The ex is a thorn in the heart, and I can't swallow it or pull it out.
Remembering the ex in my heart, I am obsessed, but I can eat in the bowl and look at the pot, that is, the scumbag who steps on two boats, the proper scumbag!
Those who have had an ex are not terrible, the terrible thing is that people who can't forget the ex, neither men nor women should get close, otherwise it is you who will be hurt.
In the novel, there are three men who are typically unable to forget their ex, and the result is that he is miserable, and his current is even more painful. In ancient times, women had no choice, they could only listen to the fate of their parents, men could remember their predecessors in their hearts, and women could only follow suit!
Gu Yankai -- she made you regret it, and she wantonly hurt me
Ningyuan Marquis Gu Yankai is a proper seed of infatuation, as a son of Gu's parents, the child is more than ten years younger than his brother, why? It was because he was obsessed with the eldest daughter of the Qin family, and she did not marry, which delayed the affair.
Such a weak woman should not marry the eldest son and grandson, nor should she be a daughter-in-law; if she is a responsible and intelligent woman, she will never blindly become a burden to her husband.
Although the eldest daughter of the Qin family was born tall and good-looking, her body was not good, not only was she weak, but she was likely not even able to give birth to children. At that time, Gu Yankai was going to inherit the title of the Gu family, and he was the eldest son, and his parents naturally did not want to marry such a daughter-in-law. But Gu Yankai was stubborn, a person ran to the frontier town to guard, the marriage was delayed again and again, in the end, the two elders of the Gu family could not help their son, which agreed to the Qin family girl to enter the door.
Later, the Gu family encountered a crisis and needed a lot of silver money to solve the problem, and the Gu family decided to marry Bai into the door. Although the Bai family came from a humble background, they only had one daughter, did not want to be a concubine, and looked down on the waste of the old four and the fifth, so Gu Yan made a mistake.
On one side is the foundation of the Gu family, on the other side is the beloved wife, under the pressure of various pressures, the Qin family gave birth to a not very healthy child and died, Gu Yankai quickly married the Bai family girl.
After Bai entered the door, Gu Yankai and she did their duty as husband and wife, and Bai also gave birth to a son smoothly, but Gu Yankai did not look at Bai in his heart, Bai could not feel Gu Yankai's love, and died within a few years, and then Gu Yankai married Qin's sister Xiao Qin. In those years, they were on the frontier, and Gu Yankai deliberately made people think that the three sons of the Gu family were all born to Xiao Qin, so almost no one knew about Lady Bai.
Although Xiao Qin had accompanied Gu Yankai for the longest time, she knew in her heart that Gu Yankai only loved the Great Qin Clan, and she and Bai Were both substitutes. Without her husband's love, Xiao Qin put all his thoughts on the matter of seizing the knighthood, always regarded Gu Tingye as a mortal enemy, and harmed the Gu family very badly, I don't know if Gu Yankai has regrets?
Gu Tingye said that when he was a child, he had seen his father hiding in his study more than once, crying bitterly at the portrait of The Great Qin Family.
Gu Yankai could not let go of the Great Qin Clan all the time, but he did not take the Great Qin Clan in his heart, but showed it. He was extremely cold to the next two ladies, and even raised Gu Tingcan, the daughter of Xiao Qin, into the appearance of The Great Qin, only because Gu Tingcan was somewhat similar to the Great Qin clan, and this daughter was also the most beloved one of several children, Gu Yankai.
Gu Tingcan was his last child and the most beloved. In fact, in addition to appearance, other habits and even mentality, she is not very much like the Great Qin Clan, but under the intentional or unintentional expectations of her parents, she unconsciously imitates a person who has died.
Gu Yankai felt ashamed of the Great Qin Clan, and it was his lifelong regret that he could not stay with her for the rest of his life, but no matter what, he should not let others make up for this regret. The Great Qin Clan has died, and excessive harm to others can only increase the great Qin Clan's evil debts, right?
Shen Congxing - ten years of life and death are two vague, not thinking, unforgettable
Since the ancient road, the most ruthless imperial family, but Shen Congxing, the uncle of the country, is very obsessive!
In the novel, the old emperor is dying, the two princes compete for the throne, and in the end, the eighth prince yu Weng is profitable, and Shen Congxing is the brother-in-law of the eighth prince.
Because the Eighth Prince has always been unfavored, the wife he married is not from a high birth, so it is inferred that the wife that Shen Congxing married will be worse. Although this Zou Lady was from a low birth, she was reasonable and had a deep affection for Shen Congxing, and was also an enviable pair at that time.
At that time, the eighth princess entered the capital, the female relatives all stayed in Shudi, the eighth princess's princess, that is, Shen Congxing's sister, was ill, and Zou's wife was pregnant, and even entered the palace to serve the eldest sister for the sake of the overall situation, as a result, the princess was saved and became the empress, while the Zou family was injured and sick.
Gu Tingye sighed, "Lady Zou is a virtuous woman, who treats people with sincerity and sincerity, and is willing to take out all the nests of her heart." When she passed away, Brother Shen almost didn't survive. ”
After the Eighth Prince ascended the throne, Shen Congxing became the first foreign relative in the dynasty and was named the Marquis of Weibei, what a glory! The emperor's foundation was unstable, and in order to win over the old ministers in the court, he let the old ministers marry these new generals, and Shen Congxing was naturally the first to be considered.
Shen Congxing later married Zhang Guifen, a British concubine, but could not let go of the original wife's mother's family, so he took Zou's sister as a concubine. Xiao Zou's position in Shen Congxing's heart began to act recklessly, not only not taking Zhang's eyes in his eyes, but also targeting everywhere, and all this Shen Congxing could not see, and finally almost destroyed the Shen family.
As we all know, The Marquis of Weibei and his wife have been discordant for many years, and it is not a rare thing in the capital, and it is rumored that Uncle Shen Guo could not see the Zhang clan twice a month, but instead favored the concubine Zou Clan.
In fact, Shen Congxing could not forget that the Zou clan was reasonable, and he could marry Xiao Zou directly, so that the wealth of the Zou family could also be preserved, and it was also worthy of the Zou clan, and the task of marriage could be completely handed over to others, and it was not necessary for him. But Shen Congxing could not let go of the Zou clan, and could not let go of the magnates, married Zhang Guifen, and took in Xiao Zou, so that two women, two families, and two forces became a state of hostility, the original expectations were not met, Zhang Guifen and Xiao Zou were also deeply hurt, and the root cause of all this was that Shen Congxing could not forget his original wife.
Shen Congxing is too greedy, wants too much, wants to keep his feelings, and wants to get rich, in the end, he can only be sorry for everyone!
He Hongwen - the so-called fate, that is, when I want to find you, you are just waiting for me
He Hongwen came from a family of medicine and had a strong family. He was skilled in medical skills, but his father died early, and his mother was bedridden for many years, and it seemed that the conditions were not good, but he was indeed the future husband of Mrs. Sheng for Minglan. Because He Hongwen has the help of grandparents, can support himself, and has rich family property, each condition alone is not outstanding, but it is very good in combination.
Mrs. Sheng and Mrs. He were handkerchiefs, and the marriage between Minglan and He Hongwen was basically discussed, but it was not said on the surface that both sides were relatively satisfied, but unfortunately, when the two were about to be betrothed, He Hongwen's cousin Cao Jinxiu appeared.
Aunt Cao once said that when our family left Beijing, Hongge Er was chasing after jin'er! Such a sentiment, we Jin'er naturally..."
Cao Jinxiu and He Hongwen are green plum bamboo horses, the two have a love affair, but the Cao family did not look up to the He family at the beginning, and the two did not negotiate. Later, the Cao family was assigned, and Cao Jinxiu followed his parents to exile, and at that time, He Hongwen was also very reluctant and chased Cao Jinxiu behind the carriage.
In the exile land, Cao Jinxiu suffered a lot of sins, and it was really impossible to be a concubine with others, and a few months later, the Cao family was pardoned, and Cao Jinxiu returned to the capital to find He Hongwen.
He Hongwen was soft in nature, and seeing Chu Chu's poor cousin Cao was unbearable, and wanted to accept her as a concubine according to the cao family's wishes, but Minglan did not agree, because Cao Jinxiu's identity was special, and once she became a concubine in the future, Minglan would be very embarrassed. Moreover, Cao Jinxiu is He Hongwen's first love, which is a bottom line problem, and Minglan does not agree.
Minglan's meaning was very clear, but He Hongwen always pitied Cao Jinxiu, especially after learning that she could not have children, he had been hesitant, and Minglan almost compromised, at this time Gu Tingye appeared, and Minglan and He Hongwen ended like this.
He Hongwen can't forget his first love Cao Jinxiu, and Minglan can't accept it, fortunately, Gu Tingye appeared in time to change Minglan's fate, otherwise, Minglan wouldn't have a good life when he married into the He family!
Three men, can not forget the ex, but unfortunately only Minglan got the right to choose, others are not so lucky.
The love that every woman wants is "willing to have a heart, and the white head is not separated", but the world makes people, and not everyone can achieve it. The past is precious, but it has finally become the past, and the only thing we can do is to look forward, so as not to live up to the past!