Wen \Witch, Jiang Zuo Mei Niang
Picture \Stills of "Know It or Not"
Speaking of "Know It or Not", what makes many people regret is the love between Minglan and Qi Xiaogongye, who loves Minglan deeply, but forced to be helpless, he still chose the daughter of the Yongwang Tou County Lord to marry.
However, even without the coercion of King Yong and the obstruction of his mother, Xiao Gongye was not a good match for Minglan, on the contrary, Gu Tingye was the one who loved Minglan the most.
Compared with Gu Tingye, the little grandfather is still poor in the end, and the good way to eat a woman is only the word "heart".
01. The standard of the preciousness of gifts is human affection
When Xiao Gongye was in class at the Sheng family private school, Minglan was often punished by the teacher because of his bad writing, so Xiao Gongye gave Minglan 2 precious purple brushes, which seemed a little too valuable for ordinary officials and eunuchs like the Sheng family.
But Xiao Gongye just felt that if he had a good pen, the words would definitely be easier to write well, and he didn't think at all, and Minglan didn't care whether the words were written well or not. What she cares about is that she doesn't have to live carefully every day, and she can live happily and freely in this world.
Xiao Gongye also sent her Lingjiao, which was a tribute fruit sent by Yangzhou Government, which was also very valuable, Minglan did not eat a bite, but the maid Xiao Tao ate a lot, he did not know that What Minglan liked was just the ones that ordinary people loved to eat, she only wanted to live this life smoothly.
Some people say that the little grandfather has been pampered since he was a child, and he is the only son in the family, and the title he enjoys and the blessing he enjoys are particularly easy to come, so he can't appreciate the hardships of shuzi, yes, but when you love someone, you have to compare your heart to your heart, and you can't start from your own preferences.
Think about it, Minglan is neither a concubine at home, nor does she have the protection of her mother, there is Rulan who is proud of her status as a concubine, and there is Mo Lan who is everywhere next to her, as well as the two great gods of the big lady and Lin Xiaoniang.
If the two sisters don't have it, she possesses it, she will inevitably be jealous, and some people will be embarrassed by her, which will make Minglan's situation worrying, but the little grandfather never thought of this layer.
The same is to send food, Gu Tingye sent a big difference, such as Fan Lou's big elbow.
Why did you send this? Because Minglan's sisters have all been to Fan Lou, only Minglan has not been, so Gu Tingye personally went to Fan Lou to pack food on the night of his wedding. Minglan was originally a "foodie", such a vote, or her precision scarcity, this thing sent, is really appropriate.
Since then, he has often taken Minglan to eat delicacies, such as whole fish feasts, and these foods are not expensive, especially for rich children like Gu Tingye, they are commonplace, so Minglan has no burden to eat and is very happy.
Later, in order to make Minglan agree to the marriage, Gu Tingye specially held a polo club, and also invited the family members with heads and faces in the capital city, and even invited the empress dowager, personally asking the empress to reward the color head and give the wife who had not passed the door as a gift.
The empress immediately pulled the seal from her head and gave it to Minglan on the day of her coronation, at that time, the female relatives present around her heard and saw it, and they could get such grace from the empress, which gave Minglan a great face.
At this time, is he not afraid that Minglan can't afford to be jealous? Of course, because Gu Tingye was going to marry her, no one would dare to bully her anymore, so he had to give him such a big gift before marriage!
This great gift not only made Minglan in the play cry like rain, but also made me cry.
Minglan is a maid, suppressed everywhere at home, outside also lower than others, since childhood without a mother, live cautiously, bear with anger, the most lacking in the heart is to raise an eyebrow and breathe again.
Gu Tingye was too able to empathize, he specially gave Minglan such decency, Minglan turned around, there was a majestic mountain on his back!
Giving gifts is the sublimation agent in love, but the value of gifts can not be measured only by price, and there is affection injected behind it, a man, in the details of the deepest desire of your soul, give you the most favorite gift, this is really spoiled you to the extreme.
Valuable gifts are good, scarce gifts are not bad, but in a sense, it is the lowest cost input for the parties, and the gifts of love, all prepared with heart, are the most priceless gifts.
02. The pursuit is not in the enthusiasm, but in the protection of you
The pursuit of Minglan by the little grandfather is like a cat catching a mouse, the little grandfather is blocking all kinds, and the little grandfather is running all kinds. The little grandfather first eavesdropped on the conversation between the Yu family girl and Minglan in the back garden of the Sheng Mansion, and then came out to talk to Minglan.
This can scare Minglan enough, thinking that being bumped into like this will not be clear, and quickly leave.
Then the little grandfather waited for everyone to leave in the academy, waiting for Minglan alone, and took the opportunity to express his love.
After that, the little grandfather was more exaggerated, went to the Yuqing Temple to see Minglan alone, and opened Minglan's female envoy, Minglan came out of the temple, and told the female envoy that this kind of thing could not happen again, even if she was for her own consideration, she could not do such an adult beauty.
Gu Tingye was very different, Minglan and Mrs. Sheng returned to Youyang, on the way to the funeral, encountered robbers, Minglan and the crowd scattered, Gu Tingye saved her, but did not send her home, but gave her a self-defense weapon, secretly followed behind the protection, and then escorted Minglan back to the Sheng family, not with Minglan, next to the small house asked why it was so troublesome, Gu Tingye said that this was to save the reputation of the unborn Minglan.
It can be said that Gu Tingye thought of all things in front of him, thinking about Minglan everywhere, Gu Tingye knew how important a woman's reputation was in that era, and he was cautious, afraid of giving others a pretext and adding trouble to Minglan.
The little grandfather was protected too well by his parents, did not go through any storms, did not know the dangers of the world, always thought things very simple, there was only one thought in his mind, as long as he liked Minglan, nothing else had to care.
For example, the little grandfather wanted to help Minglan play polo in the horse farm, which led to the fact that the little grandfather married the county lord later, and Minglan was laughed at by many people, saying that a maid still wanted to climb the tall branches.
In daily life, we can always see many people showing love in public, holding flowers in their hands, full of candles, and they feel that they have given women enough romance, but they have not considered the woman's mood at all.
In full view of everyone, it is more like moral kidnapping.
Love a person lies in the long flow of thin water, see the truth in the bits and pieces of life, not vigorous, burning is strong, but extinguished quickly, love will eventually return to real life, so love you, will really think about your safety situation, will not only rely on righteousness, trap you in embarrassment or danger.
03. Encountering difficulties and facing up to them is the courage of true love
Xiao Gongye and Gu Tingye also have similarities, that is, asking to marry Minglan, both have obstacles.
First of all, the county lord's mother who had a little grandfather could not look at the door of the Sheng family, nor did she look at Minglan's status as a concubine. In addition, king Yong threatened Xiao Gongye's father.
Xiao Gongye thought that Rong Feiyan, the sister of Rong Feiyan, who had recently liked him, had been abducted by the King of Yong for one night, and his ragged clothes were thrown into the street, and his reputation was damaged, and he could only commit suicide.
Even the sister of the favored concubine was killed by the King of Yong, and before he could fall into the handle, he had gained something as a little grandfather, and he did not have the courage to disobey.
Xiao Gongye has been weighing the pros and cons in his feelings, if it involves the safety of the family, love will only be abandoned, he is jealous of power, he is afraid that one day the King of Yong will become the emperor, and his whole family will suffer.
In fact, he did not only have the road of marrying the daughter of the King of Yong, but the other options were too risky, he did not want to gamble, for the little grandfather, Minglan was not important enough to go out.
Little Grandpa's mother, the county lord, is strong at home, the mother does not agree to the marriage, the way of resistance that little Grandpa thinks of is hunger strike and flattery, such resistance is weak and cowardly, it can be said that Little Grandpa has developed the character of obeying authority, and he does not exert all his subjective initiative to resist.
And Gu Tingye faced the same dilemma, he will choose to kidnap people, rather than fight to the death, this strong confrontation method, it is possible to fail, but the probability of victory is also greater.
This may be related to his experience since childhood, he hates his father for using his mother, which leads to his mother's death, so he often confronts his father, he loves his father, but does not blindly follow.
Gu Tingye, because of his previous wandering in the brothel, had a bad reputation, and the serious family was reluctant to marry his daughter to him, and he also knew that if he rushed to ask for relatives, the Sheng family would definitely not agree.
Therefore, he first asked his subordinates to find the cousin of the He family who was exiled abroad, and used the cousin to restrain the He family's son, so that the matchmaker that Mrs. Sheng wanted to do would be yellow.
Later, he went to the second son of the Sheng family who was good friends with him to say goodbye, and at that time, the lord of the Sheng family did not have a good impression of Gu Tingye.
Gu Tingye thought of this layer, so he told the second prince that the lord of the Sheng family was a civilian official Qingliu, and said that he was a young man and crazy at that time, and he touted and explained, and coaxed the lord of the Sheng family to be happy.
In order to prevent the Sheng family from changing his mind, he also personally went to the official family to talk about this family affair, which made the Sheng family dare not refuse.
Under such meticulous planning, Gu Tingye finally married Sheng Minglan. Such a heart twists and turns, is it not a few streets to throw the cowardly little grandfather!
Why doesn't the little grandfather have such courage and the city government? The answer is simple, he grew up to be windy, to rain and rainy, for him, life has long been planned, you can see the head at a glance, so he is bored.
The pursuit of Minglan is an adventure for him, but also a kind of rebellion against a strong mother, you like the door to the door, I just want to risk the world.
Thinking like this, Xiao Gongye's love is completely for his own happiness, he only wants his feelings to be cathartic, but he has never considered minglan's situation if the pursuit is unsuccessful.
Especially after Minglan got married, he still felt that Second Uncle Gu had taken what he loved, and all kinds of letters to ask Gu Tingye were not, but he didn't think about how embarrassed Minglan was, so compared to this, the pattern of the little grandfather was really too small.
Such a man, his love is all from the needs of the self, no matter how fierce is also paranoid, and the love that women want, has always been loved, when a man is really standing in the other person's perspective, to try to meet each other's needs, so that the other party feels happiness and joy, this is true love.
The man chasing you like this shows that you have truly entered his heart, smart as Minglan, naturally willing to accept Gu Tingye's love, and never regretted it again.
04. Mei Niang said
Liu Liuxi said in "You Are My Most Beautiful Encounter":
"God has given us the power to love people, but it has not told us how to truly love others."
So will not love people, itself needs to learn, love is a word, but when we really do it, we find that there is difficulty, love should not be what I have to give, but what the other party needs, I work hard for her to get.
The love of the latter is more than the former, but also a mature person love the correct way to open, such love can really impress the other party, with such a person who will love, in order to experience the beauty of love, love a person to stand in the other's perspective to think, such love can be long-lasting.
In the plot, Gu Tingye won love by relying on his heart, but in reality, Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying were still divorced, so it can be seen that the word "intention" is really too difficult to grasp.
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