The most admirable thing about "Knowing or Not" is that it is only the Sheng family of the general scholar Xiang Mendi, except for Rulan, the other three daughters are married high.
Compared with the concubine marrying a fallen noble Hualan and the protagonist aura to marry Gaomen, in fact, Mo Lan, who is a concubine, is the real high marriage.
Hua Lan as a concubine, although the Sheng family door is not obvious, but there is a grandfather family worthy of the Taimiao Temple, so with the declining Yuan family can also be regarded as a door to the door, only the Yuan family's unclear mother-in-law feels that Hua Lan is high. Although Minglan is ostensibly a concubine, she was raised by the old lady from childhood, and later passed under the name of Wang Da's wife, and she is already a concubine, not to mention beautiful. Whether it is from the cultivation or identity, it is much higher than Mo Lan, but the old lady Sheng has no intention of climbing high, and Sheng Hong does not have the mentality of selling women for glory, otherwise as Qi Heng's father said, it is not impossible to marry into the palace as a side concubine. And Mo Lan is not only a solid concubine identity, and grew up around the little bride, the ancient family paid special attention to the origin of the daughter-in-law, just as Minglan said to Xiao Shen, just by having a concubine to raise this, good people have to retreat, not to mention that Mo Lan learned her little concubine as a ten percent.
Although it is ridiculous to use a concubine as a pawn to be the right head lady, although Liang Han is not the eldest son of a concubine, he does not need to support the family business, so whether he gave birth to five daughters in the original work or Liang Han supported Mo Lan for Lin Xiaoniang's tablet in the TV series, it shows that Mo Lan has really done a good job in co-opting her husband.
Mo Lan's final rebellion was not only to blame her for the failure of her little girl's education, on the contrary, but also thanks to some of her little bride's style, she let her envelop her man. Her failure lies in her poor personality, and she is far inferior to her little bride in dealing with people.
As the daughter of a sinner, although Lin Shi did a very disgusting job in hooking up with Sheng Hong, he failed to live up to the nurturing grace of Mrs. Sheng. But she always knew that her status was low, and if she wanted to get some of what she wanted, she had to lower her means and fight for it cheekily. Mo Lan was different, because the little girl had been a home in the Sheng family for a while, and had lived a life that was more honorable than a concubine, she felt that she was a concubine, and she felt that she could despise everything. Although in men, she learned some of Lin Xiaoniang's means, blindly obeying men's minds, and what men want to do, she is satisfied. But she forgot that while her little bride charmed her father, there was also her grandmother and the head of the house, Wang Shi, who always reminded her father of her identity and responsibility.
Of course, when encountering a man like Liang Han who is not strong in heart and has no pursuit, a good wife is also torturing each other, and a wife like Mo Lan is more suitable for him, eating and drinking, and having fun for a lifetime. Lady Wu always wanted to find a smart and decent woman to control her son and let him be motivated, but she forgot that her mother could not manage her son well, how could others manage well, men themselves were not motivated, who could help him up, Mo Lan did not want him to be motivated, and did he get a meritorious name?
Therefore, even if Mo Lan uses the means of a concubine to be a proper wife, because he is a husband like Liang Han, there is actually no big mistake. Relying on brothers and sisters-in-law and the family to sit and eat and wait for death, how many young sons of the family are not like this! But Mo Lan's sadness lies in the fact that she has done too poorly in other aspects except for attracting men.
She only knew that her little bride was favored, but she forgot that with the excellent Changbai, her brother would never become the future head of the Sheng family, she could not decide who her mother was, but she could decide how to get along with her brothers and sisters. Although Chang Bai hated Lin Xiaoniang, when he should urge Chang Feng to advance, he did not shirk his brother's responsibility in the slightest, but if Fan Molan could have a fraction of Minglan's cognition, he should know that he should have a good relationship with Chang Bai, even if he did not do a good relationship, he should not deteriorate the relationship. Especially because she got married and her little bride was beaten to death, she should have made a small plea for the crime because she almost lost the reputation of the Sheng family's female dependents.
But she didn't, she still felt that she was the fourth girl of the Sheng family when the little girl was there, casually bullying such as Lan Minglan, and no one in the Sheng family could do anything with her Sheng Molan. She never thought of having a good relationship with her mother's family, but when she had needs, such as when she couldn't get pregnant, she thought of her mother's family and grandmother, but she didn't think about why people didn't help her, and she just felt as if others should revolve around her. Her little lady also knows how to sell miserably, eat some losses, and even win the sympathy of her father to achieve the goal, but Mo Lan always feels that she does not do anything, others should hold her like, and do not know where the confidence comes from.
For the mother's family, the treatment of the servants around them is also the ultimate. Lin Xiaoniang just has a thousand kinds of bad, and she is generous to the people below. If you want the horse to run, you must give the horse enough grass, but Mo Lan actually covets the moon profit of his own close-fitting beard, which is to want the horse to run and not give the horse grass, and he holds the deed of sale of others and does whatever he wants. Just as the so-called where there is oppression, there will be resistance, afraid of the useless people around, to prevent the beard from marrying, the mane followed her man, and dug a pit for herself.
Snow Niang was broken because she climbed a high branch, and fell into a miserable end, but as long as she is a little kind, giving some broken silver is also considered to be a master servant, and although that person makes us hate because she stands in the wrong line, as a subordinate, she does her best to solve the problems for the main son, and has to say that she is also a good person. In her eyes, only when she can use you, she is willing to say two soft words to you, otherwise you are nothing in her eyes, I really don't know what I have no ability to do, and I think others should hold what is in her head.
When it came to participating in Minglan's son's full moon wine, it was even more speechless about Mo Lan's badness, Liang Han, a playboy brother, at first said not to go, and then let Mo Lan go, which is enough to show that he is born with political sensitivity as a son of the family. But Mo Lan was like a pig brain, he only knew how to blindly ridicule Minglan, but he forgot that the skinny camel was bigger than Ma, if Gu Tingye really suffered, what did Zhang And Xiao Shen do? Not to take advantage of this opportunity to make friends with some high-society people, just thinking about watching jokes.
The heart is thinner than the fate of the heavens, although Mo Lan is not as thin as the paper, but obviously she has good luck, although she was born as a maid, but the little bride is favored, although the means are not glorious, but also as desired to marry into the high gate, it can be said that this is the person who is favored by heaven, but the person is too bad, the heavens can't see it, and they have to take back the good for her.
People, have a good life and good luck, but also know how to operate, good at grasping this good fate, so as not to live up to the love of heaven, like Mo Lan, who is not willing to pay half a point, just want to blindly ask for people, that is, God is his mother, and there will always be a day that he can't see it!
"One life, two luck, three skills", a person who has two of these three factors, a lifetime can be fed and clothed, Mo Lan can be said to have the first two items, but no matter how big the good luck and good life can not stand too bad way of doing people! People with fate and luck, it is more important to cherish this good luck!