In the original work of "Knowing or Not", when Sheng Minglan was pregnant with her second child, Gu Tingye was not at home, and the fierce god of Xiao Qin came to the door viciously, Sheng Minglan did not want to see Xiao Qin, and even did not want to fight, so he had to pretend that he was sick and let his sister-in-law Shao go out to send Xiao Qin away.
Shao never confronted Xiao Qin, only the promise wanted both sides not to offend, really had no idea, vaguely sneaked back to their own yard, and finally under the point of their daughter Xian'er, they suddenly woke up, they could not forget the mountain, moreover, they had already separated their families, and as early as Before Gu Tingyu's death, they had already chosen for their mother and daughter who they should turn to in the future, thinking that their daughter would have to rely on Minglan to come forward in the future, even if Shao was afraid of Xiao Qin, he still had enough courage to send Xiao Qin away.
Afterwards, Sheng Minglan said to Cui's mother: "Am I too cruel? ”
Mother Cui felt that Sheng Minglan's kindness to Shao Shi over the years, even if it was a stone, should be warmed.
After Gu Tingyu passed away, Shao Shi fell ill, and also faintly had a state of running out of oil, Sheng Minglan got along better for the future concubines, carefully took care of Shao Shi, at first, no matter what Sheng Minglan said and did, Shao Shi was unwilling to take care of her, all of them were cold and cold, Sheng Minglan was not angry about this, or was gentle and considerate to Shao Shi, looking at Fangzi, trying soup medicines without faking the hands of others, bringing Sister Rong with sister Xian as a companion, and moving from Chengyuan every day to eat and entertain the children. Seeing that Shao Shi did not have any will to survive, Sheng Minglan said by example, and said all kinds of "fears", "wandering", "loneliness and helplessness" after Wei Xiaoniang's death, adding oil and vinegar to the details, thinking of his daughter Xianjie, which aroused Shao's desire to survive.
Under sheng Minglan's relief, Shao Shi slowly walked out of the pain of bereavement.
For Shao's mother and daughter, Sheng Minglan is extremely generous, with clothes to eat and use, and there is never a shortage.
At this point, Sister Xian can see clearly than Shao's: "A single filial piety can save me a lot of clothes to wear, but the second aunt is not that, but also changed the fa'er to give me a rectification of fur jewelry, every time I go out, people say that I have not seen the little girl who wears filial piety, and she can also dress up so exquisite and elegant, which shows that the family is very attentive." There are also mothers who pay homage to the Buddha every day, burn incense, donate incense oil, which time the second aunt told us to give out the silver ourselves? All are called the accounts in the public. ”
In addition, the family management, reward the ring, as long as you can teach Sister Rong, Sheng Minglan also taught Sister Rong, help Sister Rong find a good mr. teacher, Sheng Minglan incidentally took Sister Yun also with her, for this reason, Sheng Minglan also owes Mrs. Zheng a favor.
Sheng Minglan's original intention of treating her sister well is very simple, that is, she likes this child.
And how did Shao Shi treat Sheng Minglan?
When Sheng Minglan gave birth to her first child, she struggled at the critical moment of life and death, Xiao Qin set fire to Chengyuan, Shao only watched coldly, or sister Xian had a conscience, while accusing her mother of being cold, while sending most of the people in the house to fight the fire.
Sister Xian'er's move, even Gu Tingye was secretly surprised: "My dark and sinister big brother, full of moldy rotten plans, can actually produce such a bright and upright good shoot." ”
Sheng Minglan could also see this, a widow's family in the Shao family, who had many scruples, and she could understand that she could not help her at a critical moment.
It's just that Sheng Minglan wouldn't think that he would "repay his grievances with virtue" in exchange for Shao's "repaying virtue with resentment".
At the time of the mutiny, Sheng Minglan was pregnant and busy, arranged tuan'er in a safe place, arranged special protection for Shao's residence, and even made his main courtyard brightly lit up in the dark surrounding situation. Sheng Minglan did this, first, because he felt that if the thieves came for wealth, then they could just go to the main courtyard, and second, they could also ensure the safety of Shao's mother and daughter.
But Shao Shi did not believe Sheng Minglan, and under the influence of others, he took his sister to the courtyard to find the location of Tuan Ge'er, putting Tuan Ge'er in danger.
This time it was thanks to my sister again. Shao Shi wanted to take her to a safe place, and Sister Xian took Sister Rong with her, and in the end, it was Sister Rong who took the white blade with her bare hands and saved Brother Tuan.
Almost, Brother Tuan will die because of Shao's recklessness and ignorance, and Sister Xian'er's kindness indirectly saves herself and her mother.
Since then, Sheng Minglan has suddenly realized that Shao's "stone" is not hot, but Sheng Minglan said that he will still treat his sister kindly and seek a good future for her.
Sheng Minglan's kindness to Shao Shi is obvious to everyone in the house, but why doesn't she know how to cherish it, and "repay virtue with resentment?" ”
As the saying goes, sheng mien, dou mi vendetta, human nature is like this.
Shao Shi once said to Gu Tingyu: "I am talentless and faceless, my family is peaceful, and it is a great blessing to be able to marry you." ”
Although Gu Tingyu was physically weak, but his wisdom and courage were perfect, when he was alive, he also cared for Shao In all kinds, and before he died, he also planned for Shao's mother and daughter, but no matter how he plotted, he was still destroyed by Shao himself.
After Gu Tingyu's death, Shao Still lived under the aura of the title of Grand Lady of Gu Province, Sheng Minglan took pains to find a girl to study for his sister, but Shao thought so:
"My poor child, a good and dignified Houfu concubine, is now going to curry favor with a wild lady of unknown origin."
Sheng Minglan's kindness, Shao Shi not only did not know gratitude, but also complained, which was really not worth the loss.
In Shao's view, sister Xian and Sister Rong are good friends, it is Sheng Minglan who is suppressing Sister Xian, it is her mother and daughter who have suffered losses, so Sheng Minglan's kindness to her is a matter of course.
So, don't be too nice to a person, the great favor is both a great vendetta, because the better you treat a person, the higher her expectations and requirements for you.
Although Shaw apologized later, he never had much sincerity.
But if everything can be repeated, Shao Shi will still choose to go to Tuan Ge'er, which is the truest human nature.