Words written in the front: Whether it is "Double Sided Tape" or "Mother-in-law is Coming", it is written in the original work, which may be different from the TV series, and please don't misunderstand.
When it comes to the novels "Double Sided Tape" and "Here Comes the Mother-in-Law", they have a lot of similarities.
First of all, the theme is the same, telling the marriage story of the phoenix man and the peacock woman, mainly focusing on the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the three views of the phoenix man and the peacock woman, and the conflict of ideas.
Secondly, the male and female masters are similar, the male protagonist has a relatively poor family, all regard the original family very seriously, have foolish filial piety ideas, and hurt the female protagonist many times for the sake of parents. The heroine is blinded by love, insists on marriage despite the opposition of the elders, and is reluctant to give up after being hurt, giving men the opportunity many times.
In the end, the ending is similar, the marriage of the male and female protagonists ended in tragedy, in the original work of "Double Sided Tape", Li Yaping beat Hu Lijuan to death in order to protect his mother. In the original work of "Mother-in-law Is Coming", He Lin was hurt by Wang Chuanzhi again and again, completely dead hearted, for herself, in order to let her daughter get rid of the growth environment of son preference, He Lin was a mother, carefully calculated, got the property she deserved, and divorced Wang Chuanzhi.
The tragedy of He Lin's marriage with Hu Lijuan makes people think deeply, and the reason why their marriage is unhappy is because of 3 o'clock.
First, girls who eat love as a meal are too impulsive and difficult to have good results;
Whether it is He Lin or Hu Lijuan, there is a characteristic, that is, there is a love concept that is supreme and has a full drink of love.
In fact, this is directly related to their original family. First of all, their fathers loved their wives more and were good men, secondly, their mothers had a high status in the family; and finally, they were all the pearls in the palm of their parents, living a carefree life under the favor of their parents, and did not worry about money at all.
He Lin and Hu Lijuan did not know the importance of money at all, did not know what the meaning of the door was, and only knew how to find men according to their own preferences.
Because their parents are very fond of them and almost respond to their needs, they know how to pinch their parents and know how to make demands on their parents, including willful behavior in marriage matters, and their parents are not willing to disappoint their beloved daughters anyway.
Tor Hobbes once said, "Every time people violate reason, they are punished by reason." A life that loses its mind, like a wild horse that is out of control, is out of control no matter what. ”
You eat love as a meal, you treat men as the only one to rely on, the higher the expectations of men, the easier it is for him to grasp your weaknesses, and the more likely you are to be disappointed when you find that marriage is not as perfect as you think.
Second, whether it is a man or an in-laws, the confidence to press you step by step and constantly make unreasonable demands is what you give.
In "Mother-in-law Is Coming", Wang Chuanzhi played the emotional card, let He Lin write his name on his dowry room, and got half a house in Beijing without spending a penny. Wang Chuanzhi's mother and relatives regardEd He Lin's house as an inn to stay as long as they want, they do not pay attention to hygiene at home, and they frequently clash with He Lin, and do not take He Lin seriously at all.
Wang Chuanzhi took his own salary to subsidize his family, and did not consult He Lin's opinion at all. What is even more bizarre is that Wang Chuanzhi's mother prefers sons to daughters, and she also wants to leave her grandson under He Lin's hukou and become a city person.
In "Double Sided Tape", Li Yaping's family is not much more. Not long after Hu Lijuan and Li Yaping got married, Li Yaping's parents moved to their son's house, anti-guest-oriented, trying to transform Hu Lijuan into the free nanny they wanted to work without eating, and frequent conflicts with Hu Lijuan.
Li Yaping's sister needs money, Li Yaping's father is sick and hospitalized, Li Yaping is soft and hard, let Hu Lijuan find a way to make up money for him, Hu Lijuan got more than 100,000 yuan from her mother's house before and after, and she has no return.
In fact, as there is a line in "Yanxi Raiders": "If you blindly tolerate it, it will only make others think that you are cowardly." If you are too kind, others will take advantage of your weakness and gain inches. ”
Whether it is a man or an in-laws, the confidence to press you step by step and constantly make unreasonable demands is what you give. If it were not for He Lin and Hu Lijuan agreeing and compromising again and again, meeting their requirements and boosting their appetites, there would not be so many things.
Third, if you don't know how to stop losses in time, when you break off, even the Great Luo Immortals will not be able to save you.
Hu Lijuan and He Lin encountered similarities, both encountered unclear men, both encountered extremely bad mother-in-law relationship, but the ending was different, one tragically died at the hands of the pillow person, let his son lose his mother at a young age, the father was still the murderer of the mother, the relatives were bitter enemies fast, a timely stop loss, got their own property, took the daughter out of the patriarchal in-laws, and regained a new life.
The reason why their endings are different is because He Lin knows how to stop the loss in time, but Hu Lijuan has always had hope for Li Yaping and does not know how to stop the loss in time.
In fact, He Lin also had hopes for Wang Chuanzhi, and pinned his hopes on Wang Chuanzhi to improve his marriage, hoping that Wang Chuanzhi could focus on the small family, no longer pull the bias, take the initiative to deal with the relationship between relatives and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and maintain her. But after experiencing so many things, He Lin was hurt again and again, and completely woke up to the fact that Wang Chuanzhi is a man who is closely related by blood, he will protect his mother, he will protect his daughter, but he will not fight against the original family for her.
What is the point of a man who doesn't know how to defend you from beginning to end, who will only indiscriminately accuse you when you have a conflict with his relatives?
How stupid Hu Lijuan was, Li Yaping almost strangled her to death in order to protect her mother, but she still forgave Li Yaping and bore him a son, so that she could no longer get out of the quagmire.
If you don't know how to stop the loss in time, when it is broken, even the Great Luo Immortal will not be able to save you. It is hoped that girls can learn the lessons of Hu Lijuan and He Lin and manage their marriage cautiously.
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