When you mention "Double Sided Tape", you may think of the tragic ending of the heroine Hu Lijuan.
In the original work, Hu Lijuan died at the hands of li Yaping, the pillow person, and was beaten to death by his own hands.
Li Que was bleeding, paralyzed, and had no muscles and bones like a face bag.
Lizzie, no heartbeat, no breathing.
How sad and painful will her parents be when they lose their beloved daughter? Even more pitiful is that her son, who is only a few months old, has lost his mother, and his father is the murderer of his mother, and such a native family is terrible for the child.
Hu Lijuan's marriage is a complete tragedy, and her biggest mistake is to marry someone willfully, marrying a man who is so foolish that he can beat his wife for his parents.
She also has a fatal mistake, that is, she does not know how to stop loss in time, she has several opportunities to stop loss in time, can be separated from Li Yaping, and regain a new life, but she has been immersed in love, holding hope for Li Yaping, giving up one opportunity after another.
The reason why Hu Lijuan refuses to stop the loss in time is because she has always believed that the person who makes her uncomfortable is the in-laws, not Li Yaping, as long as the in-laws are not at home, she and Li Yaping can live quite well.
"Without his mom and dad, Yaping and I would still be pretty good." I think Yaping is quite conscientious in general. His father's illness, his mother does not care whether it can be cured or not, he must still be cured, he is a good person. If I hadn't looked at him pitifully, I would have ignored his family's affairs a long time ago. ”
However, is Li Yaping really a good person? Does he really love Hu Lijuan? In fact, it can be seen from Li Yaping's attitude when Hu Lijuan was pregnant twice that he did not love Hu Lijuan at all.
01. Hu Lijuan lost her child, and she cannot be blamed, but his attitude towards Hu Lijuan is disappointing;
Hu Lijuan's first pregnancy was an accident, and they were not ready to have a child.
Because of this child, the in-laws who were going to leave did not leave, but they became considerate to Hu Lijuan. However, the child did not survive.
In Li Yaping's heart, the reason why the child will be gone is because Hu Lijuan is too willful and has to live a conjugal life with him. Therefore, he blamed Hu Lijuan for losing the child and was very dissatisfied with Hu Lijuan.
As for the in-laws, they were also dissatisfied and unwilling to serve Hu Lijuan, who needed to sit on a small confinement, so she left Hu Lijuan and returned to her hometown.
During Hu Lijuan's confinement period, Li Yaping not only did not take care of her, but complained that Hu Lijuan did not do anything, so that he did not live as comfortably as he was when he was. You know, Hu Lijuan's body is weak when she needs to take care of her, not Li Yaping, and Li Yaping's attitude towards Hu Lijuan really makes people feel very chilling.
Li Juan replied coldly, "Am I okay at home?" I'm on maternity leave! The state still pitied me and gave me half a month to rest, and when you came back, you didn't think about making a meal for me, but you remembered to let me work. Li Yaping, you really hurt me! ”
Whether a man can rely on it or not, a woman who is pregnant and has a child will know, and see in his eyes, whether you are his baby or a tool for having children.
02. In order to fulfill his filial piety, he even calculated his own children, how terrible.
As for the second child, it is even more obvious that Li Yaping's foolish filial piety is true, only because this child has already been calculated by his father before he arrives.
At that time, Li Yaping had a fierce conflict with Hu Lijuan for his father's illness and the money lent to his sister, and in the hospital, Hu Lijuan did not hesitate to say anything, and rushed li Yaping's mother, who was eager to protect his mother, and Li Yaping, who was eager to protect his mother, choked Hu Lijuan's neck and almost killed Hu Lijuan.
After Hu Lijuan escaped from death, she did not dare to go back, so she hid in her mother's house and fell into a cold war with Li Yaping.
Li Yaping considered that his father's time was short, and in order to fulfill his filial piety, he planned to fulfill his father's last wish, that is, to let his father hold his grandson.
"Listening to my dad tonight, I thought, I want to get Li Juan back." I always feel that the unhappiness of this part of the family starts from the child who fell last time. According to superstition, it is the back of luck. No matter what kind of person Li Juan is, I want to take advantage of the fact that my father is still there, and I want to hurry up and have a child, one is to see if I can change my fortunes again, don't people still have the idea of rushing to joy? Maybe the child is coming, my father is happy, the illness will naturally get better? In addition, the adopter knows the grace of his parents. Li Juan, the mouth is not good, the heart is not bad, from childhood pampering, not very sensible, there is a child, it will grow up, know the difficulty of being a mother, naturally changed the temper. Worst of all, having a child, I should fulfill my father's wish and let him go without regret. You see...?"
In his eyes, it was not a child, but a tool to please his parents, a tool to make Hu Lijuan more like the daughter-in-law they needed in the Li family.
Therefore, he carefully calculated, went to pick up Hu Lijuan every day from work, calculated the most suitable day for Hu Lijuan to get pregnant, exercised, and then tricked Hu Lijuan into the hotel and let Hu Lijuan conceive a child.
Hu Lijuan became pregnant, looked at the face of the child and Li Yaping, and returned to her in-laws' house.
Hu Lijuan is pregnant and gives birth, what kind of treatment is it in her in-laws' home?
First of all, when she was pregnant, she was unable to eat due to her severe morning sickness reaction, and she became much thinner. Hu Lijuan's mother saw that her daughter was not in a good state and complained a few words, and her mother-in-law became angry and forced Hu Lijuan to eat.
Ya Ping's mother, who stole an ear from the kitchen, was not happy, and when she was eating, she stuffed something into Li Que's bowl, and said with a cold face while plugging it: "Eat!" Don't be hungry for the sake of good life, for the sake of slimness and hard hunger, you can resist, the child can't resist. I thought that all the mothers, the heart is to the child, as long as the child is healthy, fat is nothing, did not expect that everyone thinks differently. Now people, I look confused. ”
Secondly, despite Hu Lijuan's objections, they had to invite Li Yaping's cousin to come and be a nanny. After her cousin came, she colluded with Li Yaping's mother and bullied Hu Lijuan. As a nanny, she washed her clothes not clean, the apple skin was not cut, and she also let Hu Lijuan eat shrimp shells, indicating that she was embarrassed by Hu Lijuan.
In the end, Hu Lijuan gave birth to a son, and during the confinement period, she was even more wronged. In the summer, nanny Yuxi said that in order to be good for Hu Lijuan, she did not let Hu Lijuan turn on the air conditioner and hid the remote control; in addition to the feeding time, nanny Yuxi did not let Hu Lijuan hold the child; under the banner of being good to the child, they forced Hu Lijuan to drink soup without salt.
Liu Liu, the screenwriter of "Double Sided Glue", once said: "In the trivial life of chicken feathers, what women care about most is often not how to resolve the contradiction itself, but in the process of resolving the contradiction, whether the husband is standing behind him." ”
If Li Yaping stood behind Hu Lijuan, there would not be so many things. But if he really felt sorry for Hu Lijuan, who had given birth to a son, he would not let Hu Lijuan suffer all the grievances.
Whether a man can rely on it or not, he will know it when he has a child. Finally, it is recommended that women must understand the principle of stopping losses in time, and do not regret it.
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