Sister Xian has appeared in the drama version, but there are not many scenes, in fact, in the original work, Sister Xian is also a very bright character, is a very smart girl.
Sister Xian was born noble, was the only daughter of Gu Tingyu, the Marquis of Ningyuan, of the previous generation, and was also the pearl in Gu Tingyu's hand.
Gu Tingyu was the son of the Great Qin clan, from birth he was not in good health, his life was not long, although he was amazingly talented and good at calculation, even Gu Tingye suffered several losses under his hands, but he could not exert his talent and had to leave with hatred. Before his death, Gu Tingyu made careful arrangements to protect his wife and daughter.
Gu Tingyu did not establish an heir, announced Gu Yan's will, took the Danshu iron coupon to say things, forced Gu Tingye to put aside his resentment against the Gu family in his heart, and inherit the title of Marquis of Ningyuan, as long as the Marquis of Ningyuan did not fall, his wife was still the honorable former Marquis of Ningyuan, the sister-in-law of the current Marquis of Ningyuan, and his daughter was still the only daughter of the Marquis of Ningyuan, and with such an identity, his wife and daughter could live a comfortable life under the protection of the Marquis of Ningyuan, and only when the sisters and children discussed their relatives could they have a good marriage.
And if they really take the knighthood, the other house will be enough, so that there are men, but they are orphans and widows, they can only live with their relatives in other families, and what good fruit can they eat; only when the Marquis of Ningyuan stands firm and bears the name of the widow and weak daughter of the late Marquis, they can live a good life of respect and prosperity.
Not to mention the marriage of the sister-in-law, it is even more different.
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Originally, Gu Tingyu's arrangement was no problem, and it counted the hearts of the people. Sheng Minglan is a generous person, adhering to the principle of sin not being as good as his wife and children, treating Lady Shao kindly, and even more treating Sister Xian as a pro-girlfriend, picking up good living conditions, letting Sister Rong play with Sister Rong, having a childhood, and not forgetting to give Sister Rong a quota when she finds a husband.
However, Madame Shao is a delicate egoist, who always knows only to think about her own interests, and while receiving the benefits of Sheng Minglan, she does not take Sheng Minglan seriously and does not trust Sheng Minglan.
During the second time the capital was in turmoil, Lady Shao distrusted Sheng Minglan's arrangement, and for her own sake, she bribed Biss with a pair of bracelets, asked out the hiding place of Brother Tuan'er, touched the past, but was betrayed by Aunt Ren, who had long hated her, and led the thief over.
If it were not for the daughter Sister Xian'er's heavy affection and righteousness, remembering Sister Rong, and taking Sister Rong with her, sister Rong'er heroically protecting her brother, Lady Shao might have killed Sheng Minglan's eldest son. If something happened to Brother Tuan, with Gu Tingye's anger, Lady Shao's mother and daughter might die without a place to bury.
The ending of the sister is not too good to say good, and it is not too bad to say bad.
Sister Xian married into the Marquis of Yongchang and married Lady Liang's eldest grandson, although it was a door-to-door pair, and the marriage looked higher than Sister Rong'er (Sister Rong married Grandma Chang's grandson for many years), but the life after marriage was far less comfortable than Sister Rong's.
Although there is no family lineage for many years, the new branch jinshi is also the proud protégé of Sheng Changbai, and the future is unlimited. Perennial mother died, sister married, Chang Mamma once took care of Sister Rong for a period of time, naturally will not be embarrassed Sister Rong. As soon as Sister Rong entered the door, she could be the master of the house, and her life was very moist.
"Xiang Gong doesn't understand this." Although the Liang family has a knighthood, but in these years, the bag has been empty for most of the time, the family population is large, five rooms and six concubines, and the brothers are not harmonious, there is a dispute between concubines, three days and two ends are not peaceful, Lady Liang Hou's hair is almost white. Lo and behold, the Gu family girl entered the door, and some were busy. The Chang family is different, Mrs. Chang died early, there is only one grandmother and a married sister in the family, and Miss Gu is the grandmother when she enters the door. Over the years, the officials of the Chang Lord have been prosperous, and the female relatives have socialized, which one dares to underestimate Gu Hou's big girl? ”
The reason why Lady Liang asked her grandson to marry Sister Xian'er was actually because Sister Xian was a girl of the Marquis of Ningyuan, a niece of Gu Tingye, and her family background was prominent, which could bring strong help to the Marquis of Yongchang.
In the storm of the separation of the family in the Marquis of Yongchang, the reason why Lady Liang was able to suppress the eldest son of Shu and prevent him from separating the family smoothly was also because of the strength of her in-laws. The Marquis of Yongchang fell to the point where she had to survive by marriage, and Lady Liang was really a loser in the marriage.
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Lady Liang was also born very high, after all, she could marry the Marquis of Yongchang, and she was a sister of the British duchess who wanted to be good when she was young, and her birth was certainly not low.
Lady Liang encountered a similar situation to Zhang Guifen, the only daughter of the British public, married someone she did not love, she also adopted a broken jar and a broken attitude, did not manage the marriage well, did not try to grasp the heart of her husband, prevented those concubines from coveting her position, nor did she go out to intersect, handling things for the Marquis of Yongchang, and even the education of her son.
Therefore, the Marquis of Yongchang also spoiled the concubine and destroyed his wife, had the eldest son, and carefully cultivated the eldest son, so that the talent of the eldest son exceeded that of the concubine. In the process, Lady Liang had no sense of crisis and looked at it coldly, until the eldest son of Shu had the capital to compete for the title, and Lady Liang began to panic.
Mrs. Zhang remembered the past and was unusually frightened: "Alas, that is my sister who is good to play small, and I really have a sex with you." At the beginning, she was also married to a person she did not like, so she made a small character, and for three days she had a cold face, and the husband and wife had a suspicious gap, and told Tongfang to exploit the loophole and give birth to a son in front of her. alas...... I went to persuade her not to listen, and now the eldest son climbed on the head of their mother and son. ”
In fact, it is not unusual for a large family to have the eldest son, but since there is a biological son, the main room should have made plans early, either to bring the eldest son to his side and raise family affection, or simply raise him to waste, so as to avoid future troubles. Like Lady Liang, she was so cold-eyed and high-minded, and stood by and watched, and as a result, she raised a hidden and resentful, shrewd and capable eldest son, which was also rare.
Although in the end, the concubine inherited the title, and Lady Liang suppressed the eldest son by virtue of the power of her in-laws, but if her ability in this line has not been able, then sooner or later, the Marquis of Yongchang will decline, and they will still be overwhelmed by the eldest son of Shu, and if they do not manage the marriage well, she pits her children and grandchildren.
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Marrying someone you don't like and not being able to leave does make people feel very depressed and desperate.
However, I hope that women will remember that in your life, there is not only love, but also family affection, friendship and other things that are worth your nostalgia. Men are important to you, but your parents and your children also need you and need you to live well.
Women are soft and mothers, and do not ask you to do anything else, but since you choose to bring your children into this world, you must become a qualified mother and make your children as good as possible. If you have been very decadent and negative, how can your child learn to be positive?
I hope that women can learn the lessons of Mrs. Liang, like Zhang Guifen, understand the truth that life must go on and have to work hard.
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