In the original work of "Knowing or Not", Gu Tingye had the idea of marrying Sheng Minglan as a wife, which was done when he saw Sheng Minglan throw mud at Sheng Molan.
"Don't you want to know when I started beating you?" Gu Tingye had a little smile in his eyes and repeated: "I tell you, it started when you threw mud at your sister." ”
That is to say, from the beginning to the end, Gu Tingye's goal of proposing to the Sheng family was very clear, and he was going to Sheng Minglan. In order to successfully let the Sheng family marry Sheng Minglan to himself, Gu Tingye can be described as a toss.
First of all, he revealed his tone to the Sheng family through his subordinate, Yuan Wenshao, Sheng Hualan's husband (in the original work, the person who was close friends with Sheng Changbai was Qi Heng, not Gu Tingye). As a result, Wang Ruofu, who wanted to marry his daughter high and overpower Sheng Molan, did not hesitate to choose his daughter Sheng Rulan, intending to make Gu Tingye his son-in-law.
Then, Gu Tingye began to deal with his rival He Hongwen, and got the Cao Jinxiu family back to the capital, and the Cao Jinxiu family entangled He Hongwen, which also allowed Sheng Minglan to see He Hongwen's indecisive weakness and the He family's psychology of taking advantage of it and selling well, resulting in fluctuations in the marriage between Sheng Minglan and He Hongwen.
Moreover, Gu Tingye revealed his tone in front of the emperor, telling the emperor that he was going to marry the daughter of the Sheng family, which was approved by the emperor, which not only dispelled Xiao Qin's idea of interfering in his marriage, but also made Sheng Xuan firm in his determination to marry.
In the end, Gu Tingye's men broke the matter between Sheng Rulan and Wen Yanjing, causing the Sheng family to be in the ascendant, in order to give Gu Tingye an explanation, in order to save the face of the Sheng family, they had to let Sheng Minglan marry.
Gu Tingye wanted to marry Sheng Minglan, why didn't he directly mention his relatives, but to calculate this step? In fact, he did this because it was too difficult to directly propose relatives.
"It's not easy to get married, but it's not too difficult to push away a family affair." Qi Da is not even, there is a difference in generations... Any excuse can be made, not to mention that I have misbehaved, your old lady has a bad temper, and she refuses to do so, and your father has no children. ”
In addition to worrying about Mrs. Sheng's refusal, Gu Tingye was also thinking about Sheng Minglan. In the case that the concubine Sheng Rulan was not married, if Gu Tingye directly asked to marry Sheng Minglan, with the disposition of the Wang family's small belly and chicken intestines, he would definitely see that Sheng Minglan was not pleasing to the eye and embarrassed Sheng Minglan.
I have to say that Gu Tingye was quite self-aware, and indeed, Mrs. Sheng had a very bad impression of him, and at the beginning she resolutely disagreed with the allocation of Sheng Minglan to him.
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After Sheng Rulan had an accident, when she learned that Sheng Shao and Wang Shi had started Sheng Minglan's idea, Mrs. Sheng felt very angry and got into a fight with Sheng Shao and Wang Shi, and refused to agree to this marriage.
Minglan looked at the uncertain Hai Clan and then put her ears up to listen outside, only to hear what Sheng Xuan seemed to whisper, then Wang's sobbing, and then the old lady was furious and scolded loudly: "You don't think! Thanks to the fact that you are also a father, this idea can also be thought of! ”
The old lady gasped roughly and continued, "This good lady of yours, on weekdays, what a good incense has never been able to think of Ming Yatou, and with the nobleman of the high gate to inquire, if she doesn't ask anything clearly, she doesn't want to think about it!" Now that something has happened, I think of Ming Yatou coming! A black-hearted couple who use selfishness and only care about their own daughters, a lustful heart, only thinking about fame and fortune, a good pair of wolves, tigers and leopards, you can't succeed when I die! ”
In the past few days, Minglan has never had the opportunity to express her opinion, and she just wanted to open her mouth, but she was interrupted by the old lady: "Ming Ya'er, don't be afraid!" Your ancestors are not dead yet, they don't want to manipulate you! "A murderous look is scary.
Whether it was Sheng Shao and Wang Clan talking about the big truth or playing the emotional card, Old Lady Sheng couldn't let up and planned to fight with Sheng Shao Wang Clan for a long time, just because in her eyes, Gu Tingye was not a good match, and she would never be able to send Sheng Minglan into the nest of tigers and wolves.
Indeed, from childhood to adulthood, disobedience to his father, there were children in the outer room, lingering in the fireworks place, Gu Tingye was infamous at that time, many people did not know Gu Tingye's true character, Mrs. Sheng's character was high, and she regarded Sheng Minglan as a treasure, how could she marry her granddaughter to such a man and ruin her granddaughter's life?
Gu Tingye was not discouraged, saw Sheng Minglan with the help of Sheng Hualan, shook out all his calculations for the Sheng family, and spoke bluntly, puncturing Sheng Minglan's long-standing true purpose of pretending to be stupid and pleasing his relatives, and making a promise to Sheng Minglan.
"I dare not say that I want you to live a fairy-like life, but with me in one day, I will never let you be wronged!" I am the oldest in the pile of men, you can be the oldest in the pile of women! ”
I had to restrain my sharp edge and pretend to be stupid for many years to protect myself, and now there is a man who has made a promise to protect himself for a lifetime, Sheng Minglan is moved, it is normal. Besides, Sheng Minglan couldn't bear to let the old lady Sheng, who had always loved herself, continue to be embarrassed, marrying He Hongwen, maybe no better than marrying Gu Tingye, and finally agreed to Gu Tingye's marriage proposal.
After Sheng Minglan returned, he told Mrs. Sheng all about Gu Tingye's calculations. Then, after learning of Gu Tingye's calculations, why did Mrs. Sheng agree to marry Sheng Minglan to him?
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The reason why Mrs. Sheng agreed to this marriage is because of this, which is summarized in one sentence in the original work.
"It's okay! Someone beats you up with all their heart, it's better than getting cheap and selling well! ”
The so-called cheap and selling well refers to the He Hongwen family.
MingMing Cao Jinxiu thing is the He family's loss, the daughter-in-law has a cousin concubine before passing the door, but they not only did not want to give the Sheng family a satisfactory explanation, but wanted the Sheng family to compromise, let Sheng Minglan recognize, so married in the past, He Hongwen's mother is even more excessive, in order to help her own mother-in-law, regardless of her son's happiness, called Sheng Minglan over, hoping that Sheng Minglan accepted Cao Jinxiu.
How did this make Sheng Minglan answer? Promise, by what? Why did Sheng Minglan give up her husband for the sake of Mother He and the Cao family's calculations? Don't agree, that's the future mother-in-law, once the reputation of jealousy is buckled, how can she be good?
In fact, He Mu's behavior was a naked moral kidnapping and a great disrespect for Sheng Minglan. From the beginning, they did not cherish Sheng Minglan, but they just felt that Sheng Minglan had outstanding character and had the mother's family as an official to rely on, which was a good candidate and could be considered. Even if they couldn't marry Sheng Minglan, they didn't care.
For the He family, Sheng Minglan is married to the existence of good, and it is not a loss to marry, but for Mrs. Sheng, Sheng Minglan is the pearl in her own hand, her own heart and liver treasure, and she cannot tolerate the contempt of others.
Gu Tingye can go to great lengths to marry her, calculating so much, enough to see the status of Sheng Minglan in Gu Tingye's heart, and can see Gu Tingye's importance to Sheng Minglan. In order to marry her, he paid such a big price, naturally he would cherish the hard-won marriage, and protect Sheng Minglan so as not to waste the cost he paid.
Human nature is like this, the more easy to get the things, the less valuable, the more can not attract attention, the effort to get the things must be used well, so that it is worth the money, so that they do not feel loss.
Therefore, when women choose a mate, they must have self-respect and self-love, let men respect you, and feel that you are not anyone who can replace you. Only if you get their respect and attention in advance, you will have more status in your in-laws' family after marriage.
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Xiao Qi, please comment: Why do you think Old Lady Sheng promised to ration Sheng Minglan to Gu Tingye? Feel free to share your views in the comments section.