01 Preface
Love with her husband to the white head, children into pairs and for the pillars of the country; Being able to do what you like and rise up in your career is undoubtedly the dream of any woman.
And Lu Zhong is such a winner in life.
When it comes to Lu Zhong, everyone may not be very familiar with this name;
However, when it comes to Wu Zetian in "Detective Di Renjie" and Cixi in "Towards the Republic", everyone must have a deep impression of her.
She is affectionately known as the "Empress Dowager Professional" by the audience, and her performances can always resonate with people and win the audience's love.
You may not know that she is a drama actress, and Lu Zhong only appeared on the big screen when she was 47 years old and was recognized;
However, Lu Zhong has long regarded acting as a part of his life.
Today, she is 81 years old, still pursuing the things she loves, and has been working hard to shoot, not for the film, only for likes.
Moreover, while Lü Zhong is hot in his career, he is also enviable in his family.
After 53 years in the same boat with her husband, her son has become a famous director, her daughter-in-law is also an international film queen, and her daughter is an aerospace expert and a pillar of the country.
Just when Lu Zhong was immersed in happiness, in 2016, an accident made her world half the sky gray - her husband Wu Guiling died.
In those days, Lu Zhong, immersed in sad emotions, could not extricate herself, and it was her daughter-in-law who made her return to the colorful world.
Today, let's take a look at the story of the old drama bones.
02
In 1940, Lü Zhong was born in an ordinary family in Shaanxi, and in addition to her, there was a younger sister in the family.
Her parents were both intellectuals, and they both hoped that their daughter would have some literary achievements in the future.
But every man has a destiny.
Even though Lü Zhong was very transparent about ancient and modern culture under the influence of her parents since she was a child, in the end she chose the path of an actor.
Although Lu Zhong's parents were shocked by their daughter's choice, they still respected her choice.
When she was a child, Lu Zhong showed her love for acting, she liked to observe the every move of the people around her, not only that, she would also call on her sister to imitate together.
Sometimes, the mother's unit holds a party, and Lu's mother will take her two daughters to see it together, and Lü Zhong will argue every time to go on stage to perform;
Lu's mother had no choice but to let her colleagues give her eldest daughter a little time, and Lu Zhong's performance could always make her uncles and aunts laugh.
Xiao Luzhong saw that the smiles of the audience were so bright, and in her heart, she also had the idea of being an actor.
In the blink of an eye, Lu Zhong reached the age of school, and in school, she often took the initiative to serve as a literary and artistic committee member in the class, and she would participate in rehearsals and performances in all literary and artistic performances.
Under her leadership, the programs choreographed in the class won the applause of the whole school every time, and won the honor.
When Lü Zhong was 9 years old, due to changes in his parents' jobs, Lü Zhong's family of four moved to Beijing.
In the new environment, Lü Zhong did not feel strange at all, but still maintained the same pace as in his hometown.
Her parents found a new school for her, changed into a new school bag, and made new clothes.
And Lu Zhong also happily went to and from school every day, enjoying the warmth of the family.
However, the good times did not last long, and when Lü Zhong was 10 years old, her parents finally chose to divorce due to the incompatibility of the three views.
The father could not raise the child due to special reasons, so Lu Zhong and his sister lived with their mother.
Lu Zhong saw that her mother went to work during the day and came back to take care of her and her sister at night, and she felt her mother's hardships, so she took the initiative to share the affairs of the family and help her mother reduce the burden.
In the blink of an eye, Lu Zhong has graduated from high school, grown up, and she has had the dream of being an actor since she was a child, and after graduation, she chose to apply for an art university and realize her dream.
She applied for the Central Academy of Drama, she passed the exam with excellent results, and the score of the culture class exceeded the score line;
She felt that this was the closest moment to her dream, and she was about to take the first step to success, but due to her father's reasons, Lu Zhong was not admitted to the school in the end.
Even if she lost touch with the ideal university, Lu Zhong did not give up on herself, and after much thought, she decided to report to the Hebei Drama Theatre.
Although Lü Zhong's parents did not want their daughter to stay away from them, they saw that their daughter's heart was very firm, and finally they agreed to Lü Zhong's going to Hebei.
And Lü Zhong's acting talent impressed the predecessors of Hebei Drama Theatre, and she successfully stayed.
Here, Lü Zhong also met the most important man in her life besides her father.
03
Lu Zhong, who just entered the drama theater, spoke softly and had no weight, so he could only receive some dragon set roles.
However, she was not willing to keep running the dragon set, and Lu Zhong knew that if she wanted to get ahead, she had to work hard behind her back.
Therefore, Lü Zhong began to practice her performance skills diligently, she still started with imitation, and after she became proficient, she added her own ideas and integrated with her own way.
Sometimes, an action, an expression, will make Lu Zhong ponder for half a day, and she is never afraid of wasting time in the performance;
Lu Zhong believes that as long as she can play the character into a divine, she feels that it is worth it no matter how much she pays.
Under the unremitting efforts of Lu Zhong, her acting skills have risen to a large level, and she is no longer a dragon set role.
In 1979, the drama theater was preparing to rehearse the new play "Thunderstorm", and under the arrangement of the theater leaders, an important role was assigned to Lü Zhong.
Lu Zhong got the role, very excited, she felt that this role is of great significance to her, she must play well, so the next time, she began to consult all the information of this role.
Not only did she go to the bookstore to buy discs about Thunderstorm, but she also went to the library near the drama theater to borrow original works.
In the process of borrowing books, Lü Zhong found that the person who lent her the book was very familiar, but for a moment he couldn't remember where he had seen it;
At that time, all of Lu Zhong's thoughts were on the role, so he didn't think about it after he went home.
A few days after that borrowing, Lu Zhong met the man who lent her the book at the drama theater.
The two passed each other in the corridor, when the man suddenly said, "Are you from a certain elementary school?" ”
Lu Zhong was stunned for a moment, and then said, "Ang, how do you know?" ”
"Your name is Lu Zhong?"
The man added.
"Yes, yes, you are?"
Lu Zhong asked doubtfully.
"Eh, I'm Wu Guiling, and we're elementary school classmates."
"The last time you came to the library, I recognized it, but I wasn't sure, and last time you were in a hurry, and before you could confirm, are you now working at the drama theater?"
"Oh ~ it's you, I remember, so many years of change is quite big, I didn't recognize it, I am an actor in the drama theater, I have time to play ah." 」
As soon as Lü Zhong finished speaking, she heard the people in the same crew calling out to her: "Lü Zhong, hurry up, just wait for you." ”
"It's coming."
"Next time we talk, I'll have to rehearse."
Lu Zhong responded to his colleagues while speaking to Wu Guiling.
The reunion of the two made Lü Zhong's heart not have much waves, but it made the deer in Wu Guiling's heart thump.
After going back, Wu Guiling asked her friend to arrive at Lü Zhong's address and began to write letters to her, but Lü Zhong did not have much time to receive and read letters due to the nervous rehearsal;
Wu Guiling saw that Lü Zhong was slow to reply, so he wrote two more letters and sent them over.
One day when she returned home, Lu Zhong suddenly remembered that the mailbox at her door had not been cleaned up for a long time, and she picked it up on a whim;
She didn't expect to have so many letters from her, she checked them one by one, and found that in addition to the letters sent by her parents, it was Wu Guiling's letters.
That night, Lu Zhong replied to the letter very late, but she looked at the greeting in the letter, and her heart could not help but warm up.
In the days that followed, the correspondence between Lü Zhong and Wu Guiling became more and more fixed and frequent.
The feelings between them have also undergone subtle changes, gradually evolving from classmates to sincere love.
It's just that at this time, neither of the two of them said anything, and the ambiguity has always been around them.
After a period of understanding, Wu Guiling felt that the time was ripe, and he decided to take that step on his own initiative.
He confessed affectionately in the letter that at the moment when Wu Guiling sent the letter, his mood was indescribable, although he knew that Lü Zhong would agree, but he would still be nervous.
Not unexpectedly, Lü Zhong agreed to him, and the two began a long-distance relationship from Hebei to Beijing.
Every long-distance relationship is very hard, and Lu Zhong and Wu Guiling are not surprised.
Because Lu Zhong's parents are in Beijing, she goes home as long as she is on vacation, and every time she comes home, it is also the time when she and Wu Guiling date.
And Wu Guiling often surprises Lü Zhong, sometimes because the theater rehearsal is compact, many times let Lü Zhong busy;
Wu Guiling will also secretly buy a train ticket from Beijing to Hebei, and then bring Lu Zhong's favorite food to visit her unit.
Every time Wu Guiling suddenly appeared carrying delicious food, it not only warmed up the Lu Center, but also made her colleagues envious.
The love affair between the two lasted for a year, Wu Guiling planned the future with Lü Zhong, he especially wanted to marry Lü Zhong home, he felt that it was time to start the next step.
One day, Lu Zhong went home on vacation to see her mother, she had just arrived home on her front foot, and then she heard a knock on the door of "bang bang";
Mother Lu shouted: "Come, who?" while going to open the door, as soon as she opened the door, she saw a man with good facial features and a straight body standing at the door, still carrying pastries, fruits and other food in his hands.
"Boy, who are you looking for?" Mother Lu asked.
"Ah, it's such an aunt, hello, I'll introduce myself to you first, my name is Wu Guiling, I'm Lu Zhong's girlfriend, today is the first time to visit, there are many presumptuous, please understand."
As soon as these words came out, Mother Lu and Lü Zhong were stunned;
Especially Lu Zhong, she did not expect that her boyfriend's first meeting with her parents would be such a scene, and she was not ready.
Mother Lu also smiled awkwardly and said:
"Oh, then come first, Gui ling."
"Lu Zhong, why don't you tell your mother that you have a boyfriend, and let your mother have a psychological preparation, people are coming, and there is nothing to prepare at home."
Mother Lu muttered in her mouth while beckoning Wu Guiling into the house.
After that, Lu's mother called Lu's father over, although the two have divorced, but in the daughter's lifelong events, the two still have the same point of view.
Mother Lu went to the vegetable market near her home to buy vegetables, and went home to make a large table of good dishes to entertain Wu Guiling;
At the dinner table, Wu Guiling won the approval of Lü Zhong's father and mother with his sincerity to Lü Zhong and his high emotional intelligence.
Not long after that, Lü Zhong also followed Wu Guiling to meet his parents, and their love affair was so open and open.
In 1963, with the blessing of relatives and friends, the two walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand, but due to the poor conditions at that time, the two families simply had a meal.
04
After marriage, Lü Zhong still returned to Hebei to work, and her husband stayed in Beijing, although the two gathered less and left more, but the feelings were still sweet.
Maybe this is the legendary Xiao Bietsu's new marriage.
Lü Zhong and Wu Guiling are still the same as when they are in love, and whoever has time will go to each other.
Sometimes Wu Guiling made a large table of dishes at home and waited for his wife to come home; Sometimes Lü Zhong took her husband to eat special snacks in Hebei.
While the feelings are sweet and stable, their love crystallization also comes, and Lü Zhong gives birth to a son and a daughter for Wu Guiling.
Although the birth of the child has brought joy and laughter to the family, the pressure on the husband and wife has also increased.
Soon, Lü Zhong was worried, if she continued to stay in the Hebei Drama Theatre, then she would not be able to accompany the children's growth;
And the two children are all lost to the husband, his pressure will become greater, he also has his own job, Lu Zhong can't bear it;
If you want to go back to Beijing, the economic pressure in the family will all be on the husband alone.
Thinking of this, Lu Zhongzhong couldn't eat or sleep.
The attentive Wu Guiling quickly discovered his wife's thoughts, and he carefully asked: "Wife, what's wrong, is there anything to worry about?" See if I can help you solve it together. ”
Hearing her husband's inquiry, Lu Zhongyi 1510 put out all his worries.
After Wu Guiling listened, he thought about it and said: "I support you to have your own career, you don't have to worry about the children's affairs, believe me?" ”
When Lu Zhong heard her husband say this, she was very grateful in her heart, and she felt that she had not married the wrong person.
However, Lü Zhong was still worried that her husband would not be able to watch the children alone, so she also asked her mother to help take care of the two young children;
After Lü Zhong's mother-in-law heard about it, she also volunteered to say to Lü Zhong: "Don't worry about going to work, the children also have my grandmother, talk when needed, don't be embarrassed." ”
At this time, Lu Zhong was relieved, and she was also very grateful to her mother-in-law for taking the initiative to extend a hand when their little two were in difficulty.
In a later interview, Lu Zhong said: "If it were not for the support of my family, I would not have been able to have my own achievements in acting. ”
In this way, Lu Zhong returned to work in the troupe without worries, and she continued to shine on the stage, and when she rested, she would buy some delicious food for the children and her family to go back.
Although Lu Zhong can't be around the children all the time, every time she goes home, she will accompany the children and educate them with her own unique education methods.
Hoping for a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix is the wish of every parent.
Every week, Lu Zhong would let the two children write down the events of the week on a blank piece of paper, and then patiently teach them which was right and which was wrong according to these things.
She also consulted with her husband to take part of their salaries as a reward for the children's good performance, but Wu Guiling felt that it was unnecessary;
But Lu Zhong insisted on this, she said: "The reward is as if it hurts the children, they know that it is right to do so, and it will certainly be the same in the future, we are appropriate, and we do not spoil them." ”
Wu Guiling felt that what his wife said was also reasonable, so he agreed.
The family of four did not last long, and in 1973, because of Lu Zhong's excellent performance in the Hebei Opera Troupe, she was transferred to Beijing to work.
Back in Beijing, Although Lü Zhong ushered in the peak period of his career, he switched from the drama stage to the TV screen, and successively starred in "Plainclothes Policeman", "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" in Empress Dong, and the female number one in "Who Do You Defend", and her popularity soared.
But she did not relax her discipline of her two children.
Under the guidance of enlightened parents, the two children of Lü Zhong and Wu Guiling, the son Wu Bingzi, inherited his father's business, embarked on the road of art, studied directing, and is now a big director, and has achieved a good story with actress He Lin;
The daughter has achieved excellent academic results since childhood, is very interested in aerospace scientific research, applied for the major in aerospace at the university, and is now an expert in aerospace, and has also contributed her own strength to the mainland's aerospace industry.
05
Just when the days were getting more and more delicious, in 2015, Wu Guiling felt unwell and was admitted to the hospital, which was diagnosed with diabetes;
Lu Zhong has always been dependent on her husband, her husband suddenly fell ill, she was a little overwhelmed, she first pushed off all her work, and was at ease in the hospital to take care of her husband's life;
After that, her daughter-in-law He Lin also heard that her father-in-law was hospitalized, and her mother-in-law Lu Zhong was alone in the hospital to take care of her, she pushed off all the work in her hands at the first time, rushed to the hospital, and took care of her father-in-law.
Lü Zhong thought that his daughter-in-law had just come to see and leave, but he Lin had actually made such a big sacrifice in order to take care of his wife.
She was a little embarrassed, Lu Zhong asked her daughter-in-law to hurry back to work and not delay the shooting progress, but He Lin insisted on being a nurse in the hospital, she said:
"Mom, you are so old, it is not very convenient to go to the hospital alone to take care of my father, there is a young man to help you share a little physical strength, you don't have to worry, you also have to protect your body." 」
In the days that followed, He Lin made three meals for Lü Zhong and Wu Guiling every day, and she knew that her father-in-law was a special patient, so when cooking, she did several things well.
Moreover, she also classified and labeled all the medicines she wanted to take to prevent her father-in-law from missing and eating by mistake.
Later, Wu Guiling's health improved slightly, and she was discharged from the hospital and went home to recuperate.
At this time, Lü Zhong knew that his daughter-in-law He Lin had delayed a lot of drama for the sake of this family, so he persuaded her to go back to work, and the daughter-in-law saw that her father-in-law was no longer in serious trouble, and she only needed to rest and agree to her mother-in-law;
But she still couldn't rest assured, as soon as she had time, He Lin would carry the nutritional products home to see them, and after returning home, she washed the clothes for Lu Zhong and Wu Guiling, moped the floor, and did what she could.
I thought that life would go on like this, but in 2016, Wu Guiling's condition recurred and she was admitted to the hospital again.
This time he did not survive, and in June, unfortunately passed away.
After sending off her wife, Lu Zhong recalled the 53 years of sharing happiness and hardship with her husband, and she was depressed all day, washing her face with tears, and feeling uninterested in everything around her.
He Lin saw her mother-in-law like this, and she felt that if she continued like this, Lü Zhong's body would be destroyed sooner or later, so she thought of letting her mother-in-law do something to divert her attention.
She entrusted her daughter to Lü Zhong, and He Lin also hired a nanny for them;
And when she was at home, He Lin also taught her daughter how to make her grandmother happy.
In the company of his lovely granddaughter and the care of his attentive daughter-in-law, Lu Zhong slowly walked out of his sad mood.
06 Conclusion
If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law understand each other more, there will be no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in this world.
Today, Lu Zhong is 81 years old, but from the appearance, the spirit is getting better and better.
Sometimes, Lu Zhong also sees her daughter-in-law looking good on the screen, and she recalls that when she was young and acting, she missed it very much, and she also wanted to star again, but her family hoped that she could raise her at home.
Despite this, Lu Zhong will still choose a cameo when he encounters a good script.
As an actor, Lu Zhong has dedicated her life, and she can all learn from her love, family, and education of her children.
I hope that in her later years of life, she can still shine in her own world.
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