In the drama version of "Mother-in-law is Coming", Liu Xiaoya and He Lin's girlfriends have received a good ending.
Liu Xiaoya's mother-in-law is a single mother, widowed for many years, one hand to pull her son Fang Hongjun grew up, paid too much effort, the son as the whole of life, the desire to control is strong, in her eyes, the appearance of daughter-in-law Liu Xiaoya is to snatch her son away from her, therefore, she has always regarded Liu Xiaoya as an enemy, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is sharp.
With the efforts of Liu Xiaoya, the mother-in-law saw Liu Xiaoya's goodness, was very moved, and thoroughly understood, chose to let go, let the two of them live their own lives, and she also began to look for her own old age.
After He Lin got married, due to the disagreement with the Phoenix man's family, there were frequent conflicts, and He Lin's marriage was shaky. In the end, He Lin gave birth to a son, and he and his mother-in-law turned Gange into a jade warrior, and also saved the marriage.
As we all know, due to the review factor, TV dramas like reunion endings, and even the ending of "Double Sided Tape" has been changed, and "Mother-in-law Is Coming" is no exception. In fact, judging from common sense, Liu Xiaoya and He Lin's marriage was wrong from the beginning, and there was no way to save it because of careless mate selection and marriage to the wrong person.
Fang Hongjun's mother's desire to control is not only strong, but also has a serious love complex and a deep obsession, and it is impossible to let go easily. In the original work, she not only did not let go, but intensified, slandering Liu Xiaoya's mental problems, Fang Hongjun was not clear, helping relatives did not help, and finally, Liu Xiaoya collapsed, jumped down from the 15th floor, and ended her young life.
As for He Lin, unlike the drama version, she gave birth to a daughter, which became the last straw that crushed her marriage with Wang Chuanzhi. He Lin's mother-in-law favored sons over daughters to the extreme, and actually came up with the bad idea of reconciling the hukou of He Lin's daughter and Wang Chuanzhi's eldest brother's son, taking her granddaughter back to the countryside to raise her, and letting Wang Chuanzhi's nephew seize He Lin's daughter's resources, which completely angered He Lin.
In the end, He Lin carefully planned to regain the dowry house that was added to Wang Chuanzhi's name, got the small house that Wang Chuanzhi bought with the joint property of the husband and wife, got the custody of his daughter, and divorced Wang Chuanzhi, which was equivalent to letting Wang Chuanzhi get out of the house.
As Yan Rujing said in "Strange Flowers": "Patience in marriage has a time limit, forbearance is called calm and calm for a while, forbearance for a lifetime, all depends on fate." ”
Compared with Liu Xiaoya, He Lin has 3 major dependencies to let her regain her life, otherwise, He Lin is likely to be like Liu Xiaoya, compared to the point of collapse by the painful marriage. In fact, in the original work, she has already suffered from depression and has thoughts of taking her own life.
First, He Lin's love for Wang Chuanzhi is based on Wang Chuanzhi's equal love for her;
He Lin once said to Liu Xiaoya: "We are different from you, I love Chuanzhi is to love him for my kindness, and you love Hongjun to love him as a person." ”
Liu Xiaoya is very similar to Hu Lijuan in "Double Sided Tape", loving a person to the bone, unconditionally, and can give everything for him, but does not want to ask for anything in return.
In Liu Xiaoya's eyes, the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is sharp, she is not satisfied, and has nothing to do with Fang Hongjun, but the mother-in-law is too bad, it is the mother-in-law's problem, therefore, no matter how Fang Hongjun treats her, pull the bias or fight, for the mother to beat her, she is reluctant to blame Fang Hongjun, all the contradictions are aimed at the mother-in-law, quarreling with the mother-in-law.
However, women need to understand that the reason why you and her will become mother-in-law and become a family is because you are in love with her son. If it weren't for this man, you wouldn't have intersected at all.
But as long as he is willing to say a word for you, show an attitude, think of some ways such as not to let you live together, when the mother sees the attitude of the son, in order not to embarrass her son, will not bully the daughter-in-law excessively. He does not take a stance, that is, he tacitly acknowledges that his mother's behavior is right, which will make the mother-in-law's arrogance more arrogant and bully you unscrupulously.
At first, He Lin was reluctant to Wang Chuanzhi and had hope for him, but Wang Chuanzhi let her be hurt again and again, feeling disappointed, and in the end, He Lin understood a truth, that is, the reason why her in-laws and those relatives dared to act recklessly in her home and brazenly added to her blockage was because Wang Chuanzhi helped her relatives not to help, they could not be clear, and gave them the courage to bully themselves.
Wang Chuanzhi did not love her, or Wang Chuanzhi loved her, but this love was insignificant compared to his original family, and even less than He Lin's efforts.
Thinking through this, He Lin was dead hearted, his own efforts were not proportional to the returns, who was willing to continue like this?
Second, He Lin has a powerful mother's family, so that she dares to fight;
Liu Xiaoya's parents are laid-off workers, relying on their capable daughter to subsidize them, and it is impossible to become the strong backing of her daughter Liu Xiaoya. When their daughter was bullied, they could not help Liu Xiaoya.
However, He Lin was different. He Lin's original family has a very good economic situation, not only has a high income, regards her as a pearl in the palm of her hand, and a little aunt who treats her as her own daughter and is domineering and short..
Xiao Aunt can be said to be in pain to He Lin, and compared with He Lin's mother, who has read books all her life and has a relatively high mind, Xiao Lin is more spicy, and it is very suitable to deal with He Lin's mother-in-law who is backward in thinking and has a crooked stomach.
Divorce does not matter, he still has his mother's family to rely on, there are enough back roads, and his mother's family has become a major factor in He Lin's determination to leave Wang Chuanzhi.
Third, in order to make her daughter no longer love her life in her original family, choosing to stop the loss in time is He Lin's best interpretation of motherhood.
In addition to the above two points, Wang Chuanzhi's original family's serious patriarchal thinking really stepped on He Lin's reverse scales.
For He Lin, the daughter who gave birth in October and gave birth with all her strength is a piece of flesh that fell from her body, a treasure, a reverse scale, and an existence that absolutely does not allow anyone to bully.
Although Wang Chuanzhi also loves his daughter, as long as Wang Chuanzhi cannot draw a clear line with the original family and keep a distance, there is an undisguised grandmother who values sons and daughters all day long, and he Lin's daughter is difficult to live well.
Moreover, will Wang Chuanzhi really protect his daughter for a lifetime and not be brainwashed by the original family? He Lin was disappointed many times, already desperate, and did not dare to gamble.
Instead of barely surviving and letting the idea of son preference add to the daughter's blockage, it is better to take the daughter away. Although it is very hard to be a single mother, it is better than being blocked by her husband and mother-in-law all day long and being forced to collapse.
He Lin has a house, economic conditions, and a mother's family, which is enough to give her daughter a good life, and the mother and daughter depend on each other for their lives, and their lives can also be good.
In summary, women are determined to leave, the bottom is nothing more than two, the same is that the heart is dead, there is no longer hope for men, the other is the ability, whether it is the mother's family, or personal ability, is their courage to leave.
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