Sheng Minglan would marry Gu Tingye, and her grandmother, Mrs. Sheng, did not expect anything.
As a person who has come over, she has suffered the pain of marriage, and the old lady Sheng minglan who loves Sheng Minglan will naturally pay special attention to the important matter of Sheng Minglan's choice of mate, and the selection of future granddaughters-in-law can be described as carefully selected, not only to look at each other's character and ability, but also to see each other's family lineage and door style.
The grandmother did not expect Sheng Minglan to marry high, only hoped that she could live a peaceful and smooth life and live a comfortable life, but she did not expect that Sheng Minglan was actually the highest married one.
For Gu Tingye, Mrs. Sheng did not look up to him at first.
“...... Their own girlfriends, others can't worry about it... Never seen the world... Such a wandering child, but a few days, all as a treasure... I can't look at it..."
When saying this, everyone thought that Gu Tingye was going to marry Sheng Rulan. Both Sheng Xuan and Wang Ruofu approved of this marriage, after all, Gu Tingye was the concubine of the Marquis of Ningyuan, the eldest brother Gu Tingyu was not in good health, there was no son, Gu Tingye was likely to inherit the title of Marquis of Ningyuan, plus he was one of the emperor's most trusted ministers, and the future was unlimited.
And Mrs. Sheng believes that Gu Tingye is a debauchery, he has an outer chamber and children when he has not yet married his wife, his character is not good, marry such a man, women will definitely suffer and look down on him.
Therefore, when Sheng Rulan and Wen Yanjing's private affair was exposed, and in order to give Gu Tingye an explanation, Sheng Xuan and Wang Ruofu had no choice but to take Sheng Minglan's top bag, Mrs. Sheng was very angry and resolutely refused.
The old lady was furious and scolded loudly, "Don't you think! Thanks to the fact that you are also a father, this idea can also be thought of! ”
A crisp sound of 'pop', presumably a tea bowl was struck, the old lady's voice trembled with anger: "You think beautifully, you two will not teach your daughters, the left one and the right one are bad customs, and finally others have to clean up, the previous time I opened up this old face, this time you actually calculated that the Ming Lady came!" I tell you, dreaming! ”
In the past few days, Minglan has never had the opportunity to express her opinion, and she just wanted to open her mouth, but she was interrupted by the old lady: "Ming Ya'er, don't be afraid!" Your ancestors are not dead yet, they don't want to manipulate you! "A murderous look is scary.
Sheng Shao and Wang Ruofu knelt down for a while and wept for a while, family affection, reason, family reputation, mouth hanging in the river, gushing endlessly, and did not make Mrs. Sheng compromise and agree to the marriage.
However, under the active mediation of Sheng Hualan, Sheng Minglan learned the truth about Gu Tingye's deliberate intention to marry himself and told Mrs. Sheng. Mrs. Sheng was very angry when she learned that her granddaughter had been calculated, but she was unusual and agreed to Sheng Minglan's marriage.
The reason why Mrs. Sheng agreed to marry Sheng Minglan to Gu Tingye was just one, and she also reminded the woman, that is, someone beat you with all their heart, which is better than getting cheap and selling well.
01. The He family took advantage of the bargain and sold well, if Sheng Minglan married, life may not be better;
The family of Mrs. Sheng who "got cheap and sold well" was the He family.
Originally, Mrs. Sheng belonged to He Hongwen to be Sheng Minglan's husband, only because she and He Hongwen's grandmother were handkerchief friends, knew the roots, knew the bottom, knew He Hongwen's character, He Hongwen's medical skills were outstanding, his ability was outstanding, his family style was simple, and his mother was weak and sick, not like an evil mother-in-law who would find trouble for his daughter-in-law, he was a good candidate.
However, the appearance of Cao Jinxiu made Mrs. Sheng's impression of He Hongwen's family plummet.
First of all, He Hongwen is indecisive and a good old man, who wants to marry Sheng Minglan, but also has a place in Cao Jinxiu's heart, and cannot handle the relationship between Cao Jinxiu and Sheng Minglan.
Secondly, He Hongwen's mother is a brother-in-law, partial to his own mother's family, biased towards his sister and niece, once Cao Jinxiu entered, with the support of He Hongwen's mother, Sheng Minglan was suppressed by her mother-in-law, and it was difficult to live comfortably.
In the end, the He family's sincerity in marrying Sheng Minglan was insufficient, otherwise, they would have dealt with Cao Jinxiu's affairs at the beginning. 、
"What's there to say?!" The old lady glared at her and scolded, "I'm going to talk about this, you don't have to come forward!" The people of the He family, except for my old sister, the rest of you had better see each other again! ...... hum! Now it is good to tell them to let go of their hands and feet to help their relatives, and no one will stop them from being good people at this time! It is difficult for you not to be his He family, and now everyone knows that the girls of the Sheng family are not worried about getting married, and some people are worried! ”
If it weren't for the love face, Mrs. Sheng would have turned her face to the He family long ago.
Indeed, the He family got cheap and sold well, obviously Cao Jinxiu's matter was their problem, they should solve it, but they pushed the matter on Sheng Minglan, especially He Mu, who actually called Sheng Minglan over and tried to force Sheng Minglan to accept Cao Jinxiu.
If Sheng Minglan really married He Hongwen, Cao Jinxiu and the Cao family would be enough to give her a headache.
02. From Gu Tingye's thoughts before marriage, it can be seen that he attaches great importance to Sheng Minglan;
Speaking of Gu Tingye, he was indeed painstakingly fighting Sheng Minglan's idea.
First of all, the reason why Cao Jinxiu appeared in front of Sheng Minglan and He Hongwen so quickly and ruined their marriage was because of Gu Tingye's help.
Secondly, Gu Tingye knew that Sheng Minglan was only a concubine, and there was a sister in front of her who had not married out. If he directly asked sheng minglan to marry, sheng xuan was fine, and Wang Ruofu was bound to feel unhappy. In order to keep Sheng Minglan from getting into trouble and marrying himself smoothly, he calculated so much, and in the end, in order to save the face of the Sheng family, Sheng Xuan and Wang Ruofu must let Sheng Minglan marry Gu Tingye.
In the end, he personally went out on horseback and made a promise to Sheng Minglan, which would inevitably protect Sheng Minglan's life of peace and joy.
"I dare not say that I want you to live a fairy-like life, but with me in one day, I will never let you be wronged!" I am the oldest in the pile of men, you can be the oldest in the pile of women! ”
Also, from the bride price, it can also be seen that Gu Tingye attaches great importance to Sheng Minglan. On the same day, the bride price was given, and what Gu Tingye gave was in stark contrast to what the Wen family gave.
03. People who don't pay much attention to you before marriage, take advantage of you and sell well, don't marry.
Uncle Moe said, "Some mothers must receive dowry money before they get married." Not because of greed for money and stubbornness, but because she wants her in-laws to value your arrival. Most people will cherish what they have given, and they will squander what they have gained empty-handed. It's not a routine, it's human nature. ”
For example, your parents spent money to buy you a computer, even if it takes thousands, you may not realize that you don't cherish your computer much, it won't take long, maybe it will be scrapped, but if this laptop is what you have saved for a year to buy back, when you use it, when you think of the hard work of saving money, your heart is like blood, naturally hope that this computer can play the greatest value, only worthy of your own efforts.
People who don't pay much attention to you before marriage, take advantage of you and sell well, don't marry. Taking advantage of you before marriage and selling well shows that they don't value you as a future daughter-in-law at all, and they don't respect you and your family. For them, being able to marry you, taking advantage, not marrying you, and not much to lose. Human nature is like this, and what has been spent a lot of money and effort to get it must play its maximum value so that it will not feel that it is at a loss.
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Today's topic: If Sheng Minglan marries He Hongwen, do you think Minglan can live happily? Feel free to share your views in the comments section.