Xiao Qin was the third wife of Gu Yankai, the Marquis of Ningyuan, and the stepmother of Gu Tingye.
When Gu Tingye was very young, his biological mother Bai Shi was angry when she learned the truth that Gu Yankai had married herself during pregnancy, and argued with Gu Yankai, resulting in a blood collapse and death, at that time, the young Gu Tingye really regarded Xiao Qin as a mother.
When his birth mother died, he didn't know anything, and from the day he understood things, his mother was the only one. At that time, Xiao Qin was gentle and beautiful, kind and amiable, too good to say anything about him, and when his father chased and scolded, he would not hesitate to hide behind her - he really wanted to be her mother.
At that time, Gu Tingye knew that the eldest brother Gu Tingyu was afraid that he would not live long, and he also secretly resolved that when he inherited the title, he would definitely honor Xiao Qin and treat his younger brothers and sisters well, and do everything to them.
To tell the truth, if Xiao Qin is really so good, and really treats Gu Tingye kindly, instead of knowing that she loves and kills, calculating Gu Tingye, her ending will not be too bad. With Gu Tingye there, she and her children also have shelter, and life will be very good. Moreover, Gu Tingwei, the son of Xiao Qin, did not have much ability, and at the beginning he had no intention of competing with Gu Tingye for the title, in fact, he was more suitable to be a rich man who was happy under the protection of his brother.
If Gu Tingwei is really like the drama version, and has a deep affection for Gu Tingye's brothers, then Gu Tingye will not treat Gu Tingwei badly. Moreover, Gu Tingwei's wife Zhu Shi is the beloved daughter of Chengping Bo, and Chengping Bofu will also protect Gu Tingwei's family.
The son is timid and afraid of things, the stepson is filial piety, if Xiao Qin is willing to open up and really treat Gu Tingye, her life with her children will really not be too bad, but why does Xiao Qin have to get a knighthood?
Xiao Qin's family was uneasy and kind from the beginning, to be precise, from the day she married Gu Yankai, Xiao Qin had set her sights on the title of Marquis of Ningyuan, hoping that her son would attack the knighthood, only because only by getting the title as compensation, she felt that it was worth it to fill in the house.
In ancient times, whenever it was possible, no high-ranking noblewoman was willing to fill in the house for others, not to mention that When Xiao Qin did the filling, Gu Yankai already had two concubines. However, Xiao Qin did not have a choice.
01. On a stall with a sister who only wants to be happy and does not care about the future of her sisters, Xiao Qin is very unlucky;
You know, Xiao Qin's good villain is also the young daughter of the Marquis of Dongchang, why did she fall into the fate of filling in the house for her brother-in-law? In fact, this was inseparable from her sister Great Qin.
DaQin was the eldest daughter of the Marquis of Dongchang, Mei Ruo Qiuhe, Jing Ji Shengyan, good poetry, Gong Qu Fu, Qinqi calligraphy and painting, all of which were incomprehensible, but she was seriously ill, frail and sick, and was not suitable for being a clan wife.
Until the age of eighteen of the Great Qin Clan, Gu Yankai, the eldest son of the Marquis of Ningyuan, fell in love with him at first sight, but she did not marry, and had a long quarrel with her parents, and the old Marquis and his wife had no choice but to agree to this marriage.
Who thought, The Great Qin Clan is indeed not suitable for being a wife, a woman who has ruined three generations. As soon as she could not reproduce her heirs, she tried her best to give birth to her eldest son, Gu Tingyu, but she caused her son to be weak and sickly, his life was not long, his second kindness was jealous, he could not tolerate her husband to be close to the concubine room, and he was not filial to him, and he was spoiled and spoiled by Gu Yankai, and refused to serve his in-laws.
Although in the eyes of Gu Yankai, who was blinded by love, there was no problem for his wife to do this, but in the eyes of the poet, Daqin was not a good daughter-in-law.
What's more, in that era, a girl in a family paid attention to the glory and loss, and a girl's reputation was not good, people would question her tutoring, thinking that her other sisters were not suitable for wives.
Although the eldest sister is very favored by her husband, but also ruined the reputation of the Qin women, outsiders always say that the Qin family girls are used to spoiling and spoiling, and it is not easy to have children, it is because she failed to say that she was engaged before the age of fourteen.
The Great Qin Clan only cared about their own happiness, and did not care at all about the trouble they would bring to their mother's family by doing so, and harmed their younger sister Xiao Qin.
Xiao Qin's family was implicated by her sister and had a bad reputation, and the right family refused to marry her. After the death of his parents, the Marquis of Dongchang had already fallen into the middle of the family road, not like the scenery of the past, and could not give Xiao Qin a decent dowry. Therefore, Xiao Qin's brother and sister-in-law forced Xiao Qin to fill in the house for Gu Yankai, and also took the marquis position to tempt Xiao Qin.
"Sister-in-law, it's not that your sister-in-law is mean, asking you to fill in the house, it's really that you're old, and it's not easy to find a good family." How your eldest brother-in-law treats your sister, our whole family knows. You married past him can treat you badly? Not to mention the daughter of the lowly salt merchant, who will be hughed sooner or later! Besides, can the person your big sister left behind make her comfortable? The sister-in-law is also for your own good, although this marriage does not look beautiful in front of you, but the benefits are in the future. Brother Yu's body, alas, is not a longevity, as long as you give birth to a brother, it will not be your son who will attack the lord in the future! That little bunny cub born to Bai,You can't clean it up? ”
In desperation, Xiao Qin could only wronged himself and filled in the house for his brother-in-law, and from that moment on, Xiao Qin made up his mind that he must let his son inherit the title and compensate himself.
02. Xiao Qin has long been trapped in obsession, unable to extricate herself, her children are just a pawn in her ambitions.
"You still have a face to face!" How many times have I said that I would like to say, please don't worry about that title, we live in peace, it may not be bad! You just won't give up! Xiang Gong has some courage, don't you know, don't you want to throw him to grab, to fight, to kill people and set fires! Life gave his life! It's all you, it's all you who killed him! ”
No matter how much her daughter-in-law Zhu Shi persuaded her, Gu Tingye gave her how many opportunities, Xiao Qin could not let go of her obsession. The son is generally capable, timid and afraid of things, it is difficult to bear the heavy responsibility of inheriting the title, she does not care; Gu Tingye released goodwill, helped his son to find an errand, and wanted to maintain the brotherly love, she did not care; Gu Tingye Sheng Minglan and his wife were single-minded, like an iron barrel, it was not easy to deal with, and she did not care. She only knew how to deal with Gu Tingye's Sheng Minglan family, and only knew how to force her son to do things that hurt her relatives.
In fact, Xiao Qin used his children as tools to realize his ambitions. Her son Gu Tingwei was her tool for seizing the marquisate, and her daughter Gu Tingcan was her tool for her to hold on to her favor.
Her marriage was affected by her sister Daqin's, and she should have known that her sister's style of Daqin's was not accepted by the world, but in order to win the attention of her husband Gu Yankai, she asked for benefits, deliberately let her daughter imitate the words and deeds of The Great Qin clan, and stubbornly raised her daughter into the second number of the Great Qin clan, and finally, after Gu Tingcan, the second number of the Great Qin clan, married someone, she was not tolerated by the in-laws, and the end was desolate.
The son was convicted and rebelled, died under the arrows, the grandchildren all died because she lured the wolf into the house, the daughter offended the in-laws under her wrong education, the end was desolate, she lost all her relatives, and she was desolate.
03. Children are not a tool for you to realize your selfishness, please do not interfere too much in the lives of your children.
In real life, there are not a few mothers like Xiao Qin.
For example, when some parents failed to be admitted to famous schools when they were young, they adopted tiger father and tiger mother education, forcing their children to study hard, and taking the entrance examinations that they had always wanted to go to the famous schools that they had not been able to go to, regardless of whether their children had this talent. In the end, it hurts the child and destroys the parent-child relationship.
Mark Levy wrote in The Man Who Stole the Shadow: "You can't interfere in someone else's life, even if it's for the good of the other person, this is his life." ”
Children are not tools for you to realize your selfishness, please do not interfere too much in the lives of your children, children need your respect. Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans, but if your plan is not approved by your children and the person responsible for implementing it is unwilling to implement it, no matter how well you plan, it will not help.
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