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01 Gu Tingye rebelled
Recently rewatched the TV series "Do You Know If It Should Be Green Fat Red Thin", and sighed at the pair of Gu Tingye and Zhu Manniang.
How did Gu Tingye and Zhu Manniang meet?
The explanation in the play is that Gu Tingye met Zhu Manniang and was bullied on the way to study, so the hero saved the beauty and helped Zhu Manniang bury her brother.
This was Gu Tingye's kindness, but what he didn't know was that Zhu Manniang had entangled him for half his life because of this.
Of course, Zhu Manniang has her own wishful thinking.
At that time, Gu Tingye was nostalgic for Fireworks Willow Alley, and he was a real disciple, and it was not too much to fancy Zhu Manniang.
How did Gu Tingye become a disciple?
First of all, his relationship with his father is a reason.
A child who has not been protected by his mother since he was a child is always framed by his uncles and brothers.
And every time Gu Tingye made a mistake, what awaited him was his father's beating.
For him, his father is not a person who hurts him, but a person who cleans him up.
The long-term accumulation of father-son contradictions turned into hatred.
Gu Tingye was disappointed with his father again and again, and began to provoke his authority and dignity, which was a rebellious manifestation of Gu Tingye when he was a teenager.
Secondly, the deliberate connivance of his stepmother made him take a detour.
Every time Gu Tingye makes a mistake, every time he is beaten, Gu Tingye will be "protected" by his stepmother.
This kind of "protection" is just a kind of connivance, and Xiao Qin connived at Gu Tingye again and again to make mistakes, and did not guide him how to be a good son.
Her connivance made Gu Tingye bear the name of "Jun Zi Zi", which affected his position in his father's heart and also affected his marriage.
In fact, in the heart of young Gu Tingye, Xiao Qin's stepmother loved him, and the love he thought was just Xiao Qin's protection after he made a mistake.
Let's think about it, a child without his mother's guidance and only beaten by his father, he will definitely become a rebellious teenager.
And accepting Zhu Manniang as the outer room is a manifestation of Gu Tingye's rebellion.
Because in his heart, his father will definitely oppose him finding a kabuki as an outer chamber and giving birth to a child with kabuki, which is a matter that damages the reputation of the Houfu.
The more his father didn't want him to do this, the more Gu Tingye had to do it.
02 Gu Tingye lacks love
In addition to rebellion, Gu Tingye also lacks love.
Since he was a child, he has lived a life that his mother does not love his father and does not love, in addition to the inheritance left by his grandfather, he has been cold-eyed and framed.
Such a growing environment made Gu Tingye's childhood lack the warmth of family life.
When he met Zhu Manniang, Zhu Manniang's following, worship and love for him made him feel warmth.
When Zhu Manniang followed him, it coincided with his most helpless time, and Zhu Manniang's understanding during that period was more like a light in his dark life, making him feel the warmth of his family, so he was full of gratitude to Zhu Manniang in his heart.
When Gu Tingye decided to find a big lady to give Zhu Manniang a title, he considered Manniang as the main one.
In his imagination, the eldest lady he was looking for must be kind enough to treat Zhu Manniang well, and he was even willing to pay more dowry to get such a big lady.
It can be seen that Gu Tingye has feelings and righteousness for Zhu Manniang.
But Zhu Manniang is not a good match for Gu Tingye, she is an ambitious woman.
Gu Tingye, as the second son of Ningyuanhou's mansion, is the reason why Zhu Manniang followed Gu Tingye, she valued Gu Tingye's family lineage, but she showed that she valued Gu Tingye as a person.
She was used to seeing all kinds of people, knew what Gu Tingye's heart needed most, and used this to pinch Gu Tingye as a person.
She wanted to be the right wife of Houfu, so she ruined Gu Tingye's marriage proposal again and again.
She looks harmless to humans and animals, but is actually scheming.
Zhu Manniang was defeated because her heart was too high and she didn't know how to know how to be happy.
With someone like Gu Tingye protecting, even if she is an outer room, her life will be good, but she wants to be a wife.
Even Ming Lan, a daughter who was born much taller than her, could recognize that the little father-in-law was not her good match, but Zhu Manniang did not understand this truth.
03 Is Gu Tingye really in love with Zhu Manniang?
Some people say that Gu Tingye's favorite person is Zhu Manniang.
Zhu Manniang did have a place in Gu Tingye's heart.
Because Zhu Manniang was his solace when he was lonely, and also gave him family warmth that he had never had, Gu Tingye knew the news and was grateful.
Therefore, in the matter of marriage, Gu Tingye considered Zhu Manniang's situation everywhere.
This also shows that Gu Tingye is a person with feelings, righteousness and responsibility.
In my opinion, Gu Tingye's feelings for Zhu Manniang have pity and gratitude, but it is not real love.
He was willing to pay for Zhu Manniang, but he did not think about making Zhu Manniang a wife.
Because in his opinion, Zhu Manniang's origin could not be a right wife at all, and Gu Tingye did not regard her as a unique woman in her life, but only raised her as an outer room.
In Gu Tingye's heart, the identity of an outer room plus his favor was enough to satisfy Zhu Manniang.
The love between them is not equal, so it can be seen that Gu Tingye does not really love Manniang.
Let's look at the little father-in-law, he said to his mother: Ming Lan is the woman he loves the most, in addition, he doesn't want anyone, and he doesn't want Ming Lan to be a concubine.
In the heart of the little father-in-law, his love with Minglan is equal.
This is the difference between Gu Tingye and Xiao Gongye.
Of course, Zhu Manniang saw it clearly, she knew that in Gu Tingye's heart, at most, it was a position in a concubine's room, so she had to fight for it herself.
She sabotaged Gu Tingye's courtship, and she knew that when Gu Tingye had no money, she secretly pawned his property, which proved that Gu Tingye did not give her enough security.
She was worried that one day, Gu Tingye would abandon her, so it was more important to save more money.
Zhu Manniang's native family did not give her enough security, and she did not get enough security in her intimate relationship with Gu Tingye.
The more you don't get it, the more greedy you are, which is why Zhu Manniang is greedy.
Let's take a closer look at the scene where Gu Tingye treats Minglan and understand why Zhu Manniang betrayed Gu Tingye.
On the first day of marriage with Ming Lan, Gu Tingye handed over all the property and keys to Ming Lan, and even if Zhu Manniang gave birth to two children, she didn't know how much property Gu Tingye had.
It can be seen that in Gu Tingye's heart, Zhu Manniang's position.
Although Zhu Manniang's tragedy was self-inflicted, it also had a great relationship with Gu Tingye, and if Gu Tingye could give her enough security and heal the wounds in her heart, perhaps the outcome would be different.
But then again, Gu Tingye himself is also a scarred person, he doesn't even have the ability to heal himself, how can he know how to heal another person?
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