01
The play "Know It or Not", I brushed it five or six times. To say that the most men in the play do is to spoil the concubine and destroy the wife.
Although the rules are messed up, it is still sentient. But this person, it can be said that the slag is very thorough.
He married his wife three times in his life, and the first wife was unable to protect herself and was angry to death. When he married his second wife, he was reluctant, but he had to marry.
Since you have decided to marry, you can't get over the obstacles in your heart. Be nice to others and feel sorry for your first wife. His second wife also died in such an awkward way.
Within a year, he took on a third wife. His third wife married no one else, but the sister of her first wife.
He had remorse for his first wife and guilt for his second wife. Such a person, even if he marries him, cannot be happy.
This person is Gu Yankai, Gu Tingye's father.
02
The Gu family borrowed silver from the imperial court, but because the family was in deficit, it was not enough. At this time, Gu Yankai had already married his first wife and had children.
It coincided with the fact that the owner of the Bai family in Yangzhou wanted to find a husband for his only daughter. The Bai family was a family of merchants, and the family had to say that there was countless money, but at that time, the peasants, industrialists, and merchants were at the bottom, and there was no status in society.
The parents of the Gu family heard the news and went to the door to ask for relatives. At first, I was talking about the fourth and fifth elders of their family. The owner of the White Family asked someone about the character of the two children.
Only to find that these two children are not worthy of lifelong good people, the fourth to find flowers to ask willow, the fifth gambling. Such a person, even if the owner of the white family does not marry the child, will not agree to marry such a family.
After making it clear to the Gu family, I thought it had just passed. Not long after, the Gu family actually came to the door again.
This time, it was about saying goodbye to the boss of their family, Gu Yankai. It is said that Gu Yankai's wife has died of illness and needs to marry a continuation string, so that the bai family girl can make a continuation string for Gu Yankai.
Where there is such a coincidence under the heavens, this side said that a few children who can marry relatives can't do it, and the one with good character over there will die his wife.
It turned out that this wife did not die of illness, but accidentally learned that her husband's family was ready to leave her, go to the white family girl, and use the dowry of the white family girl to save herself.
Knowing such a thing, he fell ill in a fit of anger and died not long after.
As a husband, Gu Yankai could only abandon his wife for the sake of family interests. If he had no choice but to do this, the second thing was that he had forced his wife to die.
03
The girl of the Bai family successfully married Gu Yankai, and the crisis of the Gu family was also lifted. At this time, treating the bai family girl well is something that Gu Yankai must do.
But Gu Yankai did not do this, he chose to face his deceased wife with a grudge, and on the other hand, he indulged in the family of his deceased wife.
This made the life of the white girl very painful. It was also at this time that the Bai family girl inadvertently learned the cause of death of Gu Yankai's first wife.
I don't know whether it was intentional or coincidental, Gu Yankai's first wife, Qin's mother's family, was just overheard by Bai when she told Qin's child Gu Tingyu that Gu Tingyu's mother was killed by Bai.
At that time, Bai's pregnancy was about to give birth. Hearing such words, I understood why her husband Gu Yankai was cold to himself.
It turned out that Bai always thought that it was the Qin clan who was virtuous, and he was inferior to others. He also did everything to do a good job, but what he didn't expect, it turned out that the Whole Gu Family thought that he had killed qin.
So he went to gu Yankai and prepared to ask for an understanding. Gu Yan did not say clearly. Bai then said that he would make peace and leave.
The tires were moved between the pulls, and the dystocia died.
When Gu Yankai's first wife died, he had no choice but to marry Bai. Then you should be kind to Bai.
He harbored guilt for his first wife, Qin, and could not open his heart to Bai. Let Bai bear these false charges inexplicably.
In the end, Bai Shi also died at the hands of Gu Yankai.
04
Feeling guilty about his first wife, Qin, and guilty about his second wife, Bai, such a person, no matter who marries him, will not be happy.
Less than a year after Bai's death, Gu Yankai went on to marry Xiao Qin, the sister of his first wife, Qin.
In the face of such a husband, Xiao Qin could not achieve happiness at all. Most importantly, both wives left children for Gu Yankai.
When you see your children, you can think of yourself being ashamed of them. How could it be good for Xiao Qin.
The Xiao Qin clan lived in such a twisted family, slowly becoming dark and becoming a day of calculation.
Only by calculating to live a life can we survive. Finally, he set himself on fire in the Gu Family Ancestral Hall.
Before Xiao Qin died, he said: "I have sung all my life, and I live like a maggot in the gutter, and I have not lived like myself for a day." ”
05
Whether it was the Great Qin Clan, the Bai Clan, or the Little Qin Clan, after all, they were all opened by Gu Yan and pitted.
But at the same time, it also gives us a wake-up call, women, after all, still have to live for themselves, when they can have the right to choose, they must choose what they can control.
When you don't have the right to choose, you have to live for yourself. Instead of dragging yourself into the family.
Yu Ruo said
This is the first article of the public account in 2022, idle, just brush the drama at the same time, write your views on the play!