Today, Xiao Qiqi came to introduce you to a character in "Knowing or Not", that is, Xiao Qin's daughter-in-law and Gu Tingwei's wife Zhu Shi.
The character of Zhu Shi also appeared in the drama version, and the character setting was the same as the original, but her ending in the drama version and the original book was very different. The drama version of Zhu's happiness, although the mother-in-law Xiao Qin set herself on fire in the Gu family ancestral hall, but the husband Gu Tingwei has always had a deep brotherhood with Gu Tingye, is a man who can carry clearly, Gu Tingye will not hurt Gu Tingwei because of Xiao Qin's sins, but will help this brother who has always treated him sincerely, with Gu Tingye's help and the assistance of Zhu's mother's family, Gu Tingwei and Zhu's husband and wife are not worried about a good life.
However, in the original work, Zhu Shi is a tragic character, she obviously did not do anything bad, but ended up with a widow and a son, how pitiful.
The reason why Zhu Shi has two diametrically opposed endings is mainly because Gu Tingwei's performance in the drama version and the original work is also diametrically opposite. In that era, a woman had no way to be independent, she had to be at home from her father, married from her husband, and died from her son, and once a woman married out, her fate was closely related to that man.
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First of all, let's introduce the family background of the Zhu family and understand the daughter-in-law of the Xiao Qin family.
Zhu Shi is a good woman, kind by nature, and only wants to live a peaceful life, only because she has a happy and happy original family.
Zhu Shi is the only daughter of Cheng Pingbo, who has been loved by her parents and brothers since childhood, and girls who grow up in such a loving family are generally not bad.
After Zhu's marriage, the mother's family would still protect her, help her many times, bring Gu Tingwei, and even Zhu's brother-in-law agreed to give his eldest daughter Xu to Zhu's son, Brother Xian.
The eldest granddaughter of Chengping Bofu, xu ration to the son of the unjudicated and powerless Houfu Side Branch, the Zhu family's brother and sister-in-law are indeed quite generous; even if Gu Tingye stands idly by in the future, the future of Brother Xian'er will also be protected by the Zhu family. In other words, good steel should be used on the blade. It is not advisable for a married woman to ask for help from her mother's family too often, otherwise, even the best brothers and sisters-in-law will be annoyed.
With such a powerful mother's family, the Zhu family has a rich dowry, even if Gu Tingwei cannot inherit the title, the Zhu family does not worry about the future days.
The Zhu clan also maintained their relationship with Gu Tingye Sheng Minglan as much as possible, and once released goodwill to Sheng Minglan, telling Sheng Minglan the news of Gu Tingye, who was fighting on the front line, hoping that the two families would still be relatives.
"In the matter of the elders, I can't be a daughter-in-law." But I always think that in the future, when the children are older, Brother Tuan and Brother Xian will still be cousins, pleasing their daughters-in-law, taking on errands, and always having to come and go. ”
However, Zhu Shi has a bad and vicious mother-in-law, which casts a shadow over Zhu Shi's life.
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Having an evil mother-in-law in the family is an extremely headache for a woman. Originally, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law got along more delicately, and it was easy for contradictions between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, not to mention, the Zhu family was in the era of filial piety first, and the mother-in-law wanted to find trouble for the daughter-in-law and did not need to pick a time, only the share of being bullied by the mother-in-law, there was no possibility of rebelling against the mother-in-law.
The daughter-in-law cannot resist the mother-in-law, which is already a headache for the woman, and if there is a man who responds to the mother's needs and completely obeys the blind command of the mother, the family may be taken to the ditch by their mother and son.
In the original work, Gu Tingwei is an unclear man, responsive to the needs of his mother Xiao Qin, obviously Gu Tingye is very good to him, fulfilled his brother's responsibility, and helped him to find an errand, but Gu Tingwei was still instigated by Xiao Qin's instigation, for the marquis's position, moved the idea of murdering Gu Tingye's family.
During the second chaos in the capital, Gu Tingwei attacked Chengyuan under the guise of a thief, trying to kill Sheng Minglan's brother and was shot by a random arrow.
The Marquis of Ningyuan was fighting fiercely that night, killing and injuring more than half, and the fire was second only to the fire in the Imperial City. The emperor was furious, and regardless of whether the truth was true or not, he first took Xiao Qin's edict from Yipin, and Dali Temple convicted Gu Tingwei as a vassal according to the intention of the Emperor, thinking that the Gu family would be loyal to liang for generations, sparing his wife and children from being slaves, and sparing him and Teng'an Guoyi from hanging the corpse at noon, but ordering the Gu Clan Ancestral Hall to expel Gu Tingwei from the clan, and the three generations of descendants were not allowed to leave the family.
Gu Tingwei died, and the Zhu clan became a widow, which was already very pitiful, and what was even more fatal was that because the evil mother-in-law Xiao Qin had done wrong, she had provoked the evil people and actually killed one of her own sons and daughters.
Xiao Qin's murder of Sheng Minglan for his own interests deceived Yu Fangshi, so that Yu Fangye mistakenly thought that Gu Tingye did not know the cause of death of his daughter Yu Yanhong (that is, Gu Tingye's first wife, who did ugly things and drank medicine and died), taking advantage of Gu Tingye's absence and Sheng Minglan's pregnant Liujia, he took Zhu Manniang's mother and son to the door, hoping to pass Zhu Manniang's son Chang Ge'er to Yu Yanhong's name, snatch the position of the son of the son who belonged to Sheng Minglan's belly, take this opportunity to anger Sheng Minglan, and profit from the fisherman.
Fortunately, Sheng Minglan maintained his composure, guessed the cause of Yu Yanhong's death, and successfully resolved the crisis. The matter reached the Yu family, and the yu ge boss was angry, and in order to give the Gu family an explanation, so as not to prevent Gu Tingye from retaliating against the Yu family, he swept his daughter-in-law Yu Fangshi out of the house.
The Yu Fang clan was reduced from the eldest wife of the Yu family to an abandoned wife, and attributed all the reasons to Xiao Qin's family, believing that Xiao Qin had harmed himself, and in order to retaliate against Xiao Qin, he pretended to be good, privately collected the toxins of people who died of the epidemic, hid them in the clothes of Zhu's children, and killed a pair of innocent children of the Zhu clan.
"When Ting Wei died, it can be said that he was greedy and insufficient, and he committed his own sins." But my two children... You blind old godly woman, you have summoned the evil star into the door..."
If it weren't for Xiao Qin's vicious heart and provoking evil people, he wouldn't have harmed Zhu's children. If Gu Tingwei had not obeyed his mother's orders, he would not have incurred such a fate.
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In the drama version, Gu Tingwei was clear and assertive, resolutely did not listen to his mother Xiao Qin's misdeeds, and also brought good luck to his wife and children.
Because of how Gu Tingwei persuaded Xiao Qin, Xiao Qin refused to listen, Gu Tingwei had no choice but to move out with Zhu and his children, away from Xiao Qin.
Not living together, the Zhu family is the head of the house, naturally can take good care of their children, protect their children, and stay away from the land of right and wrong.
Because Gu Tingwei was able to carry qingqing, he never murdered his brother-in-law, and he sincerely treated his brother Gu Tingye, and he also received Gu Tingye's kindness, even if Xiao Qin died, Gu Tingwei and Gu Tingye had always been relatives, and they could also get Gu Tingye's support in the future.
Living a down-to-earth life, still a relative with Gu Tingye, having a husband and children, and having a mother's family to help, such an ending is the best for the Zhu family.
Writer Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "Don't just love a good person, don't just love an excellent man, don't love only a talented man, don't just love a man who loves you and hurts you, please love a man with responsibility." ”
Men who are responsible can carry clearly, know what is right and wrong, know what things should be done, what things can be tried, and what things can never be done, and will not cause disasters to the family at will; men who are responsible can carry clearly, filial piety but are not blind, will not respond to their parents' unreasonable demands, obey the arrangements of their parents, and will not sit idly by in the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; men with responsibilities will work the ground, assume the responsibility of the head of the family, support the family, and support their wives and children.
If men can't figure it out, women can't live comfortably no matter how capable they are. Therefore, a woman must marry a man who can carry it well.
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Xiao Qiqi would like to ask you to comment: What is your opinion on the different ending of the original work of Zhu's drama version? Feel free to share your views in the comments section.