In the TV series "Know It or Not", on the top three most annoying roles, no matter what the criteria for selection, Aunt Kang is definitely on the list.
She has no vendetta against Sheng Minglan, but she is in cahoots with Xiao Qin, pretending that she is the sister of Sheng Minglan's mother, Wang Clan, posing on the shelf of the elders, and bullying Sheng Minglan, who is pregnant.
Wang Shi is the sister of one of her mother's compatriots, and she can all be harmed, in order to achieve the purpose of poisoning the old lady Sheng who looks at her unfavorably and giving and giving to the Sheng family, so that the sister is charged with poisoning her mother-in-law.
In fact, Aunt Kang's crimes were far more than that, she not only harmed her sister Wang, but also harmed her sister-in-law Wang's aunt.
"From the moment I entered the door, you moved in front of your mother, changed the pickiness of The Law, told me to make rules, and provoked in front of your brother." You when I don't know... Hmm, I know. But I couldn't do anything, so I had to try my best to please you, even the handmaidens around you, the mother-in-law. ”
"That year, I just gave birth to Brother You and his eldest sister, you threw your mother to Xiang Gong's second room, how many times did I cry secretly, and I woke up in fear at night, fortunately, your brother was gentle and gentle, and your mother was also reasonable, so I didn't listen to you."
"Look at my white jade statue of Guanyin, which my mother asked for from Fengxia Mountain in three steps and one kowtow." You said you wanted it; you said you wouldn't marry otherwise, and I would have to smile and offer it with both hands. ”
"You said to Yuan'er, my mother is old and can't do anything, and youge'er's father and son are honest, as long as I die, not only will no one discipline her, but the entire Wang family will also be in their hands!" You also gave Yuan Er some good things. Hum, it's a pity that your daughter only learned your viciousness, but did not learn your scheming, easily believed the people around her, and told me to make it clear. ”
I remember that the writer Zhou Chong once said: "If a person has several bear relatives, the happiness value of life will plummet." ”
Just like The Queen's Aunt and Mother, such a vicious sister-in-law on the stall, life after marriage is worse than death.
Why can a sister-in-law have such a big impact on her sister-in-law or sister-in-law? It's nothing more than a little bit. Whether it is a man's brothers and sisters or other relatives, the confidence that causes trouble to the daughter-in-law is given by the man and the in-laws.
Mrs. Wang was eccentric to the extreme, helping her relatives and not helping, blindly protecting her daughter Aunt Kang, Uncle Wang was suppressed by filial piety and did not dare to resist her mother, Aunt Kang naturally had no fear and dared to bully her sister-in-law unscrupulously.
There is a saying in the movie "The Blacklist": "Why others dare to do bad things on you, because you make people feel that doing bad things on you can do no price." ”
When you meet someone who dares to do something bad on you, no matter who it is, don't be too polite, and turn your face when it's time to turn your face. If the other party doesn't want a face and kicks his nose in the face, why should you give him a face?
"The eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, do you understand?" Dare to scold my daughter for asking for food, who taught you? My daughter has been crying at home for two days. If you don't come to the door and apologize, I'm not done with you. ”
"What sister-in-law is like a mother?" Mom, you're still here, that's your daughter, not mine. Besides, let me be polite, wasn't I polite enough before? She didn't want a face, and blamed me for punching her in the face, right? Let me apologize and go to your dreams! ”
In the face of the mother-in-law who protected the calf, Zhou Ziqi unceremoniously shook back, in her opinion, although she did not speak well, but the sister-in-law was too much in the first place, and she could not complain about herself.
01. The sister-in-law is four years younger than her husband, is the heart and liver baby of the whole family, and is very willful;
The reason why Zhou Ziqi had such a big conflict with her mother-in-law was because of her sister-in-law.
The sister-in-law is 4 years younger than Zhou Ziqi's husband, originally, according to the regulations, the mother-in-law should not have a second child, but the mother-in-law likes girls very much, wants a small cotton jacket, insists on giving birth to a child, and also got her wish, gave birth to a daughter, a son and a daughter made up a good word.
"Girls are naturally more likely to please their parents than boys. Growing up, my in-laws and my husband's grandparents were very fond of my sister-in-law, responding to her needs, what she wanted, treating her as a pearl in the palm of her hand, and only strictly disciplined my husband's son. ”
My son fell out of the top ten on the exam, either with stick education or by adding homework after school. The daughter's grades have not improved, she has been sued by the teacher, the father-in-law will reprimand a few words, and the mother-in-law will protect the calves, and no one has a way to take the sister-in-law.
Loving mother and many children, under the pampering habits of the mother-in-law, the sister-in-law is not skilled in her studies, only admitted to one of the two colleges, after graduation, the sister-in-law went to work in a nine-to-six studio, with a monthly salary of more than 3,000, still living at home, eating and drinking do not need to spend money on their own, and the life is leisurely and happy.
When Zhou Ziqi got married, due to the fear that the pressure of repaying the mortgage was too great, he had to give up his plan to buy a house and temporarily live with his in-laws.
"Before my sister-in-law got married, she often ran to my house, took my cosmetics, saw beautiful clothes and bags and I wanted them, as soon as my mother-in-law opened her mouth, I had to give, if it wasn't for my husband who couldn't look at it, said her several times, she even wanted to leave my friend's birthday gift." 」
02. She has no money to spend after marriage, does not work hard to make money, does not urge men to be self-motivated, only wants to nibble on the old, nibble on us;
In July last year, the sister-in-law got married, married to a local, and the new home was very close to the mother's home, and it only took an hour to drive.
When it comes to the marriage of the sister-in-law, not only is Zhou Ziqi not optimistic, but even the in-laws are strongly opposed at the beginning, only because the boy's family situation is not only worse than that of Zhou Ziqi's mother-in-law, but also less motivated than the sister-in-law, but also a person who is spoiled by his parents, in addition to bragging, it is useless.
However, the sister-in-law was spoiled, and did not know how difficult it was to live after leaving her parents, and she cried and made trouble at home and hanged herself, forcing her parents to agree to this marriage. After getting married, the life of the little two is very difficult.
"Men's monthly salary is more than 5,000, can't bear hardships, and after working for two or three months, he has to jump ship, saying that he often works overtime, the boss scolds people, and he can't get along with his colleagues." My sister-in-law still earns 4,000 a month. Oh, when she got married, my mother-in-law was worried about the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, asked to buy a house, paid 200,000 yuan for her daughter, the house was bought, but the mortgage accounted for more than 5,000. ”
What makes Zhou Ziqi feel dissatisfied is that the sister-in-law has no money to spend after marriage, does not work hard to make money, does not urge men to be self-motivated, and only wants to nibble on the old, and even nibble on the brother-in-law.
"My father-in-law is now at work, he can earn 6,000 a month, my mother-in-law has a pension of 3,000 a month, and she has to subsidize her daughter every month, otherwise, the sister-in-law will come back and cry, saying that she is going to starve to death." My man couldn't stand it anymore, repeatedly reprimanded his sister, asked her to find a job that was tired but well paid, and was intimidated by my mother-in-law, saying that he didn't feel sorry for his sister, and she still hurt her daughter! What else can we do! ”
03. Go back to my mother's house 3 times a month, come home empty-handed with a full load, I said she came to ask for food, is it wrong?
The sister-in-law's marriage is not a good thing for Zhou Ziqi, only because of this, the sister-in-law wants to return to her mother's house, it is easy.
"She longs to go back to her mother's house every weekend, three times last month. If she comes back to see her parents, talks to her in-laws, and honors her parents, I can still bear it, isn't it a meal? It's not that I can't eat or drink this little bit, but what is the name of what she does? ”
The sister-in-law returned to her mother's house 3 times in January, each time she came by car, came empty-handed, never remembered to bring gifts, even if it was a pound of apples, and then, she came empty-handed with a full load, and before leaving, she was eager to empty the refrigerator of Zhou Ziqi's family, what fruits, meat shrimp, yogurt, etc., can be moved.
In this regard, Zhou Ziqi was seriously dissatisfied, after all, the money for buying vegetables was paid by the couple, but the in-laws connived at the sister-in-law on the grounds that "she is my daughter and not an outsider, and it is right to take her own family's things".
Until some time ago, the sister-in-law took away the 3 old hens that Zhou Ziqi's mother specially sent from her hometown to supplement the body of Zhou Ziqi who was 6 months pregnant, which completely angered Zhou Ziqi, and under the anger, Zhou Ziqi cried in anger: "Come to my house, don't bring anything, drag it into a carriage and leave, are you here to ask for food?" ”
The sister-in-law covered her face and ran away crying, and the mother-in-law stomped her feet in anger behind her and scolded Zhou Ziqi.
"Don't argue, wife, you first suffer some grievances, rent a house with me for a while, and when we have enough money, we will buy a house." As for mom and dad, you two live by yourself, how much money to make up. When you are old, I will naturally do my filial piety, but I will only do my part, and the rest of you will go to your sister. ”
Zhou Ziqi's husband chose to move out with Zhou Ziqi, and the two of them lived their own lives, no longer paying attention to their eccentric parents and ignorant sister.
04. Born to be human, if you don't want face, why should others save face for you?
A writer once said: Face is the most difficult and useless thing for a person to put down. The more you care about it, the heavier it gets, the harder it gets.
If you don't want face, why should others save face for you? You have to go in, take advantage of it and sell it, you want to get benefits, you also want dignity, where is there such a good thing under the heavens?
Whether you are with relatives or with other people, remember that only when you respect yourself and pay attention to your words and deeds can you make others respect you.
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