In the TV series "Mother-in-law is Coming", when she learned that her daughter He Lin was in love with a poor boy, He Lin's parents were very unhappy, clearly expressed their opposition, and repeatedly persuaded He Lin to break up with Wang Chuanzhi. If it weren't for He Lin's insistence, the two of them really wouldn't be able to be together.
However, in the original work, He Lin's parents did not oppose this marriage, and one of the people who strongly opposed it was He Lin's aunt Yu Huaqing.
The reason why He Lin's parents did not oppose this marriage was because his parents took too much care of their daughter's feelings and thought that their daughter's satisfaction was the best, and second, because their experience led to their less far-reaching vision.
He Lin's father is a senior leader of a property management company, is a survivor of the earthquake, the fate is bumpy, generous and kind, do the husband's duties, hard work, the mother is a university teacher, held by the husband in the palm of the hand, do not have to worry about the family affairs and the children's education problems, just read vigorously, a little high, disdainful of asking about mundane things, only by reason, however, the paper finally feel shallow.
Treating Wang Chuanzhi, He Lin's parents are relatively satisfied, believing that Wang Chuanzhi is self-motivated, hard-working, and a reliable person, not only agreeing to this marriage, but also from the perspective of hurting her daughter, she decided to marry her daughter in a house.
The young man's optimism and self-motivation made Old He Long's heart happy, and the idea that he had been hesitating was now more and more firm: can't let his daughter and son-in-law work so hard, don't they have several sets of their own houses? However, you must first ask the professor's wife to nod.
When reading "Mother-in-law Is Coming", I have always felt that Wang Chuanzhi does not love He Lin at all, but only the economic conditions of He Lin's family. From 1 house, it can be seen how "fake" Wang Chuanzhi's love is.
1, his ideas on decoration, has exposed his proficiency in calculation;
He Lin's parents planned to give their daughter a dowry house, and He Lin was particularly happy, and opened her mouth to ask for a three-story small building, which was worth about 1 million at that time.
So the future couple effortlessly obtained a three-story building with independent property rights.
The house has, the next is the decoration problem, He Lin carefully calculated, it is expected to need 200,000. He Lin believes that for the sake of the happiness of the two people, He Lin's family has already produced 1 house, and Wang Chuanzhi's family should also say something (although it is not mentioned in the text, it is estimated that Wang Chuanzhi did not give any bride price). However, Wang Chuanzhi could not afford to pay for this decoration fee on the grounds that his family was too poor, and He Lin had no choice but to reduce the requirements.
He Lin gave in, but Wang Chuanzhi felt unhappy in his heart, thinking that He Lin was embarrassing him.
First of all, Wang Chuanzhi felt that He Lin had become domineering because the dowry was too thick and hard; secondly, Wang Chuanzhi thought that this house was He Lin's pre-marital property, which had nothing to do with him, and if he took the money to decorate it, how to calculate it; finally, living in his wife's dowry room, he felt that he was sending people under the fence.
Because Wang Chuanzhi's mother did not put wine on the grounds that her family was not well off, He Lin's aunt was even more unhappy, and prompted Wang Chuanzhi to write down an IOU of half a million yuan in three words and two words, and then wrote Wang Chuanzhi's name on the real estate deed. Wang Chuanzhi wrote an IOU for the sake of dignity, and he hated He Lin's aunt more and more.
It was also this 500,000 IOU that made He Lin turn defeat into victory, and got another house when she proposed divorce, and did not let Wang Chuanzhi's family take advantage of it.
If you don't pay a penny, you want to get a house for free, and Wang Chuanzhi is a typical soft rice eating behavior. From beginning to end, he only thinks about the dignity of his own man, thinks that he is the head of the family, and feels that it is humiliating to send people under the fence, however, you don't want to send people under the fence, just find a way to buy a house by yourself, instead of trying to calculate the dowry of his wife.
As soon as He Lin asked him to pay, he played the emotional card, telling him that his mother's family was not easy, saying that his native family was poor, but no matter how poor his original family was, it was not caused by He Lin, so why let He Lin pay for it?
2, let his family occupy his wife's home, but also feel that his wife is unreasonable.
Wang Chuanzhi hit 500,000 IOUs, and his name was on the real estate deed, and he not only had the confidence, but also let his family move in.
First Wang Chuanzhi's mother and sister, and then his other brothers and sisters, who did not regard themselves as outsiders at all, lived in He Lin's house, ate Wang Chuanzhi's, drank Wang Chuanzhi's, and gave He Lin angry.
He Lin's parents gave their daughter a dowry, originally to let her daughter have a safe place to live, so that her daughter has confidence, but He Lin actually did not use it to the point of being bullied by her in-laws and having to slip out of her house.
When He Lin had a conflict with his own family, Wang Chuanzhi did not have to ask the reason for the matter, no matter whether it was three or seven twenty-one, he decided that it was He Lin's fault, blindly protecting his mother, in his opinion, his family lived in his home, it was justified, He Lin was not happy, or not generous, he was not a good daughter-in-law.
What kind of person is Wang Chuanzhi? He is a person who is mainly related by blood. The reason why he would rebuke his family for his daughter was because her daughter was his own flesh and blood, and he was closest to him, and he was not protecting He Lin, but his own biological daughter.
On the balance of half a pound against eight or two, the hope she had won would never be more than half, and she would never be able to reach the important position of his mother; but once replaced by a delicate daughter, his balance would instinctively tilt. Blood is the main line in his family genealogy, the daughter is close enough, weak enough, enough heart and liver baby, enough to need protection, so at the critical moment enough to fight against a saint like his mother.
Marriage may be a trap, but it is not fate, it is optional. He Lin saw through Wang Chuanzhi's true face and knew that even if this was her dowry, as long as her husband's balance had always tilted in her mother-in-law, she would not be able to have a position in this family.
He Lin finally fought back against Wang Chuanzhi, taking advantage of Wang Chuanzhi's distressed daughter's psychology, successfully recaptured her own house, got another house, forced Wang Chuanzhi to get out of the house, she successfully made up for it, the end was better than her girlfriend Xiaoya, but if she had not been blinded by love and did not marry Wang Chuanzhi, she would not have suffered five years of sin.
Marriage, can not be a child's play, the punishment it gives you, is really unbearable.
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