In the original work of "Mother-in-law Is Coming", the most tragic ending is not the heroine He Lin, but Liu Xiaoya.
Although He Lin was initially blinded by love, despite the persuasion of his aunt, married the phoenix male Wang Chuanzhi, was tormented by the increasingly serious contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the contradictions between relatives and the inaction of her husband, suffered from depression, suffered from grievances, and shed tears, but after giving birth to her daughter Tianqin, He Lin was his mother Zegang, and after seeing through the essence that Wang Chuanzhi could never protect the original family and could not give her the happiness she wanted, He Lin decided to divorce Wang Chuanzhi and regained the dowry room with Wang Chuanzhi's name with the help of his aunt. He also took another small house he bought after marriage, almost allowing Wang Chuanzhi to leave the house and protect his and his daughter's interests as much as possible.
Although divorced and became a single mother, He Lin has the ability, money, and support of her mother's family, and she can definitely give herself and her daughter a happy and healthy little home.
He Lin stopped the loss in time, tried her best, and saved herself and her daughter, but her girlfriend Liu Xiaoya was not so good.
How tragic was Liu Xiaoya's ending? Liu Xiaoya, like He Lin, can moth to put out the fire for love, and under the premise that her mother-in-law and parents are opposed to her marriage to Fang Hongjun, she still ignores marrying Fang Hongjun.
Fang Hongjun's father died early, was pulled by his mother to grow up, Fang Hongjun's mother's love for her son is almost morbid, treating her daughter-in-law as an enemy who robs her son, looking at Liu Xiaoya unfavorably, trying her best to beat Mandarin ducks, not only occupying Liu Xiaoya's salary, but also hindering Liu Xiaoya and Fang Hongjun from living a conjugal life.
Under the increasingly intensifying contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and Fang Hongjun's inaction, Liu Xiaoya completely collapsed, and after escaping from the psychiatric hospital, she fought with the evil mother-in-law, jumped down from the fifteenth floor, and ended her life in her 20s.
Xiao Ya's parents belong to the laid-off workers who are honest and honest at the bottom of the city, usually eat low insurance, Xiao Ya can still help in the open and in the dark when she is alive; now that her daughter is gone, the main financial road is broken, the house cannot be supplied, and can only wait for the bank to take it back. If it were not for the help of her friends Chen Zhe and He Lin, most of the money would have come from Liu Xiaoya's house and would have been occupied by the evil mother-in-law.
Revisiting "Mother-in-law Is Coming", Liu Xiaoya's marriage became a tragedy, and it was doomed long before marriage. Fang Hongjun is not a good match, marriage is bound to be tragic, unfortunately, Liu Xiaoya was overwhelmed by love, too stupid.
01. Fang Hongjun's original family situation is special, doomed to the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is inevitable.
Fang Hongjun's father left early, the mother of this widow mother a handful of a handful of urine to bring up her son, it took a lot of effort, after high school also high consumption sent to Japan to study, I thought that my son would come back to enjoy a few years of happiness, but did not want my son to marry his daughter-in-law so soon.
Liu Xiaoya loves Fang Hongjun very much, loves Wu and Wu, and also thinks of honoring her mother-in-law, treating her mother-in-law as a mother-in-law, and becoming the intimate daughter of her mother-in-law.
In order to show her sincerity and show her love for Hongjun and her mother-in-law, Liu Xiaoya also took out her savings to purchase a three-bedroom house, and took her mother-in-law from the dilapidated one-bedroom to the new house of 140 square meters.
However, even though Liu Xiaoya had already reached this point, Fang Hongjun's mother still could not accept this daughter-in-law, only because she regarded Liu Xiaoya as an enemy to rob her son.
What Fang Hongjun's mother thought, xiaoyi's words hit the nail on the head: "Blind pendulum, perverted!" The widow's son- he pulled the eldest son to let other women snatch it away, and it was strange to be comfortable! ”
Fang Hongjun's mother did not agree to this marriage, even if the two people have already ripped off the evidence, it is a legal de facto husband and wife, she is not happy, which has doomed the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be inevitable.
If you have a mother-in-law who refuses to accept you, you must carefully consider this marriage. You must know that this is the man's mother, the mother who gave birth to him and raised him, even if he loves you again, he can't ignore his mother for you. Therefore, if the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really sharpened, no matter how far away she lives, it will be enough for women to have a headache.
What's more, Fang Hongjun is not a man who will wholeheartedly protect his daughter-in-law, otherwise, his mother would not dare to embarrass Liu Xiaoya unscrupulously.
Teacher Tu Lei said: "A man without an opinion is a combination of Ma Bao Male and Giant Baby Boy, once the mother-in-law does not wait to see you after marriage, you will have endless quarrels, endless vegetable markets, endless housework, and endless anger." ”
If your in-laws look down on you and refuse to accept you, and the man still protects his mother and asks you to compromise, and you still marry, it is really digging your own grave.
02. Parents on both sides are not optimistic, and they have to marry, which is really self-insulting.
Liu Xiaoya's marriage with Fang Hongjun not only did not receive the blessing of Fang Hongjun's mother, but also did not receive the blessing of Liu Xiaoya's parents.
The reason why Liu Xiaoya's parents opposed their daughter's marriage was because Fang Hongjun's mother did not approve of the marriage. Although they are only laid-off workers and ordinary people, after all, they are people who come over, and naturally guess that their daughters will have a bad life after marriage.
However, they were powerless to stop their stubborn daughter, and could only watch her daughter jump into the fire pit, full of concern for her.
In the very old unreasonable small public house, Xiao Ya's mother cried in the back room, as if her daughter was not married but went to the execution ground.
He Lin, a bridesmaid who was just as excited as the bride, saw the key character at the main table for the first time, the man's mother. There was not a trace of a smile, and the eyes of the straight hook clay sculpture did not squint, and the woman's parents sat at the main table opposite, and they also had a somber face, so that others could not have fun. Weddings should have been lively.
Liu Xiaoya is really too bad, for love, let her parents suffer grievances, and when looking for death, she does not consider her parents' feelings, leaving her parents and old two to be bullied by her mother-in-law.
Marriages that are not approved by parents should really be treated with caution. You are the jewel in the palm of your parents, and your parents definitely look forward to your goodness. If men are really worthy of lifelong trust, why should parents oppose you?
Liu Xiaoya wants to have good looks, ability and ability, and can live a good life on her own, but she ruined her life for an unworthy scumbag, took her own young life, and let her relatives and enemies be happy, how unworthy.
Women, overwhelmed by love, really can't help it. Not only love, but also a better life, you not only love people, but also parents, whether for themselves or for their parents, please keep a little sanity and be cautious about marriage.
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