I recently watched the TV series "Know It or Not" again, and the views refracted in the plot are intriguing, and the more I watch it, the more I feel good.
The life perspective of this drama can also be learned and learned by modern people. Everyone in this drama has characteristics, and we can learn a lot of experience in doing things from different people.
For example, how important it is for a good woman to run a family, and a good woman is the feng shui of this home.
A woman who can't run a family can ruin a home and even affect future generations.
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He Hongwen's mother is a typical example of not being able to maintain a family.
Parents who love their children have far-reaching plans.
In order to satisfy her own selfish desires, Mother He did not care about the happiness of her son's marriage and did not consider her son's future.
She is indistinguishable, has no foresight, and is too small.
Mother He's husband died early, and her body was sick, often lingering on the sickbed. The education problems of his son He Hongwen and the affairs of the family were all handled by Mrs. He.
Mother He could not plan the future for her son, but dragged him back.
Sheng Minglan came to the He family as a guest, and Mother He actually said in front of her that she should let Cao Jinxiu be a concubine.
As a mother, the son's marriage is not a child's play, it is related to the son's happy life in the future.
If such a good woman as Sheng Minglan could marry into the He family, it would be of great help to He Hongwen's future.
Sheng Minglan's father and brother were both officials, and the family's economic conditions were good, and He Hongwen could be supported in the future, whether he opened a medical center or did other things.
As a mother-in-law, if you can find a daughter-in-law like Sheng Minglan, it is too late to coax her to be happy.
He Mu actually let her son accept other women in front of Sheng Minglan, the scene was extremely embarrassing, and her approach was really stupid to the extreme.
Fortunately, Sheng Minglan did not marry and had nothing to do with her. If she marries over, she also has a lot of opinions about Mother He, and suddenly the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is frozen.
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Mother He is a "sister demon", and no matter how much family property she has, she will be ruined.
As the saying goes, saving the emergency does not save the poor, and Mother He is eager to give the He family's family foundation to her sister.
If It is He Mu's sister who is temporarily trapped, it is not impossible for relatives to help each other, but He Mu's sister's family is delicious and lazy, and does not do the right thing.
Mother He's money is like a meat bun beating a dog, and there is no return.
Mother He's sister's family spent all day thinking about how to make money, thinking about ways to fight the autumn wind.
As long as Mother He's sister cried in front of her, she immediately gave them the money with a soft heart, and there was no principle at all.
Mother He's sister's family is like a bottomless pit to fill in, and no amount of family property in the He family is enough to fill.
Once the He family was entangled with them, He Hongwen's life would be over.
In the original work of "Knowing or Not", if it were not for Mrs. He to take back He Hongwen's property and threaten her to report to yamen if she gave them more silver, the He family's money would have been patched up by her.
In modern times, if there is such a woman in the family, you can't make any money. She also always gave the family money to relatives, and there was no return, which man could tolerate.
The most important thing between husband and wife is to run their own small family well, if they don't even care about their own small family, how can such a day last?
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