Hu Lijuan has not done it right, and women need to learn Hu Lijuan's lessons in order to avoid repeating her tragedy.
First, the criteria for choosing a mate are too dramatic, and eventually mistakenly enter marriage;
In the first chapter, Liu Liu mentions Hu Lijuan's mate selection criteria.
The reason why Hu Lijuan looks up to the poor boy Li Yaping is because of three points: First, she thinks that people are OK, quite obedient, and very useful, that is to say, he will do whatever he wants; second, Li Yaping is a foreigner, his home is far away, and his parents have little influence; finally, Li Yaping has a good personality and will not overly manage Hu Lijuan.
"Others are okay, unlike those stupid playboys, who are quite honest and obedient to people." Find a man, the key is to be easy to use. You find a Shanghai xiaokai, the banknotes are there, bring a woman back today, bring a child back tomorrow, bother? Besides, he is a foreigner, far away from his parents, and it is not the same as my father who had no father and no mother? Isn't that your son most of the time? I like his personality the most, not a little childish, unlike some Shanghai men, who chase after their butts all day long to ask big things and small things, even sanitary napkins are stuffed into his wife's bag, 'What time do you come back at night?' Who just called you? Do you know the man who just smiled at you? What to eat at night?' It's this kind of problem all day, not man at all. I put my phone in his place, and if a man came to me, he would just hand it over and not ask a word. Freedom, freedom, do you understand? Where to find such a man? Besides, Yaping is really handsome! Take it out of the good table! Like Lu Yi! I also have light on my face! ”
First look at the first one, many girls like obedient men, like the kind of men you tell him to go east, he is definitely not going west, but Lu Yao knows that Horsepower has been seeing people's hearts for a long time, whether he really listens to you or deliberately pretends to please you, for a moment and a half will not be able to judge at all. Besides, even if a man is willing to hold you, he will not be willing to hold you for a lifetime.
Look at the second article, about the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In fact, the in-laws want to get you into trouble, they don't need to live together at all, even if it is a phone call, they can find you trouble. Besides, it was their son's house, and it was common for them to want to move in.
For example, Hu Lijuan, not long after marrying Li Yaping, didn't Li Yaping's parents move over and add to her blockage?
Last one, character is easy to use? Nor will this be certain for a moment and a half.
Although Hu Lijuan's mother's mouth is not forgiving, there is some truth in the words, and to find a man, you must have the ability.
Moreover, when Hu Lijuan chose a mate, she certainly did not carefully understand what Kind of People Li Yaping's parents were. Li Yaping's mother stood aside when eating, poured wine for her husband, until her husband finished eating, she took some leftovers to deal with, meat for men to eat, these are obvious, as long as you carefully observe, you can find that their family has the idea of male superiority and female inferiority.
Writer Anna Kundran said: "The most crucial decision in life is not where to settle down, nor which line of work to make a living, but what kind of person to choose, to hold hands and walk the rest of life." ”
Choosing the wrong couple, taking the wrong direction, the possibility of marriage failure is generally greater.
Second, when running a marriage, you put up with the in-laws again and again, repeatedly give up the bottom line, and in the end, you have no bottom line to keep;
After reading the whole book, how many times did Hu Lijuan compromise for Li Yaping?
First of all, before the in-laws moved to the house, Li Yaping did not consult with Hu Lijuan at all, but directly informed. When he told Hu Lijuan, the in-laws had already left and were about to arrive, which was obviously a first cut and a later song.
Not only that, Li Yaping was still there to grind hard bubbles, and he had to ask Hu Lijuan to take a leave of absence and go with him to pick up his parents. In the end, Hu Lijuan compromised, her in-laws moved into the house, and Hu Lijuan's nightmare began.
Then, since the mother-in-law moved to the house, Hu Lijuan and Li Yaping did not quarrel less, quarreled in the end, the first person to give up the bottom line was always Hu Lijuan, Hu Lijuan was forced by the sharp mother-in-law contradiction to have a family difficult to return to this step.
Then, there's the thing about money. Originally, Hu Lijuan said it very well, knowing that it was very troublesome to do business with relatives, there were endless bad debts, and insisted on refusing, but when Li Yaping staged a good play of absent-mindedness and pain, Hu Lijuan, who was distressed about her husband, softened her heart, and personally went out to find her mother, and 100,000 yuan smashed the water.
Knowing that 100,000 yuan may not be returned, Hu Lijuan was very angry, scolded her mother-in-law, Li Yaping protected her eyes, and almost did not strangle Hu Lijuan to death.
Li Yaping almost did not strangle Hu Lijuan, which is already a very serious signal, and his actions clearly tell Hu Lijuan that he will never choose the former before Hu Lijuan and his mother, and even, he can take Hu Lijuan's life in order to protect his mother.
The first time Li Yaping started, Hu Lijuan escaped from death, which was lucky and the last chance to stop the loss in time. You know, Lady Luck will not always care for a person, let alone a person who never knows how to cherish opportunities.
There is a line in "Yanxi Raiders": "If you blindly tolerate it, it will only make others think that you are cowardly." If you are too kind, others will take advantage of your weakness and gain inches. ”
Hu Lijuan endured and told Li Yaping a signal, that is, Hu Lijuan loved him deeply and could give up everything for him, no matter what kind of demands she made, Hu Lijuan would promise herself and would not be willing to refuse herself.
Whether it is a man or a woman, once he has the psychology that he will not refuse me no matter what I ask, it will be more inching forward and the desire will be more inflated.
Third, divorce should also pay attention to methods, and remember that gentlemen do not stand under the dangerous wall.
The child, the mother's reverse scale, is the most untouchable existence. Knowing this, the evil mother-in-law deliberately provoked the mother-son relationship between Hu Lijuan and her grandson in order to make Hu Lijuan feel painful, and taught the grandson who did not do anything more to say the three words "mother is bad", which completely angered Hu Lijuan.
Seeing that Hu Lijuan could no longer tolerate her mother, Li Yaping, who was eager to protect her mother, completely tore her face with Hu Lijuan and asked Hu Lijuan to get out of the egg alone and leave the house and her son to him.
Ya Ping looked at everything that was irretrievable, his eyes were fierce, and he chased after Li Juan and shouted: "You want to leave, this family, and my mother, and my son, and me, all have to stay, you get me out!" ”
But if Hu Lijuan is smarter, she should realize that the situation is not good, she should first stabilize Li Yaping, leave the child first, return to her mother's house, and then, call out her parents and brother, and then come to Li Yaping to settle the account.
She is a local, a strong dragon does not suppress the head snake, definitely stronger than Li Yaping's momentum, Li Guanhua's IOU is still in her hand, she can hold Li Yaping's family. As for the custody of the child, don't worry, the child is still young, Hu Lijuan has the financial ability, enough to get the custody.
At that time, only Li Yaping's family will honestly hand over Hu Lijuan's share of the benefits she deserves. With Hu Lijuan's parents and brother watching, Li Yaping absolutely did not dare to move, on the quarrel, they are not Hu Lijuan's mother's opponents.
However, she was overwhelmed by anger and did not choose her words, can a person win against the strong scumbag and the evil mother-in-law mother and son?
Woman, remember, at any time, life is the most important, if life is gone, all your ideas can not be realized.