Scumbag, how far can the scumbag go?
A recent hot search has refreshed everyone's cognition.
The person who was scolded by netizens as a "scumbag in the Bay Area" was a Chinese man working in Silicon Valley.
He and his wife are classmates of Beiyou, married for twenty years, and have a pair of children.
Last year, my wife died of cancer.
Unexpectedly, he quickly found a new love and flashed his marriage only 9 days later.
The man's own statement
What is even more difficult to accept is that he did not bury his wife's ashes, but buried them in the front yard of the house.
It is also suspected that some of the ashes were washed into the sewers...
Not confirmed
The wife became a U.S. citizen 3 days before her death, and the inheritance was not distributed to the former father-in-law and mother-in-law.
The men almost all occupied it, not to mention, and also called the police to expel the second old man from the country.
Forced the two elderly people to launch a crowdfunding of return expenses on the Internet...
Scum does nothing without any punishment.
Because these behaviors that fall below the moral bottom line are legal.
It's scary to ponder.
Such scum of the people, in fact, is not an isolated case.
They may play the role of "good husbands" on a daily basis, which is difficult to detect.
Behind the scenes, he plotted to eat his partner dry and wipe it clean.
There is a classic domestic drama that portrays such a "hidden scumbag" to the fullest -
《Double Sided Tape》
The show premiered in 2007.
The domestic drama of that year can be said to be "fairy fight".
And "Double Sided Tape" still ranks among the top ten in the national ratings annual list in the case that the broadcast channel does not have an advantage.
Created a viewing miracle of the small stage.
Not only does haiqing's image of "national daughter-in-law" deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
It also made Tu Songyan, who played her husband, a strong fire.
Such a huge influence is due to the sharp theme of this drama.
It tells the story of the cross-class marriage between the "Northeast Phoenix Man" and the "Shanghai Bai Fumei".
In particular, the fiery mother-in-law contradiction has filmed the real situation of countless women.
It is easy for the audience to point the finger at both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
But looking back now, Xiangyu found:
The biggest problem is obviously in the husband.
He perfectly explained what a hidden scumbag is.
Li Yaping and the "Bay Area Scumbag" resume are somewhat similar.
Graduated from a prestigious university and worked in the computer industry.
After working in the company for a while, I was appreciated by the leadership and my salary was doubled.
Although Li Yaping's family is poor, it is fortunate that he is a capable potential stock.
His relationship with his wife Hu Lijuan was good at first, and his life was unrestrained.
Li Yaping seems to be a good man at home.
Cooking after work, undertaking housework, serving tea and pouring water, gentle and considerate to Hu Lijuan.
However, this good man's personality did not last long.
From the time Li Yaping's parents moved into their home, his mother's male attributes began to be exposed.
He made Hu Lijuan back down and respect the living habits of the elders.
Knowing that she could not cook, he asked her to help out in the kitchen.
I don't brush the dishes myself, and I also have to grab Hu Lijuan and stay in the kitchen to help.
Until the matter of cleaning the dishes suddenly became a mandatory task.
He was also completely indifferent.
Even though his mother assigned Hu Lijuan the task of cleaning, he sat on the sofa and watched the fire from the other side.
In order not to offend his mother, Li Yaping could only let Hu Lijuan constantly compromise.
But he didn't take into account the exhaustion of her daily work and commute.
Not only did he lose his former thoughtfulness, but he actually tried to make four rules for her.
She is my mother, and filial piety is deserved;
You are my wife, you have to listen to her;
If you make her angry again, I want you to look good...
Not only should the living habits be obedient, but the consumption habits should also be cooperated.
Hu Lijuan was afraid to buy new clothes, and reported the price to her mother-in-law to erase a zero.
She wanted to take the family down to the restaurant to eat something good, but she couldn't.
Can only follow Li Yaping's family to cut the province of Soneng Province.
Taking them to the mall and being dumped by the mother-in-law, yin and yang weird that she is "the loser brides".
Li Yaping never reconciled, blindly letting Hu Lijuan tolerate and compromise.
At the critical moment, you can ignore the reason and listen to the mother.
Even gradually change his wife.
Even if her parents have returned to their hometown, they must let Hu Lijuan continue to be his "servant".
In the "Bay Area Scumbag" incident, the male protagonist's mother-baby attribute cannot be ignored.
He has been married to his wife for nearly twenty years, and his marriage career has been fruitful.
But a few days after his wife's death, he listened to the family's arrangements and searched for a partner in China through the dating website.
After receiving the funeral expenses from his wife's company, he had planned to buy a cemetery for his wife in the Bay Area to store his ashes.
It is also rumored that because of the intervention of the family, the designated cemetery was cancelled and the ashes were buried in the front yard.
The scumbag claimed that the ashes were buried in the front yard because his wife loved to take care of the flower beds there.
But the subsequent statements are contradictory enough to make one see his hypocrisy.
He mentioned that his father-in-law and mother-in-law wanted $40,000 in funeral expenses.
But the wife's will only said that half of the ashes were returned to China, and did not say that she wanted a cemetery.
The implication is that not only does it feel unreasonable for my father-in-law and mother-in-law to ask for money to buy a cemetery, but this matter is also completely unplanned.
This also unveils the real source of contradiction in the incident -
money.
Miserliness and love of money to the extreme, but also a typical sign of hidden scumbags.
"Scumbags of the Bay Area" give many examples in the long article, trying to show that he takes good care of his deceased wife's parents:
He bought organic eggs, organic milk, heart supplement CQ-10...
I also carefully changed the old two to a 12.9-inch large Pad, so as not to make it inconvenient for them to squeeze on a small Pad.
But the computer was bought by a friend at the Apple Store, and there were employee discounts.
Eggs and milk, not to mention the most mundane necessities, were also needed by his pregnant new wife.
Of course, this is not a big problem.
What really caused the anger of netizens was the male protagonist's disposal of his deceased wife's property.
According to Facebook colleagues, he can receive around $1.9 million to $3.26 million in corporate compensation.
In fact, the money in the hands of the deceased wife's parents was only 118,000.
Instead, he avoided the heavy and light, deliberately emphasizing the small favors of milk eggs and computer pads.
Playing the emotional card to cover up their selfishness is a classic of scumbags.
Li Yaping in the play, the same is true.
Obviously, the benefits are exhausted, but also to exaggerate their own efforts.
The marriage room was taken out by Hu Lijuan's parents for 130,000 yuan, and their family took out 20,000 yuan, plus the savings of the two people to pay a down payment.
But every time Li Yaping had to hang the twenty thousand pieces on his mouth.
He shows his contribution to the superiority of his family, but does not mention the fact that his mother-in-law paid for it.
As soon as Hu Lijuan retorted, he turned sharply again, saying that he was just joking.
It seems that Hu Lijuan is a little family.
In order to cover up selfishness, Li Yaping is also very good at shirking responsibility.
During the time when his parents lived at their house, he and his wife did not turn clouds and rain.
Playing and making love in the study.
He insisted on not wearing a condom, resulting in Hu Lijuan's unexpected pregnancy.
During pregnancy, the two could not hold back their intimacy.
As a result, the fetus was not saved.
Even if the doctor says it may be the embryo's own problem.
Li Yaping still blamed Hu Lijuan's head, accusing her of pestering herself.
Hu Lijuan's mother couldn't help but complain about this son-in-law who was not responsible.
This point is indeed a film and television drama into reality.
In his statement, the "Bay Area Scumbag" repeatedly emphasized the "excesses" of his deceased wife's parents.
He thinks that the old man is jealous because he and his new wife are happy and harmonious, and deliberately finds fault.
In the end, because of death threats, he had to call the police to deport them.
Without mentioning what he did, he hid himself very well.
Of course, it is different from the "Bay Area scumbag" who blatantly occupies his wife's property.
Li Yaping is slowly hollowing out his wife's family foundation.
This was actually predicted by Hu Lijuan's mother early on:
Smiling tiger, eating people does not spit bones.
Li Yaping heard from her sister that if she followed her factory director to raise funds and eat interest, she would be able to make a steady profit.
So he also made up his mind to join the shares.
But their family pieced together only 100,000 pieces, and there is still a difference of 100,000.
Therefore, Li Yaping began to coax Hu Lijuan to find her mother's family to collect money.
To this end, he also used a beautiful male plan to please Hu Lijuan in bed.
Enough money was made up, and the factory director ran away.
All the money was lost, and the mother's family lost a huge amount of money in vain.
Li Yaping's father confirmed lung cancer when he was most short of money at home.
He was again a variety of misery, so that Hu Lijuan took another 30,000 pieces of her mother's family.
Usually at home, Hu Lijuan suffered all kinds of grievances, and she threw her face at every turn.
When it comes to using money, all kinds of courtesy.
I used my father-in-law and mother-in-law as a cash machine.
Squeezing out his father-in-law's mother-in-law's family was more than that, he began to use Hu Lijuan more and more.
In order to give his father "Chong Chong Xi", he plans to trick Hu Lijuan into getting pregnant and giving birth.
This time Li Yaping put a long line to catch big fish.
All day long booing cold greetings and warm, caring for Hu Lijuan's body.
In fact, it is just to calculate Hu Lijuan's menstrual period and choose a time.
Staying downstairs in Hu Lijuan's unit to pick her up from work, he gradually broke through Hu Lijuan's grudge against him.
Also arranged dinner and rooms in a high-class hotel, and all kinds of teasing hu lijuan.
It made her feel as if she had regained some feelings of being in love.
But all that looks good is Li Yaping's purposeful flattery.
After dinner, he took Hu Lijuan to the suite and finally went straight to the subject.
Once again, using rhetoric, he refused to wear the condom.
Hu Lijuan was pregnant.
She thought that life had started again, but in fact it was completely reduced to a fertility machine.
Money is hollowed out, and the body becomes a tool for exploitation.
Endlessly squeezing partners, but also feeling that it is deserved, is the usual means of scumbags.
The scumbags in real life are sometimes even more gripping than the plots in the TV series.
"Bay Area Scumbag", from the death of his wife to the time he finds a new love and flashes marriage.
The front and back, including the handling of the wife's funeral, was only two months long.
Owning a large amount of property of a deceased wife does not give the greatest comfort to the father-in-law and mother-in-law who have lost their independence.
It was even said that the child had a birthday and there was no cake, but he bought a Maserati for his new wife.
The "Bay Area Scumbag" was legally impeccable from start to finish.
But morally, there is no skin.
Just like Lin Shengbin, who was scolded on the hot search after the official announcement remarried and had a child.
Pretending to be affectionate people to make money is not against the law.
But this hypocrisy is cold and unacceptable.
There is also "Tinder Scam King".
Let the victims be willing to pay themselves and not break the law.
It is possible to accumulate wealth by cheating on feelings, which is extremely bad.
Or the words of Teacher Luo Xiang, "The law is the minimum moral requirement for people."
A person who claims to be law-abiding is probably a scumbag.
And we should always be wary of human nature.
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