In "Know It or Not", Gu Tingye and Minglan and his wife have a particularly good relationship, the two of them are like the brand of welding together, and neither of them can move.
Such a husband and wife relationship makes many people jealous, especially Gu Tingye's love for Minglan makes many people red-eyed.
At one time, several aunts wanted to stir up the relationship between the husband and wife.
He left out all the things that Minglan had fallen in love with xiaogongye, and said that she had promised to the He family.
Minglan was a little flustered, but he denied it, his grandmother and the He family's grandmother were good friends, and there was indeed contact, but there was absolutely no matter of matching.
Looking at Minglan's calm attitude, several aunts were a little unhappy.
Seeing that they had not achieved their goal, they continued to run to Gu Tingye to manipulate right and wrong, but Gu Tingye naturally trusted his own wife.
His answer was steady, just like Minglan, his grandmother and the He family were good friends, there was contact, and there was absolutely no matching.
I also made up a knife, the marriage of the He family is still sent by me to stir up the yellow, otherwise how can I marry such a good big lady.
A few uneasy and kind aunts were so angry that they vomited blood.
Driving away those little people who are manipulating right and wrong, the husband and wife close the door to enjoy their sweetness.
Husbands and wives trust each other, hug each other for warmth, although the flame is small, but the power is infinite, which is also the most basic and important point of marriage.
Nina O'Neill says:
Trust is the most important trait shared by two people in a marital relationship and is indispensable for building a pleasant, growing relationship.
Once a marriage is devoid of trust, it's hard to rebuild, and it's even harder to live a good life.
In my memory, the relationship between dad and mom was good at first.
My father worked in the coal mines, and my mother, a full-time housewife, took me and my brother at home and planted a lot of crops.
Her brother was frail and sickly since she was a child, and she often stayed up late with her brother in her arms, and when her brother slept, she went to work.
She got up early every day, and she couldn't finish the farm work, which was very hard, but every time her father came home, he would put down all his work to make him a meal on time, bring it to the table, and hand it to him.
The father gave his mother a hundred yuan a month for living expenses, and later grew to three hundred, and if he was particularly poor, he would have enough food and clothing for the family in front of him.
I don't know how my father treated her, but she was very happy every time she planned the future with our brothers and sisters.
Speaking of our growth, the beautiful blueprint for the future, and the hard work of her father, in fact, her hard work is far more than her father.
But I never heard her complain.
Father had a chest, only he had the key, and we don't know what was in it, but it was all clothes on the surface.
Once he forgot to bring the key to work, his mother secretly opened the box, did not think that there was a lot of savings in it, although it was only tens of thousands of yuan, but for our kind of poor family has been a lot.
Her mother's grievances suddenly came up, she felt that her father was not honest with her, her brother was sick and had no money to look at, and there was not enough rice, oil and salt at home, but he had so much money.
The mother did not make trouble, and the father never confessed to the mother, and then the brother died of illness, and the mother's heart knot was even bigger.
She and her father had a big fight, saying that it was because her father had money and did not take it out to see her brother, which led to his brother's death.
The cause of his brother's death was attributed to his father, and no matter how his father explained it, his mother just did not believe it.
In the days to come, my mother always said that my father was unreliable and could not live with him.
Their hearts have a gap, looking at each other is always not satisfied, the more unpleasant it is, the more unpleasant it is, the more picky it is, the more critical it is, the more quarrels there will be.
If it were not for the conservative people of that era, women would need to be blessed by their husbands to beg for food, and the mother would have run away long ago.
I saw a sentence:
If I choose to trust you, I will trust you unreservedly, but lying to me once is enough to make me doubt you for the rest of my life, and no matter how much I make up for it, it will be in vain.
The mother is like this, because of a chance discovery, she can not let go of this life, suffering her father for a lifetime, but also delaying her own life.
Most of life is spent with partners, having children together, providing for the end of their parents, and working together for each other's lives.
There will be friction, there will be misunderstandings, there will be mistakes, that is inevitable for us, people are not perfect, no fault, the important thing is not to lose trust in each other in the process of supporting along the way.
The people you choose protect yourself, the people you choose are your own favorite, don't blame your partner for not being good here or there because of other people's opinions.
Always remember that the partner is the closest person, if it is wrong, it will be changed, it will not be handed over, others will not accompany you to share happiness and hardship, and no matter how beautiful others speak, they will only fan the flames on the side.
There are many couples who just can't listen to other people's opinions, just outsiders always can't see you well, the more you live badly, the more people steal pleasure, if you don't believe in your partner, but to believe others, how many times you get married in this life will not be happy.
Life is a little thing, more opportunities to explain to the partner, more tolerance, more trust, more pampering, less suspicion and less calculation, is the source of happiness.