In the original work of "Knowing or Not", in addition to the wife Wang Ruofu, the woman of Sheng Shao also has a concubine room, such as Lin Wanshuang, Wei Xiaoniang, And Aunt Xiang.
Lin Xiaoshuang is the most favored aunt, Sheng Xuan believes that the two have love existence, is very fond of it, gave her an inheritance, so that she can raise her own children, therefore, Lin Xiaoshuang in the Sheng family is very decent, and even can suppress his wife Wang Ruofu.
Sheng Shao's favored concubine destroyed his wife, giving Lin Qishuang arrogance and ignorance of the thickness of the sky, Lin Xishuang almost ruined the future of the Sheng family in order to let his daughter Sheng Molan climb the high branches, and also offended Sheng Shao, and was sent down to the village by Mrs. Sheng, and never saw the day again.
In order to make his plot succeed, Lin Qiao Shuang better grasped Sheng Xuan, and specially let ju fang, who was around him, serve Sheng Xuan during the national mourning period and become pregnant, once this matter was leaked out, Sheng Shao's future would be over. Mrs. Sheng immediately made a decision, persuaded Ju Fang to give up the child, and gave her an aunt, making her the most favored concubine of the Sheng family after Lin Yanshuang.
As for Aunt Xiang, she was originally Wang Ruofu's dowry and grew up with Wang Ruofu, and Wang Ruofu, in order to deal with Lin Wanshuang, shared her favor and opened her face to Aunt Xiang, and Aunt Xiang gave birth to her son Sheng Changdong.
Minglan nodded, Aunt Xiang can be said to be a model of the concubine room, cautious duty, do not dare to start half a crooked heart, in the Sheng family is the housekeeper or the mother who has a face are more decent than her.
As a concubine with a son leaning over, the reason why Aunt Xiang is not as good as the housekeeper is not only because she is not beautiful, does not understand the style, and cannot get the favor of Sheng Shao, but also because of her "indisputable" attitude.
01. Aunt Xiang knew that Sheng Shao, Wang Ruofu, and Lin Wanshuang were the best way for her to keep herself and her son.
Aunt Xiang honestly divided her life, never dared to compete for favors, even if the favored concubine Lin Yanshuang had been disposed of, and later the main mother Wang Ruofu went to Yuyang's hometown to atone for her sins, Aunt Xiang still did not dare to compete for favors, and continued to stand in front of Shengxuan's house, open the curtain, and bring water to deliver tea.
The son married the high-gate daughter-in-law Shen Xiuqiao, Aunt Xiang not only did not pose, but even the daughter-in-law's name would not be called directly, she has always been called "the fourth grandmother", treating her respectfully and politely, and there is not much difference between the third grandmother Liu Shi, and never saying more to the things in the house of her own son. Even, before Shen Xiuqiao entered the door, Aunt Xiang specially proposed to Sheng Xuan that she send all the rooms in Sheng Changdong's house.
Aunt Xiang seems to live a humble and hard life, but in fact it is because she has self-knowledge. Aunt Xiang knew that Sheng Shao, Wang Ruofu, and Lin Wanshuang were the best way for her to keep herself and her son.
First, what kind of person the main mother, King Ruofu, was, Aunt Xiang knew very well.
Mother Cui suggested that the pregnant Sheng Minglan let the lady next to her open her face, and when she was waiting for Gu Tingye, Sheng Minglan took Aunt Xiang as an example.
Mother Cui was cold and did not prevent Minglan from suddenly mentioning this, for a moment at a loss, Minglan added: "Aunt Xiang used to be a close servant of the wife, and she grew up with her, I heard that the master and servant used to be good like sisters." But then... After Aunt Xiang opened her face, the wife began to avoid her, and the two were also separated. After many years, after Aunt Xiang gave birth to six younger brothers, the idea was long gone. ”
Once a woman has her own flesh and bones, she will naturally look to her own children, thinking of protecting the interests of her children as much as possible and guarding against his competitors, Aunt Xiang is born with a son, and can divide the family property, originally because Lin Jiaoshuang hated Wang Ruofu, who hated her sons and daughters, would guard against Aunt Xiang's mother and son, which was normal.
Aunt Xiang's deeds are all in Wang Ruofu's hands, Wang Ruofu can not dispose of Lin Ruofeng at will, but can find trouble for her, therefore, Aunt Xiang can only keep her existing life if she is cautious and cautious, as far as possible not to provoke Wang Ruofu's unhappiness.
"Who says it's not?" Mother Cui sighed and said, "It is also Aunt Xiang who can endure, no matter how badly she eats and wears, never complains about half a sentence, only says that the wife is good in front of people, even the sixth young master, does not dare to take half of the master's money, the wife has only allowed their mother and son." ”
Sheng Changdong did not know a few words before reading Mr. Zhuang's class, and had to ask for help from Sheng Minglan, before The Hai clan married over, Aunt Xiang's mother and son did not even have the treatment they deserved, but Aunt Xiang did not dare to complain in the slightest, and could only choose to endure and let the main mother tolerate their mother and son.
Second, the favored concubine Lin Yanshuang is a fierce person who cannot tolerate the existence of stumbling blocks.
Why did Lin Jiaoshuang kill Wei Xiaoniang? The answer is obvious, only because Wei Xiaoniang threatened her position.
Wei Xiaoniang was born in a cultivating family, very beautiful, talented, and loved by Sheng Shao, if Wei Xiaoniang has a son and a daughter like Lin Xiaoshuang, she is bound to be further favored by ShengXuan, and Lin Xiaoniang can tolerate it?
In the same way, Aunt Xiang already had a son, if she was not favored, Sheng Xuan had no feelings for her, and she was not a threat to Lin Qishuang, and she and Sheng Changdong were only afraid that they would not be able to escape Lin Xiangshuang's poisonous hands.
Third, Sheng Xuan has no feelings for her, and even if she is wronged, she will not uphold justice for her.
Wei Xiaoniang was killed by Lin Jiaoshuang, one corpse and two lives, Sheng Xuan obviously knew that Lin Jiaoshuang could not be separated from this matter, but still could not bear to punish Lin Jiaoshuang. If the main mother, Wang Ruofu or Lin Wanshuang, preyed on Aunt Xiang's mother and son, would Sheng Xuan do justice for them? I'm afraid it's hard.
Only by not arguing can we let ourselves live well, and only by living can we have hope.
02. Compared to Lin Wanshuang, her indisputable is great wisdom, remember, the contented person is always happy.
Although Aunt Xiang was the worst concubine, and she was not yet decent compared to the next person, she was happy in the evening, and the ending was a hundred times stronger than Lin Jiaoshuang.
Lin Jiaoshuang fought for most of his life, everywhere with his wife Wang Ruofu did not want to go, instigated his son to compete with his concubine for the limelight, and in the end, the bamboo basket hit the water empty, was disgusted by Sheng Shao, was locked up, became a fat pig woman, and never saw the light of day again.
Although Ju Fang was favored by Sheng Xuan, she did not have children, and when she got old, she did not know who to rely on.
Sheng Changdong, the son of Aunt Xiang, became a two-ranked scholar, obtained a meritorious name, and married a virtuous daughter-in-law. Shen Xiuqiao was well-behaved and sensible, and he respected Aunt Xiang very much, treated her as a mother and honored her, and took good care of her when she was sick. Even if the family is separated, Aunt Xiang's children and grandchildren are full, and she can live a comfortable life.
"My aunt will take care of my body, live a long life, separate us from home, and point out to my aunt to teach me how to live and teach my children."
The contented one is always happy, and the indisputable nature of Aunt Xiang is great wisdom.
First of all, she can clear herself, know her own situation, know her own ability, those glory and wealth she can't compete for, can't keep, rather than risk being targeted by others, it is better to keep what exists.
Secondly, she knows that it is better to rely on others than on herself, and her happiness is all pinned on her son, and she has cultivated her son Sheng Changdong into a self-motivated and filial piety person.
In the end, she knew how to cherish blessings, treat people sincerely, treat her daughter-in-law Shen Xiuqiao kindly, and finally keep the clouds open and see the moon.
Contented people are always happy, do not worry about things that do not belong to them, and try to keep the happiness they have obtained, which is also a great wisdom of life.
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